The hoors of jannah
The Houris (hoors/hoor al-Ayn) have variously been described as being “chaste females”, “restraining their glances”, “modest gaze”, “wide and beautiful/lovely eyes”, “untouched / with hymen unbroken by sexual intercourse”, “like pearls”, “virgins”, “voluptuous/full-breasted”, “with large, “non-menstruating/urinating/defecating and childfree”, round breasts which are not inclined to hang”, “companions of equal age”, “transparent to the marrow of their bones”, “eternally young”, “hairless” , “pure”, “beautiful”, “white”, “revirginating”, “splendid beauty”.
Now you can read some verses of the Holy Quran mentioning the attributes of Houris (Hoor al-ayn/Hurs):
“And with them will be chaste females, restraining their glances (desiring none except their husbands), with wide and beautiful eyes; (Delicate and pure) as if they were (hidden) eggs (well) preserved.” [Sura As-Sâffât (37):40-48]
“And beside them will be chaste females (virgins) restraining their glances only for their husbands, (and) of equal ages.” [Sura Sâd (38):52]
“So (it will be), and We shall marry them to Houris (female fair ones) with wide, lovely eyes.” [Sura Ad-Dukhân (44):51-55]
“They will recline (with ease) on thrones arranged in ranks. And We shall marry them to Houris (female, fair ones) with wide lovely eyes.” [Sura At-Tûr (52):20]
“Wherein both (gardens) will be those (maidens) restraining their glances upon their husbands, whom no man or jinn yatmithhunna (has opened their hymens with sexual intercourse) before them. Then which of the Blessings of your Lord will you both (jinns and men) deny? (In beauty) they are like rubies and coral.” [Sura Ar-Rahmân (55):56-58]
“Therein (gardens) will be fair (wives) good and beautiful; …Houris (beautiful, fair females) restrained in pavilions; …Whom no man or jinn yatmithhunna (has opened their hymens with sexual intercourse) before them.” [Sura Ar-Rahmân (55):70,72,74]
“And (there will be) Houris (fair females) with wide, lovely eyes (as wives for the pious), Like unto preserved pearls.” [Sura Al-Wâqi’ah (56):22-23]
Verily, We have created them (maidens) of special creation. And made them virgins; Loving (their husbands only), equal in age. [Sura Al-Wâqi’ah (56):37-40]
And young full-breasted (mature) maidens of equal age; [Sura An-Naba’ (78):33]
Now you can read some Hadiths regarding the attributes of Houris (Hur ul-ayn/Hoors):
Allâh (SWT) says in the Holy Quran:
“Houris (beautiful, fair females) restrained in pavilions
…With Whom no man or jinn “yatmithhunna” (has opened their hymens with sexual intercourse) before them.” [Sura Ar-Rahmân (55):72,74]
“The statement of Allah in above mentioned ayah, Beautiful fair females restrained in pavilions. Narrated Qaisi, Allah’s Apostle said, ‘In Paradise there is a pavilion made of a single hollow pearl sixty miles wide, in each corner there are wives (houris) who will not see those in the other corners; and the believers (Muslims) will visit and enjoy them.’” [Al-Bukhari vol.6:402 and prior p.374]
According to Ibn Kathir (died 1373 CE) in his Holy Quranic commentary (Tafsir) of the above mentioned Surah Al-Rahman (55), verse 72: “The Prophet Muhammad was heard saying: ‘The smallest reward for the people of paradise is an abode where there are 80,000 servants and 72 wives (houris), over which stands a dome decorated with pearls, aquamarine, and ruby, as wide as the distance from Al-Jabiyyah [a Damascus suburb] to Sana’a [Yemen]’.” [Tafsir Ibn Kathir]
The Prophet (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said, “If a houri looks down from her abode in heaven onto the earth, the whole distance (space) shall be filled with light and fragrance. A houri’s face is more radiant than a mirror, and one can see one’s image in her cheek. The marrow of her shins is visible to the eyes.” [Mishkat, volume 3,pg 83-97]
Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet said, “The first batch (of people) who will enter Paradise will be (glittering) like the full moon, and the batch next to them will be (glittering) like the most brilliant star in the sky. Their hearts will be as if the heart of a single man, for they will have neither enmity nor jealousy amongst themselves; everyone will have two wives from the houris, (who will be so beautiful, pure and transparent that) the marrow of the bones of their legs will be seen through the bones and the flesh.” [Al-Bukhari vol.4, book 54, number 476]
Narrated Anas (R.A.): The Prophet (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said, “A single endeavor (of fighting) in Allah’s Cause in the afternoon or in the forenoon is better than all the world and whatever is in it. A place in Paradise as small as the bow or lash of one of you is better than all the world and whatever is in it. And if a houri from Paradise appeared to the people of the earth, she would fill the space between Heaven and the Earth with light and pleasant scent and her head cover is better than the world and whatever is in it.” [Al-Bukhari volume 4, book 52, number 53]
Narrated Abu Huraira: Allah’s Apostle said, “The first group of people who will enter Paradise, will be glittering like the full moon and those who will follow them, will glitter like the most brilliant star in the sky. They will not urinate, relieve nature, spit, or have any nasal secretions. Their combs will be of gold, and their sweat will smell like musk. The aloes-wood will be used in their centers. Their wives will be houris. All of them will look alike and will resemble their father Adam (in statute), sixty cubits tall.” [Al-Bukhari vol.4, book 55, number 544]
The Prophet (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said: “A houri is a most beautiful young woman with a transparent body. The marrow of her bones is visible like the interior lines of pearls and rubies. She looks like red wine in a white glass. She is of white color, and free from the routine physical disabilities of an ordinary woman such as menstruation, menopause, urinal and offal discharge, child bearing and the related pollution. A houri is a girl of tender age, having large breasts which are round (pointed), and not inclined to dangle. Houris dwell in palaces of splendid surroundings.” [At-Tirmizi, volume 2, pg 35-40]
In book by the great Imam Ghazzali: Ihya Uloom Ed-Din. Volume 4, Page-4.430;
“According to Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) the Hurs (Houris) of Paradise will be pure women—free of menstruation, urine, stool, cough and children. The Hurs will sing in Paradise on divine purity and praise—we are most beautiful Hurs and we are for the honored husbands. Muhammad also said that an inmate of Paradise will have the sexual strength of 70 men. Muhammad said, “An inmate of Paradise will have 500 Hurs, 4,000 unmarried women and 8,000 widowed women. Each of them will keep embracing him for the duration of his whole worldly life.”
Volume 4, Page-4.428 of the same book: The Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said once to Jaber: “Shall I not give you the news of the windows of Paradise ? We said: 0 Messenger of God give us that information. He said: Those are made of emeralds and jewels. Their inner parts will be seen from their outer parts. Therein there will be such enjoyments, amusements and joys as no eye has seen, no ear has heard and no heart has conceived. I said: 0 Messenger of God, who will be the owners of those windows? He said: Those who spread peace, give food, keep fasts, pray at night when the people remain asleep. We asked: 0 Messenger of God, who will be able to do that? He said: My people will be able to do that. I am saying it to you. He who meets his brother, salutes him and replies to his salute,’ spreads peace; and he who gives food to his wife and members of his family to their satisfaction gives food. He, who keeps fast of Ramazan and three days every month, keeps fast as it were for the whole year. He who prays Isha and Fajr in congregation prays as it were the whole night when the people remain asleep. God says: The fine buildings in Eden Paradise.’ The Prophet said regarding its meanings: These places are builts of emeralds and jewels and in each building there will be 70 rooms of red colour and in each room 70 sub-rooms of green colour and in each sub-room there will be one throne and over each throne 70 beds of varied colours and on each bed a hoor al-ayn (houri- a girl having wide lovely eyes with intense black irises). There will be 70 dining cloth in each room and 70 kinds of food in each dining cloth. There will be seven girls in each room.Each believer will be given such strength in the morning as he can cohabit with them”.
Abu ‘Umama (Allah be pleased with him) reported that Allah’s Messenger (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said: “Allah will not admit anyone in the Paradise but Allah, the Mighty and glorious will marry him with 72 wives, two will be from virgin (houris) with big eyes and 70 will be his inheritance from the people of the Hell-Fire*.” Every one of them will have a pleasant vagina and he (the man) will have sexual organ that does not bend down during sexual intercourse (perpetual erection).” [Ibn Majah, volume 5, number 4337]
*Hashim b. Khalid (R.A.) says, ‘The words “out of his inheritance (due) from the denizens of the Fire”, mean men who will enter the Fire (Hell) and the inmates of the paradise will inherit their wives just as the Faroah’s wife (Asiah A.S.) will be inherited (by the Muslims-believers).
Mention of the hope of maidens of paradise after martyrdom in Al-Tabari vol.19 p.121; “Yet, by God, I feel happy for what we shall soon meet, for, by God, if all there is between us and the maidens of Paradise (hur al-ayn/houri) is that these people should come against us with their swords, then I want them to come against us with their swords.”
Abu Hurayrah (R.A.) narrated that the Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said that: “Every man in heaven will go to 72 of the creatures of Allah (houris) and 2 of the women of mankind, these two women are superior to the creatures of Allah (houris) with their worshipping (good deeds) they had performed in this world.” [Bayhaqi, al-Bas wa’n-Nushur; Tabari, Tafsir; Abu Yala, Ibn Hajar, Fathu’l-Baari, Tabarani and others]
Houris do not want wives to annoy their husbands, since the houris will also be the spouses [i.e. wives] of the Muslim husbands in the afterlife; —”Mu’adh b. Jobal (R.A.) reported that Allah’s Messenger (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said, ‘A woman does not annoy her husband but his spouse from amongst the houris (maidens with wide eyes, intensely white and deeply black irises) will say: Do not annoy him, may Allah ruin you.” He is with you as a passing guest. Very soon, he will part with you and come to us.’” [Ibn-i-Majah vol.3:2014 p.212]
Now from the above mentioned verses of Holy Quran and Hadiths we can summarize the characteristics of Houris (Hoors/Hur al-ayn) as follows;
* A houri is a most beautiful young woman with a transparent body. The marrow of her bones is visible like the interior lines of pearls and rubies. She looks like a red wine in a white glass.
* She is of white color, and free from the routine physical disabilities of an ordinary woman such as menstruation, menopause, urinal and offal discharge, child bearing and the related pollution.
* She is a woman characterized by modesty and flexing glances; she never looks at any man except her husband and feels grateful for being the wife of her husband.
* A houri is a young woman, free from odium and animosity. Besides, she knows the meaning of love and has the ability to put it into practice.
* A houri is an immortal woman, who does not age. She speaks softly and does not raise voice at her man; she is always reconciled with him. Having been brought up in luxury, she is a luxury herself.
* A houri is a girl of tender age, having large rising breasts which are round, and not inclined to dangle.
* Houris dwell in palaces of splendid surroundings.
* If a houri looks down from her abode in Heaven onto the earth, the whole distance shall be filled with light and fragrance
* A houri’s face is more radiant than a mirror and one can see one’s image in her cheek. The marrow of her shins is visible to the eyes.
* Every man who enters Paradise shall be given minimum seventy-two houris; no matter at what age he had died, when he enters Paradise, he will become a thirty-year-old and he will not age any further.
* Their glances, with big eyes (Of wonder and beauty)
* when a man turns his face away from her, she will become 70 times more beautiful in his eyes
* if she were to spit in the salty water of the seven occeans, then all the seven occeans would turn sweater than honey.
Also note that the Muslim women of this world will be superior to Houris (Hoors/Hur al-ayn) in Paradise:
*Definition of Houris (hoors/hur al-ayn) from Noble Quran:
“Very fair females created by Allah as such not from the off-spring of Adam, with intense black irises of their eyes and intense white scleras”. [Noble Quran; Glossary; Houris]
So it is obvious that houris (hoor al-Ayn) will be different from the off-springs of the Prophet Adam (A.S.), and as humans are the most superior creation of Allah (SWT) so Muslim women are superior to houris just like we as humans are superior to Jinns, Angels and all other creatures of Allah (SWT) that exist. So a hoori who is one of the delights of Paradise, she has only been created in Paradise for the sake of someone else, and has been made the reward for the believing man for his righteous deeds.
But for Muslim women, they themselves are from the off-springs of Adam and the rewards of Paradise are created for them and on the contrary houris (hoors/hur al-ayn) themselves are from the rewards of Paradise.
Therefore it is clear that Muslim women will not feel jealous of the houris (hoor al-Ayn) as righteous women of this world will be much more superior and beautiful than houris (hoor al-Ayn), in Jannah (Paradise). Thus the Muslim women of this worldly life have superiority over houris (hoor al-Ayn) due to the acts of worship and obedience that they performed in this world. Therefore, the believing (Muslim) women will enter Paradise just like the believing men. If a Muslim woman had a number of husbands, she, upon entering Paradise with them, would choose among them the one with the best character and behavior.
The following two Hadiths confirms the fact stated above:
Umme Salamah (Radiahallahu Anha) narrates that she said to the Prophet Muhammad (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) “O Rasûlullah, are the women of this world superior or the hûrs (of Paradise)?” He replied, “The women of this world will have superiority over the hûrs (houris) just as the outer lining of a garment has superiority over the inner lining.” Umme Salamah R.A then asked, “O Rasûlullah, what is the reason for this?” He answered, “Because they performed salâh, fasted, and worshipped [Allah]. Allah will put light on their faces and silk on their bodies. [The human women] will be fair in complexion and will wear green clothing and yellow jewelry. Their incense-burners will be made of pearls and their combs will be of gold. They will say, ‘We are the women who will stay forever and we will never die. We are the women who will always remain in comfort and we will never undergo difficulty. We are the women who will stay and we will never leave. Listen, we are happy women and we will never become sad. Glad tidings to those men for whom we are and who are for us.’” [Tabrânî]
Al-Qurtubi said: Abu Bakr ibn al-Najjaad said: Ja’far ibn Muhammad ibn Shaakir told us, ‘Ubayd ibn Ishaaq al-‘Attaar told us, Sinaan ibn Haaroon told us, from Humayd from Anas that: Umm Habeebah the wife of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “O Messenger of Allaah, if a woman had two husbands in this life, then they all died and came together in Paradise, with which of them would she be – the first or the last?” He said: “With the one whose attitude and conduct with her was best, O Umm Habeebah; a good attitude brings one the best of this world and the Hereafter.”[Al-Tadhkirah fi Ahwaal al-Mawtaa wa’l-Aakhirah, 2/278]
Imam Qurtubi in his “at-Tadhkirah fi-Ahwalil Mawta wa’l-Akhirah (in Remembrance of the Affairs of the Dead and Doomsday)” and Ibn Kathir in his “al-Bidaya wa’n-Nihaya (Kitabu’l-Fitan wa’l-Malahim) the Termination of the Afflictions and Fierce Battles” tell the story of the songs of houri in heaven: “Houri will sing for their own husbands, songs are so marvelous that every hearer will be so pleased. Houri will say: “We are Houri who has not had a sin.” The women of this world will reply them saying: “We are the fasters (who keep fast), and you are not, we are the prayers, but you are not and we are the givers of charity but you are not.”
And there is another narration which is famous with the name “Hadith of Soor” narrated from Abu Hurayrah (R.A.) that the Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said that: “Every man in heaven will go to 72 of the creatures of Allah (houris) and 2 of the women of mankind, these two women are superior to the creatures of Allah (houris) with their worshipping (good deeds) they had performed in this world.” [Bayhaqi, al-Bas wa’n-Nushur; Tabari, Tafsir; Abu Yala, Ibn Hajar, Fathu’l-Baari, Tabarani and others]
Now some people, mostly non-muslims still ask a question that: there will be multiple wives or houris (hoor al-Ayn/hur ul-Ayn/hoors/hurs) in Islamic Paradise for Muslim men then what is for Muslim women?
As stated in above mentioned Hadiths the situation of the believing woman in Paradise will be better than the situation of the houris (hoor al-Ayn); she will be higher in status and more beautiful. If a righteous woman from among the people of this world enters Paradise, then she will do so as a reward for her righteous deeds and as an honor from Allah to her for her religious commitment and righteousness. As for the houri who is one of the delights of Paradise, is an immortal woman, who does not age. She speaks softly and does not raise voice at her man; she is always reconciled with him. Having been brought up in luxury, she is a luxury herself, she has only been created in Paradise for the sake of someone else, and has been made the reward for the believing man for his righteous deeds. There is a great difference between one who enters Paradise as a reward for her righteous deeds and the one who was created as a reward for one who did righteous deeds. The former is a queen and a princess, and the latter, no matter how beautiful she is, is undoubtedly lower in status than a queen, and she (houri) is subject to the command of her believing master (man) for whom Allah created her as a reward.
The main reason why the Quran and Hadith are stressing the fact that men will get Houris (Hoor al-Ayn) is because it more appealing to men than promising virgin men to women. Men are more sexually active and therefore are facing a lot of difficulty (especially in the teenage years) to remain chaste. There are a lot of temptations in this world. That is why that Allah keeps promising these virgin girls to those that remain patient and steadfast. That way, this motivates the unmarried men to remain chaste and be patient because they know they have something better waiting for them in the next life. As if they do not get it legally in the next life then they would get it illegally in this life.
Now with all these proofs you can easily invalidate the argument made by some non-muslims that women will not get any benefits out of the Islamic Paradise. The men and women are equal in the sight of Allah (SWT) except for those whom are more pious. Just because they’re equal doesn’t mean they’re exactly the same. They have physical, mental and emotional differences. Men have superiority over women in certain aspects such as physical strength, while women have more superiority over men from a caring and nurturing perspective. In the same manner, like our differences, they may have rewards that are different from one another, but that in no way suggest inequality. For instance, if you want to reward your son for something, perhaps you’ll let him play a video game for example, whereas if you want to reward your daughter, perhaps you’ll let her invite her friend over, or buy her something nice.
Therefore, men and women have different needs and wants so obviously rewards would differ. But overall the rewards for both men and women will be equal (but not same) as Allah (SWT) says in the following verses of the Holy Quran:
“And whoever does righteous good deeds, male or female, and is a true believer in the Oneness of Allâh (Muslim), such will enter Paradise and not the least injustice, even to the size of a Naqîra (speck on the back of a datestone), will be done to them.” [Surah An-Nisâ’ (4):194]
“Whoever works righteousness, whether male or female, while he (or she) is a true believer (of Islâmic Monotheism) verily, to him We will give a good life (in this world with respect, contentment and lawful provision), and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do (i.e. Paradise in the Hereafter).” [Surah An-Nahl (16):97:]
Now following are some Hadiths mentioning the number of the Hoors (houris) that Muslims will get in addition to the wives of this world in Paradise:
According to Ibn Kathir (died 1373 CE) in his Holy Quranic commentary (Tafsir) of the above Surah Al-Rahman (55), verse 72: “The Prophet Muhammad was heard saying: ‘The smallest reward for the people of paradise is an abode where there are 80,000 servants and 72 wives (houris), over which stands a dome decorated with pearls, aquamarine, and ruby, as wide as the distance from Al-Jabiyyah [a Damascus suburb] to Sana’a [Yemen]’.” [Tafsir Ibn Kathir]
The Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said: “Every man who enters paradise shall be given 72 (seventy-two) houris; no matter at what age he had died, when he is admitted into paradise, he will become a thirty-year-old, and shall not age any further. A man in paradise shall be given virility equal to that of one hundred men.” [Tirmizi, vol. 2 states on page 138]
Narrated Al-Miqdam ibn Ma’dikarib: Allah’s Messenger (peace be upon him) said, “The martyr receives six good things from Allah: he is forgiven at the first shedding of his blood; he is shown his abode in Paradise; he is preserved from the punishment in the grave; he is kept safe from the greatest terror; he has placed on his head the crown of honour, a ruby of which is better than the world and what it contains; he is married to 72 wives of the maidens with large dark eyes (houris); and is made intercessor for seventy of his relatives.” [Tirmidhi:Hadith number 1067; and Ibn Majah]
In a book by the great Imam Ghazzali (R.A.): The Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said once to Jaber: “Shall I not give you the news of the windows of Paradise ? We said: 0 Messenger of God give us that information. He said: Those are made of emeralds and jewels. Their inner parts will be seen from their outer parts. Therein there will be such enjoyments, amusements and joys as no eye has seen, no ear has heard and no heart has conceived. I said: 0 Messenger of God, who will be the owners of those windows? He said: Those who spread peace, give food, keep fasts, pray at night when the people remain asleep. We asked: 0 Messenger of God, who will be able to do that? He said: My people will be able to do that. I am saying it to you. He who meets his brother, salutes him and replies to his salute,’ spreads peace; and he who gives food to his wife and members of his family to their satisfaction gives food. He, who keeps fast of Ramazan and three days every month, keeps fast as it were for the whole year. He who prays Isha and Fajr in congregation prays as it were the whole night when the people remain asleep. God says: The fine buildings in Eden Paradise.’ The Prophet said regarding its meanings: These places are builts of emeralds and jewels and in each building there will be 70 rooms of red colour and in each room 70 sub-rooms of green colour and in each sub-room there will be one throne and over each throne 70 beds of varied colours and on each bed a hoor al-ayn (houri- a girl having wide lovely eyes with intense black irises). There will be 70 dining cloth in each room and 70 kinds of food in each dining cloth. There will be seven girls in each room.Each believer will be given such strength in the morning as he can cohabit with them”. [Ihya Uloom Ed-Din.Volume 4, Page-4.428]
*From above mentioned Hadith a simple calculation will show that each believer will get 343,000 wives from houris (hur al-ayn) i.e: 70*70*70 = 343,000 houris/hoor al-ayn.
Narrated from Abu Hurayra (R.A.) that the Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) was asked: “O RasulAllah (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم)! Will we touch our wives in heaven? He (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) replied: A man will touch 100 virgins a day.” [Tabarani, al-Mucam as-Saghir & Awsat]
Narrated from Anas (R.A.) that the Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said: “A believer man will have 73 wives in heaven. We asked him (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم): Will he able to do (i.e. have sex with all of them) this? And He (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) replied: He will be given power of 100(men).” [Abu Na’eem Sifat al-Jannah]
Abu Hurayrah (R.A.) narrated that the Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said that: “Every man in heaven will go to 72 of the creatures of Allah (houris) and 2 of the women of mankind, these two women are superior to the creatures of Allah (houris) with their worshipping (good deeds) they had performed in this world.” [Bayhaqi, al-Bas wa’n-Nushur; Tabari, Tafsir; Abu Yala, Ibn Hajar, Fathu’l-Baari, Tabarani and others]
Doubtless, a believer will have many houris (hoor al-ayn/hoors/hurs) in heaven which are in addition to his wordly wives but exact number is not given.It implies that the people of Paradise will have these wives according to their degree i.e: those who are more pious will get more wives than others but as mentioned in the following Hadiths:
Abu ‘Umama (R.A.) reported that Allah’s Messenger (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said: “Allah will not admit anyone in the Paradise but Allah, the Mighty and glorious will marry him with 72 wives, two will be from virgin (houris/hoor al-ayn) with big eyes and seventy will be his inheritance from the people of the Hell-Fire*.” Every one of them will have a pleasant vagina and he (the man) will have sexual organ that does not bend down during sexual intercourse (perpetual erection).” [Ibn Majah, vol.v, page 547: Hadis number 4337]
*Hashim b. Khalid says, ‘The words “out of his inheritance (due) from the denizens of the Fire” in above stated Hadith, mean men who will enter the Fire and the inmates of the paradise will inherit their wives just as the Faroah’s wife (Aasiah R.A.) will be inherited (by the believers).
The Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) was heard saying: ‘The smallest reward for the people of paradise is an abode where there are 80,000 servants and 72 wives, over which stands a dome decorated with pearls, aquamarine, and ruby, as wide as the distance from Al-Jabiyyah [a Damascus suburb] to Sana’a [Yemen]’.” [Tafsir Ibn Kathir]
So that is the minimmum what every Muslim man in Paradise will get.
Another important aspect in Paradise is that: Not just the reward but the beauty of the people of Paradise will also go on increasing with time as mentioned in the following Hadith:
Narrated Anas (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) said, “In Jannah there is a market to which the people will come every Friday. The northern wind will blow and shower fragrance on their faces and clothes and, consequently, it will enhance their beauty and loveliness. They will then return to their wives who will also have increased in their beauty and loveliness, and their families will say to them: `We swear by Allah that you have been increased in beauty and loveliness since leaving us.’ Thereupon they will reply: `we swear by Allah that you have also been increased in beauty and loveliness since we left you.”’ [Sahih Muslim]
Bazaar, where everything will be available, free of cost. Similarly, people will gather there for a time period equal to that of Jumu`ah (friday), as there will be no sun, nor night and day. Another speciality of Jannah is that the beauty and charm of men and women will go on increasing and so the love and affection between husbands and wives will also keep on progressing and increasing. It will be just the opposite of what happens here in this world.
One Important Note (Must Read):
Some Non-Muslims point out to verses in the Qur’an, which speak about how Muslim men would be able to have sex with the Houris in paradise. Then they exclaim that this is immorality or fornication. However, we must pay close attention to what the Quran actually says…
Allâh (SWT) says in the Holy Quran:
“So (it will be), and We shall marry them to Houris (female fair ones) with wide, lovely eyes.” [Surah Ad-Dukhân (44):54]
“But those who believe (in the Oneness of Allâh – Islâmic Monotheism) and do deeds of righteousness, We shall admit them to Gardens under which rivers flow (Paradise), abiding therein forever. Therein they shall have Azwâjun Mutahharatun [purified mates or wives (having no menses, stools, urine, etc.)] and We shall admit them to shades wide and ever deepening (Paradise).” [Sura An-Nisâ’ (4): 57]
The word used here is AZWAAJ. In Arabic, it means spouse. Notice, the key word, SPOUSES. The houris (hoors/hurs) will be the wives of Muslim men in Paradise. If a man has sex with his wife, is that fornication? No, of course not, she is his spouse. So, if a man can legitimately have sex with his spouse here on earth, then why can’t a man legitimately have sex with his spouse in paradise.
Having said that, the gretest reward for the Muslim believers, men and women, in Jannah (Paradise) will be to view the Countenance (Apperance) of Allah (SWT). And for the believers there will be nothing more delightful than looking at Him;
This is mentioned in the following Hadiths:
Imam Ahmad recorded from Suhayb ibn Sinan ar-Rumi: The Messenger of Allah recited, (the words meaning), “For those who have done good is the best and even more.” [Sura Yunus, 26] He said, “When the people of Paradise enter Paradise, a caller will say: `O people of Paradise, Allah has promised you something that He wishes to fulfill.’ They will reply: `What is it Has He not made our Scale heavy Has He not made our faces white and delivered us from Fire?’ He (the narrater) said: “Allah will then remove the veil (from their eyes), and they will look at the Countenance (Appearance) of Allah, the Mighty, the Majestic.” He said, “By Allah, they have not been given anything dearer to them and more delightful than looking at Him.” [Tafsir Ibn Kathir, Muslim]
Narrated Suhayb ibn Sinan ar-Rumi: The Apostle of Allah said: “When those deserving of Paradise would enter Paradise, the Blessed and the Exalted would ask: Do you wish Me to give you anything more? They would say: Has You not brightened our faces? Has You not made us enter Paradise and saved us from Fire? He (the narrator) said: He (God) would lift the veil (from their eyes), and of things given to them nothing would be dearer to them than the sight of their Lord, the Mighty and the Glorious.” [Sahih Muslim, Book 1, Number 0347]
Doubtless we, the Muslim, men and women, are promissed to have what we want in Paradise (Jannah);
Allâh (SWT) says in the Holy Quran:
“Therein you shall have (all) that your inner selves desire, and therein you shall have (all) for which you ask for.” [Sura Fussilat 41:31-32]
“They shall have all that they will desire with their Lord. That is the reward of Muhsinûn (pious-good doers).” [Az-Zumar (39);34]
Therefore in Paradise a Muslim, wether male or female, will have every thing that they wish for and they will abide therein forever. So we should strive for this absolute success by doing good and righteous deeds. There are a lot of temptations in this world (mostly created by satan) from which we have to seek refuge with Allâh alone and fear Allâh much and abstain from all kinds of sins and evil deeds which He has forbidden. And for that matter we have put our trust completely in Allah (SWT).
“Verily! he (satan) has no power over those who believe and put their trust only in their Lord (Allâh).”
“His (satan’s) power is only over those who obey and follow him (satan), and those who join partners with Him (Allâh) [i.e. those who are Mushrikûn-polytheists].” [Sura An-Nahl (16);99,100]
“ALLAH KNOWS BEST”
ISLAM THE TRUE RELIGION OF ONE GOD 
What if my husband does not desire for hooris?
Often mentioning the houri are virgins and their breasts don’t dangle sounds like incel ideology.
Religion is for perverts.
May you be destroyed and live in misery
If that’s what you think, then I suppose you won’t have no problems if I inherit your your wife’s in jannah
I grew up within a Muslim household. Going to mosque, the male teachers would salivate talking about the houri.
In conclusion, the Quran was written by a pervert with incel mentality? LOL.
Lol. You wish for my life to be destroyed because I don’t agree with incel culture. May you remain a virgin forever 😂
then you won’t have a problem if I inherit your hoor al ayns in jannah
No religion is as $h!ttier as Islam. I mean it
Brother Yusuf had watched a very explicit movie before writing this description. According to him women in Islam will be sexual object with each body part described by him. Not pious but sexually pretty. I pity men!
So many people in the comments here think they understand the Qur’an and Hadith better than 1400 years of Islamic scholarship. You are not smarter or more knowledgeable than all of these countless scholars from our history. You can’t change the words of Allah and His Messenger just because it doesn’t make sense to you. In the end, everyone in Jannah will be happy and satisfied, so just relax and focus on more productive things.
Can I have a ime guy and otome games guy? I don’t want to r part ig harem. I just want to live in a castle with my beloved anime husbands and anime men hare. My dunya husband can have hoor or whatever, because I don’t want dunya men. Can I have this? Or i will stuck in a relationship that I don’t want?
It does not matter what you think. No “scholar” has been to Jannah and back. God has promised equal rewards for every person who makes it there.
I quote: “Therefore the word hoor has no specific gender. Mohammad Asad has translated the word hoor as spouse and Abdullah Yusuf Ali as companion. Therefore according to some scholars a man in paradise will have a hoor that is a beautiful maiden with beautiful big and lustrous eyes and a woman in paradise will get a man with beautiful big and lustrous eyes.”
There are a few that even translate hoor as something that is not even an actual being/creature. Not all “scholars” see Jannah as a big orgy for males, no matter how much unholy want that.
Plus, I don’t see how any man who wants to take his unholy and impure “desires” to the afterlife (and even expects them from God!) can even make it to such a pure place.
Why are houris created with transparent skin which seems not so interesting compared to the normal skin of worldly women here now?
Jannah is a place which no eye has ever seen and it is not easy for people of this world to understand the beauty of the next world. Allah’s Messenger did his best to explain what he saw and knew in a way that people like us could attempt to understand. When you see Jannah with the eyes Allah gives you in the next life, you will understand it better.
It’s beyond normal bro.There beauty is unexplainable, they are white(white is not transparent).Just work on getting there and they will be of whatever colour you want
In quran, it is said that everyone’s desire will be fulfilled. So if a woman wants to have sex with other man, it won’t be considered as sin bcoz the concept of sin only applies to this world as this world is a test .Besides there is no need to deny the hadith that says that a man will get muslim jannati women and many houris as wives. It simply means that those muslim jannati women will be with him at their own will. As for those women who do not wish to remain with the worldly husbands, they can fulfill their desire .May be Allah will create for them beautiful male partners or she can have her desires fulfilled with any jannati man she likes .Same is applied to men. Because the concept of sin is applied only to this world put forward as a test. But in jannah ,there will be no such forbidden things .Example: men will wear gold and silk in paradise. So consensual sex is also allowed in jannah . The hatred and jealousy of the people of jannah will be erased. But pure desires will remain. So a woman CAN satisfy her desire.
Such an ugly concept.
Which part is ugly? If you meant wanting to have wives is an ugly concept, do you mean that Prophets who have multiple wives or sex partners are ugly?
what do you mean by ugly concept ……………I think your quality of thinking is ugly
When allah can remove the emotion of jealously and enmity from the women who enter the jannah… Why can’t he make the men of jannah feel contented having sexual intercourse with only one wife. Allah says that there will be no feeling of hatred and jealousy amongst all the wives of[earthly and hoori] of the man because women will be designed that way in jannah. The why cant men be designed in such a manner that he doesn’t feel the need to have sexual intercourse with multiple partners.
Why are you questioning Allah? Who are you to tell Allah what to do? Allah has promised everyone that they will be happy in Jannah, so focus on getting into Jannah first.
Shaifa, It is because many men in the world already got the pleasure of having many multiple women in the world not only illegally but also legally too. Prophet Sulaiman (A) had 1000 legal sex partners. So if Jannah is restricted for men to have 1 woman, it will be worse than the world comparing with the men who had multiple sex partners at the same time. Another reason is: all men were tested by many women in the world. So why will men be restricted with only 1 wife in Jannah?
🙂 well replied!
allah will give hundereds of male power to the man so he can intercourse with all the wives
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This explains the real meaning of houries.
The one who made this video has no qualifications and no name and he has a very young voice. Just because someone has an opinion you like doesn’t mean his explanation is correct. He is looking only at the Qur’an and ignoring centuries of Islamic scholarship and the Sunnah and the Hadith. What kind of Muslim ignores the sayings of Allah’s Messenger when even Allah has said in the Qur’an to love and obey the Messenger?
Lol, does it bother you that it goes against sexually perverse translations and interpretations ? I wonder how many Muslim men would still follow Islam if all the misogynistic and perverse interpretations didn’t exist.
Excellent post…..
Amazing collection of Lottttttts of Hadeeth…
so much love broh… 🙂
Allah bless you… ❤
I am sick with people like this author ! And dont tell me about what jealous is ! Have u men never hav jealous with everything in this world when everything look unfair to u? When u already do everything to enter college but u fail while someone NOT suitable can enter college ? Dont u feel jealous when ur bro got new phone by ur dad and u got second hand? Why people like u made jealousy in a very very narrow and simplest meaning? Why this jealousy verse used by people like u to attack women as if women only will be redesign as robot with no feeeling. Astagfirullah ! No jealousy because everything is FAIR ! Why u feel jealous when everything is FAIR to you???!!!! Fair based on what? Fair based on what YOU DESIRE . Dont u understand, we have different desires? How bout people born bisexual ( hermaphrodite)? Just because Allah never mention it in qur’an, doesnt mean it doesnt exist ! Does Allah mentioned every creatures that He made in this Dunya in qur’an? If Allah does, tell me the spesicific and detailed EVERYcreatures that Allah ever made based on qur’an and hadith ! If u dont know everything creatures that Allah made with spesific and detailed in this dunya based on read qur’an & hadith while you live in dunya when u can see smell and touch this dunya. Then How can u describe detail all of paradise based on qur’an and hadith only? While u dont ever see it with your own eyes ( unseen)? Even Allah never mentioned spesific Jannah nor reward bout what women get, doesnt mean Jannah for women limit to only gold, clothes etc ! Why people made assumptsions about what women get in there and make limitation for their reward. And said ” this is what women desire” heeyyy who are you now huh? Are u know us ( women) better than Allah ?astagfirullah,,
Women don’t have sexual excitement as frequently as men. Who knows? Women might get excited in every leap year! Not joke, if they were excited as frequently as men, there must be same opportunity for men to earn money showing body like women which men cannot earn in reality.
If women were really excited like men, some of women would must paid money to have sex with men. But women never search for male prostitute. So women don’t need more than 1 husband.
If you are raped by a guy, and your f** ass gets ripped by men, I bet you would be moaning in pleasure, yeah? Do you even know what the term RAPE means??? If you don’t, then shut up and shove your stupid huri up your ass, so they’ll heal your f** ass. And don’t forget to moan like a dog in heat, ok? 🙂
If women really need men as frequently as men need women, so why don’t some women rape men? Yes women also have chance to black mail men in many ways. Such female Boss or teacher can black mail their male students and lower service holders to have sex with them. But women never try to have sex with anyone on their own.
If women really become as excited as men frequently, why do all women complain against the male rapists all the time? Don’t claim that all women are religiously better than all men. Because women are not averagely better than men in religiosity & Piety.
Well said, sister. There are even men that get jealous when their women find someone else attractive (and it happens, women also have desires). Here, read this:
Allah , mentioned the verses of lut in the quran concerning the family and species of all the deviated sex orientation from straight this are creatures and all there familly whether bisexexual or homo ,trans etc and straignt woman still cures them so stop your useless philosophy
I have read some comments and seen that some women here have the idea that just because a jannati man can have two worldly jannati wives means that they (the worldly women ,not the houris) will have to be confined in their home satisfying only their husband just like this world.Remember this world is a test for the believing men and believing women. The muslim women are ordered to guard their chastity from non mahram and obey the husband’s command ( if
the command is not contrary to islam) only to please Allah. If you are facing hardships, remember that you are striving for Allah’s cause.Remember controlling our nafs is the greatest jihad. Hazrat Fatima ( ru ) ,the daughter of Prophet Muhammad, and Hazrat Ali( ru) used to face many hardships in life.But they showed great patience and determination to pass this worly test.
However I have read a book in bengali called “ways of spiritual elevation “by S M Zakir hussain .It describes the steps of awliya allah. In this book , it is described that what is forbidden in this world, some of these will not be forbidden in jannah. Because these are forbidden in these world just as part of a test. So the book says , in the jannah any jannati can do sex with any jannati according to their wish .It will not be considered fornication as the rules of this world doesn’t apply to jannah. So just as western countries in this world , any jannati woman ( worldly women ,not the hur) who is married to her husband, can do sex with other man. Same is true for men. Also a very important fact is that we must understand a hadith in a proper way .Otherwise, the hadiths will seem to contradict. In some other hadith , I have read that a jannati women can choose to stay with her wordly husband (if he is jannati) or not to stay. So the hadith that mentions that a jannati man will have two believing wives of this world
actually means those two believing women will stay with him on their own will. So it is not impossible for a jannati woman to have the male counterpart of hur ( I have heard from an islamic teacher that they are called ‘gilmaan’ )
“I have read a book in bengali called “ways of spiritual elevation “by S M Zakir hussain”
he is misguided people on this topic
you cant deny the 1400 years old scholarship, not a single Islamic scholars has said women will have sex in jannah with any men
This is a misguidance.
It does not matter what you think. No “scholar” has been to Jannah and back. God has promised equal rewards for every person who makes it there.
I quote: “Therefore the word hoor has no specific gender. Mohammad Asad has translated the word hoor as spouse and Abdullah Yusuf Ali as companion. Therefore according to some scholars a man in paradise will have a hoor that is a beautiful maiden with beautiful big and lustrous eyes and a woman in paradise will get a man with beautiful big and lustrous eyes.”
There are a few that even translate hoor as something that is not even an actual being/creature. Not all “scholars” see Jannah as a big orgy for males, no matter how much unholy want that.
Plus, I don’t see how any man who wants to take his unholy and impure “desires” to the afterlife (and even expects them from God!) can even make it to such a pure place.
Well. No scholar went to Jannah but the prophet(SW) saw what is in Jannah[During Meraj/Night Journey(27th Rojob)] and he described that every man will get at least 2 Hoors(will be more for some other men) & his wives from the World. The Hadith is the most reliable source and there the Prophet never mentioned that women will get multiple husbands in Jannah but he mentioned about multiple wives for Jannati men.
So your thinking that men’s wanting multiple wives per man is unholy and impure??? How about it when Allah permitted every man to marry up to 4 women according to their choice?
And when Allah SWT says he will give a believer that is ‘righteous’ of paradise that is whatever he/she wants He doesn’t mean haraam things like Naudhubillah granting a man another mans girl or additional wives with the unhappiness of his earthly wives.
Also lets not overlook that in addition to the fact that most women including me feel a bit insecure from the idea of sharing their husbands with another woman without our consent, what’s even WORSE is the fact that according to the regarding belief (whether true or false[<- which I'm pretty sure it is]) the poor Hoor Al Ayn will be created soley for the purpose of fulfilling a mans sexual desires-which is deeply saddening considering that they are also women just like us, will not be asked whether she actually WANTS to marry the man she is will be assigned to, will not be given the freedom to leave their adobes, and do not have the ability to feel some very important emotions and desires for themselves such as the realization and feeling of sexual abuse. And I COMPLETELY agree, the way that some imams/scholars have described the physical appearance of the Hoor Al Ayn is highly inappropriate and filth ridden, in fact classified as open pornography. PS, THE AUTHORS OF SUCH RELATED ARTICLES ARE PRACTICING FITNAAA!! THEY ARE IN SYNC WITH SATAN, NOT ALLAH! Satan wants to misguide Allahs female servants because he thinks we are vulnerable, but we're not Allah has made us strong, hence we will not give in to Satans plans. There is no way Allah will give a believer something by taking away something essential from another believer (permanently erase his/her ability to feeling certain emotions like jealousy that is). And I don't care if anyone thinks I'm stupid, but I truly believe that if it is wrong for a woman to feel jealous over her husband for being with another woman especially if she was never okay with it to begin, e.g. she never gave him consent to marry her or worse, no marriage took place between her husband and the other woman in the first place, then it is also wrong, even more wrong in fact, for a husband to be with another woman besides his wife wilst the wife is unhappy with it. And whoever said that in Jannah Allah will remove the envy of women for her husbands and give men 100x more sexual desire and sexual power is really stupid in his head because this is straight up just oppression at its finest, which Allah can never do because a man and a woman are both equal in in the eyes of Allah and He is just and equal with both.
Do you know how much time a male get sexually excited in a day? It is sometimes more than 100 in a day if he is in relax mood. Even if a man ejaculates all the semen, his sexual desire arises after a short time again. This is what a man suffers in the world. Yet men don’t get their desired women with whom they wanna have sex. It is absolutely true because even an Emperor don’t get the beautiful women all the time whom he desires. So having a penis is like having an excessive pressure of urine most of the time a day even at the time of sleep too.
If you were a man, you could understand how hard and punishing it is for a man to control himself from touching a woman years after years. If you were a man, you could realize the punishment of the males which some males feel from 12 years old at the time of sexual desire when he doesn’t have any beautiful sexual partner to satisfy him.
Sexual excitement causes males to become impure, that’s why many times male persons cannot perform Salat at the right time.
Masturbation never satisfies a man fully. Because during masturbation, a man cannot kiss, hug a woman and don’t have the opportunity to press the boobs.
Women DON’T WANT SEX as frequently as a men want. That’s why in Jannah most of the time women will be busy in doing other things rather than having sex just like they are busy in other non-sexual things in this world.
Haha Pat, when men are “busy” with having sex, it is also with women which means women are also having sex. Do you know what logic is?
But anyway, there are many women with high sexual desire too. Some that have it even more than their husbands.
Sister Sarah, the verses that say we will have all that we desire in Jannah apply to Muslim women too. If we are allowed to choose our own husbands in this world, do you really think in world as perfect as Jannah, we won’t be allowed to do so? Read this:
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This is absolute none sense. The Hadith literature has completely twisted the original Quranic meaning of the word hoor’. It does not mean woman of any kind. Watch a video explaining this on YouTube it’s been posted by qurancentirc and it’s called houries in the Quran.
THANK YOU, I just watched the video you recommmended explaining the true meaning of houries in the Quran and it made so much sense. This article and all traditional interpretations of houries are just the sick fantasy of perverted men of the dark ages and cannot be what Allah was talking about in the Quran. It’s things like this that cause Islam to be looked down on as a backwards, sexist and violent cult.
Also you misspelled the video posters name. The video was posted by Qurancentric, called houries in the Quran. For those that are interested in understanding the real meaning of houries I recommend you watch it.
I believe you both are right; the meaning of hoor is not what people often intrprets too. I also read this article which makes sense to me.
https://ayesha5.wordpress.com/2009/09/29/the-concept-of-hoor/
can you please share the link of the video. Thanks
This is the link
Naz, Constant cycle may also mean Hoor. Because Hoor always will turn to virgin after every time they have sex with their husband. Their hymens will be the same after having sex. This is constant cycle.
Sorry but if that is what you understood from the video it makes you sound like a pervert. The Quran is a book of guidance to mankind. It is not a book about sex with virgins. Astagfirallah.
Annonymous, There is a Clear Hadith which I have read that once the Prophet became excited just from a glimpse of a woman. Then he went to his wife and had sex. You cannot call this desire of the desire of a pervert. The desire of having sex is a natural desire of men. So when a man wants to have sex with his wife in this world, it doesn’t become the desire of a pervert, why will it be in Paradise?
It’s not just a male “desire” to want sex. Typical. Plus, what “hadith” is that now? Men always seem to have a hadith ready to counter women lol.
Hey everyone check islamqa.info it is written much clearly there and this site is a great fitnah
Men have excitement more frequently than women. So men need more spouse which women don’t need.
Typical male. Proof?
Sex is a desire, a want, it is not a need. Nobody “needs” it, therefore nobody needs “multiple” sexual partners. Look at any “free” society. Women want sex just as much. Hypersexuality is NOT normal.
Have you ever heard of the words “self-constraint” and “control”? “Responsibility”?
Proof is everywhere, idiot. Brothel is the Proof.
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i cant believe that a man will be permitted to have intercourse wid his wifes in jannat.jannat is a pure place why one would be permitted to do such low cheap actvities there. infact god is omnipresent therefore if someone do so(intercourse) allah swt will also see it
man uncovering his hoori wife
Grow up bro, how you can say having sex with wife is a cheap activity. In fact you are the result of that activity as we all. Having sex with wife will be counted as your good deeds and will be rewarded for this.
This post is controversial. Ladies calm down! I heard from a very high Shayk ul Islam that Hooris (heavenly females) and gilman (heavenly males) are servants for the man and woman of paradise. Woman from the earth will be made hundred times more beautiful than all the hooris combined, due to their hardship and struggle on this earth, InshaALLAH. ALLAH is not unfair he is the most just. And may my husband get lots of hoori’s inshaALLAH he is very good to me, and if ALLAH grants be heaven (if he wills) I can boss them around. LoL, just kidding. Remember these rewards of heaven are for who love and care in this world for the people. And whats more beautiful than the nearness of Allah and his beloved Muhammad (salutations be upon him), for his one sweet smile may a billion hooris and gilmaan be sacrificed.
I don’t believe people have the same body, let along the same gender after this life. I don’t think we have human bodily desires in heaven. Why would they have female chest and other parts if they don’t get pregnant? It’s saying female parts are only to please a man but not to feed a baby. It sounds like this was made up to appeal to teenage boys.
Below there lots of people commented but I will tell all of u, will u able to going Jannah? Allah said believer will only going Jannah. So Allah promised about hoor then we should accept that without any hesitation. Those people are wise who obey Allah and Prophet Mohammed (SAW). If U will go Jannah then u have the pleasure. If anyone disobeying Allah & Prophet (SAW) he will go Jahannam.
Allah gives 100 men powers to one man?????
he will wash the brain of his worldly wife so she will not feel jealousy she will just wait for her husband to finish his business with naked hoor al ayn??????
but the husband will be busy in undressing 10 billion naked houris in jannah I heard a man sexual strength will be increased so that he can do sex with countless houris at the same time hahahaha so the man will always undress houris and will sex with them and he will be given 10,000 naked hur in every one day LOL the hur will dance in front of him and he will sex all time with them he will dance with hoor and accidentally 14,000 hoor al ayn will come to him and will ask him to undress them he will dance and then he will undress 10,000000 hoor al ayn and throw them on beds then will sex with them It’s not jannah it’s WHORE HOURSE 😛 hahahahahah!
you guys are gonna be so disappointed hahaha stop dreaming about houris
I don’t know where you got those 10Billions or 10Millions or 14 Thousands or 10 Thousands numbers. It is clearly understood that you have wrong interpretation of Islamic paradise. But every desire of a Muslim man will be fulfilled in paradise. So if he wants 72 wives, it will also be fulfilled for him. Don’t you know that Prophet Sulaiman(A)[Christians call him Solomon] had 700 wives+300 female slaves with whom he had sex? If a man in the world can have opportunity to have sex with 1000 different women legally(NOT illegally), why can’t a Muslim man have sex with 100 different women in Paradise if he wishes it?
Solomon was not a prophet. He was the third king of Israel and a wretched sinner
Allah gives 100 men powers to one man?????
he will wash the brain of his worldly wife so she will not feel jealousy she will just wait for her husband to finish his business with naked hoor al ayn??????
but the husband will be busy in undressing 10 billion naked houris in jannah I heard a man sexual strength will be increased so that he can do sex with countless houris at the same time hahahaha so the man will always undress houris and will sex with them and he will be given 10,000 naked hur in every one day LOL the hur will dance in front of him and he will sex all time with them he will dance with hoor and accidentally 14,000 hoor al ayn will come to him and will ask him to undress them he will dance and then he will undress 10,000000 hoor al ayn and throw them on beds then will sex with them It’s not jannah it’s WHORE HOURSE 😛 hahahahahah!
you guys are gonna be so disappointed hahaha stop dreaming about houris
I mean whore house
A whore house is the one where there are many men and women doing illegal sex….but ur so wrong, in paradise every man will have his own abode and will be married to every female….in it thousands of rooms and no satanic power or any other being will be able to reach that place…even the angels that Allah will send to Jannati men will take permission in an orderly fashion from many servants of that man’s paradise before reaching to him….so you see how much privacy will be preserved for the believers!
It is fact that it is a desire of men that they may have many beautiful women with them….research is done on male brain that it can work with more than 1 woman and still be equally loving to all of them…Its all finally a matter of FAITH….having faith that it is the reward from the Almighty Lord who has unlimited wisdom and power that is unimaginable!!! u want this extremely astounding reward?
And one more thing, whatever u keep thinking about Islam, ask urself sincerely dont u want this kind of extreme enjoyment and pleasure in the world already?? All men wish this!!! and thats why Allah knew our wishes and that is why its only in Islam that this wish and all other wishes will be granted after we pass the test in this world, and every Believer will enter Jannah whether directly or after punishment, thats a promise.
So if you want these great rewards than start Believing in Allah and Prophet Muhammad SAWW!!! Islam is very simple, read the Quran from the start and you will know yourself. Donot get decieved by the wrong doers, they are in every religion, but Islam is the perfect religion and it is proven to be free from mistakes and errors, since its the religion of the only lord Allah Almighty.
It’s a blog of an abnormal person i mean the person who made this blog is sexiest and undressed guy who actually always spend his time thinking about naked houris 😀
LOL
fundamentally all western law are sexist against truth justice and males.These laws are anti males and do not give any rights to males in marriage .Husbands have zero rights in marriage in fraudulent modern western laws.But Husbands have to pay maintenance/alimony to wife for no legal right in return .Mr.Bad guy it is western law and u who are sexist and hypocrite .These laws claim that men and women are equal than will create domestic violence laws,maternity leave ( thus looting the males coworker for a personal work of a woman of which she wants to do at her own will and want ot loot legally to males) And this is just tip of iceberg .They claim women as equal on one hand and weak on another hand thus creating seprate sports events because they know women nowhere can compete with males .Reserve seats for women in Companiies by law forcing people to choose women because women fails to impress share holders .
al hamdullillah” praise Allah ” mate glad for this blessing because we are known to satisfy and by just for woman not to desire puting there dress or underwears on or tolerating our undraged children to do so lol !!!!!!!
al hamdullillah” praise Allah ” mate glad for this blessing because we are known to satisfy and being just to a female not to desire wearing there dress or underwears on or allowing our underaged children to do so , again underaged is prety unislamic so mate what ever you say al 3ezza the lord make us feel the great pride the inheritors of the dreams where they are upstaining them self from the straight paths your generations are loose if you carry on like this 50% of your population are going to be queers , why because you simply don’t listen to your lord
The “undressed guy” you’re describing is probably something you do since you seem to know so much about it.
The person who wrote this article is only sharing what we know from the Qur’an and Hadith and what scholars in centuries past have preserved that they believe to be the truth from Allah and His Messenger. Just because someone shares this doesn’t mean he is abnormal or a pervert, or that he even believes this or wants any of this. People who are sincere about religion will not ignore any of the Qur’an or Hadith just because it doesn’t agree with their “feelings” or ignorant opinions.
One thing we have to understand is Allah created us all and knows what we desire as His creatures. In general men desire sex more than women do. Not to say that women don’t desire sex, nor to say that all men like it, but again in general that is how it is. So our Creator promises us EVERYTHING that we desire in Jannah. You think Allah doesn’t know what we want? Of course He does, He created us to have feelings to want it. Another thing to think about is The Qur’an is in the original language of Arabic which is considered a masculine language. If you are in a room of 1,000,000,000 females then when speaking to them you would use the feminine form of a word. But if even 1 single male is amongst them, you would then use the masculine form of the word to address them. So when Allah is speaking to all mankind in the Qur’an He uses the masculine form and examples because men and women are being spoken to. So because of the things men desire He puts that in His message. However , so women don’t feel left out He specifically says that The companions of the Garden(Man or Woman)shall have ALL that they desire. It’s tough to imagine how Allah will remove my jealousy if my woman had 1,000 men. But remember with Allah all things are possible. So we pray to Allah to help us and bless us to get to Jannah and His promise is if we get there,WE CAN HAVE WHATEVER WE WANT. Remember when Allah determines a matter He only says to it ”Be” and it is.
You totallly wrong ! Allah never mentioned about bisexual in qur’an. Can u explain their desire?? We are not same each other eventho we are women. What we desire is personal taste. Including about sex is about personal taste ! As FYI. Women can commit adultery..hav u ask why? If we dont have sexual desire. No women will hav kids with different men.. dont ignore the fact
I want to know if a womens wish is not sharing husband & mans is having as many houries as possible then what weill happen??
didnt u read above that all the women who will enter paradise will never feel any jealousy at all and will be pure from this kind of thinking…..u ppl make these questions bcoz u donot believe in the power and endless possibilities of the Almighty one. This is the FAITH, that you believe that Allah can do anything as Allah has unlimited power and wisdom beyond our imagination, and Allah is very straight forward towards Humanity. In Quran read the very first Surat how straighforward and well introductory it is to humanity as the Lord starts speaking, you shall not find any book like the Quran, Perfect in every sense! Its so simple and compact any human on earth is capable to understand it and know what the Lord is saying and miraculously this is the only book that surviving since 1500 years in its 100% words, and it is also miraculously proven by great many scientists and many have reverted to Islam due to the hard facts and 0 errors of Quran.
Hey are u sure ” jealousy” will be removed from women only? The jealousy, ill manner hatred will be delete from all of dwellers !! Cz everything in there will be fair ! Jealousy is not bout looking ur men cheat or sleep.with anothers. Dont u jealous when ur friend got new car? Still this is called jealous !
Meaning of the word “Hur”:
“The word hur is the plural of ahwar (applicable to man) and of haura (applicable to woman) and signifies a person having eyes characterized by hauar a special quality bestowed upon a good soul, male or female in paradise and it denotes the intense whiteness of the white part of the spiritual eye.
The Qur’an describes in several other verses that in paradise you will have azwaj which mean a pair or spouse or companion which means you will have spouses or companions pure and holy (mutaharratun means pure, holy).”
Qur’an – 2:25 “But give glad tidings to those who believe and work righteousness, that their portion is gardens, beneath which rivers flow. Every time they are fed with fruits therefrom, they say: “Why, this is what we were fed with before”, for they are given things in similitude; and they have therein companions pure; and they abide therein (forever)”.
Qur’an – 4:57 “But those who believe and do deeds of righteousness, We shall soon admit to Gardens, with rivers flowing beneath – their eternal home; therein shall they have companions pure and holy: we shall admit them to shades, cool and ever deepening”.
Therefore the word hoor has no specific gender. Mohammad Asad has translated the word hoor as spouse and Abdullah Yusuf Ali as companion. Therefore according to some scholars a man in paradise will have a hoor that is a beautiful maiden with beautiful big and lustrous eyes and a woman in paradise will get a man with beautiful big and lustrous eyes. This is how Dr Zakir Naik described it.
“Companions reserved, in goodly pavilions.” – 55:72.
According to many men this verse is about females who will only look at their “worldly husbands” because characteristics of being reserved and modest are feminine traits. Do these men therefore also believe the Prophets were immodest men if modesty is only a “feminine” trait?
It’s amazing how anyone can think that a man having 70 wives as inheritance from Hell plus 72 wives from “hoors” is justice, only because “jealousy will be removed”. In the same way, men’s lustful wants could be removed too. How would a man feel to be one out of 142 as a woman’s husband? Wouldn’t they be jealous? However, it seems that they are already quite jealous at the thoughts of their wives receiving according to their wishes too.
Men and women, equal or not:
“And their Lord responded to them, “Never will I allow to be lost the work of [any] worker among you, whether male or female; you are of one another.” 3:195
“Verily for all men and women who have surrendered themselves unto God, and all believing men and believing women, and all truly devout men and truly devout women, and all men and women who are true to their word, and all men and women who are patient in adversity, and all men and women who humble themselves before God, and all men and women who give in charity, and all self-denying men and self-denying women, and all men and women who are mindful of their chastity, and all men and women who remember God unceasingly: for all of them has God readied forgiveness of sins and a mighty reward.” (33:35)
In Allah’s Qur’an:
Qur’an – 25:16 “For them therein is whatever they wish, abiding eternally. It is ever upon your Lord a promise requested.”
Qur’an – 50:35 “There will be for them therein all that they wish, – and more besides in Our Presence.”
Qur’an – 39:34 “They will have whatever they desire with their Lord. That is the reward of the doers of good –“
(See also, 16:31, 21:102, 36:57, 43:71)
The meaning of Jannah has totally been twisted. If you can’t have what you want in Jannah then when can you? Why would you be tied down to someone or anything in a place that will be your Eternal Home?
Everyone’s desires and wants our different. Men will not be rewarded at the expense of women’s rewards. Both will receive their rewards according to their own desires. Men will not have a say in what their former worldly wives or other women want or will receive. God and His promises are for all righteous people, not only men.
It’s sad how this even needs to be explained. The main concern should be getting to Jannah and gaining the biggest reward of meeting Allah SWT. It’s disconcerting how men feel the need to assert their supposed “superiority” over women. They have the nerve to promote the sick idea that their wives will be their property in Jannah along with a hoard of other women.
Isn’t it mind blowing that some Muslim men just do not agree that all delights of paradise are equally for men and women? That women will also have what their hearts desire? We should enlighten and pray for such men to be guided by Allah SWT.
And whoso doeth good works, whether of male or female, and is a believer, such will enter paradise and they will not be wronged the dint in a date-stone. – Qur’an – 4:124.
me MUSLIM woman..but i am fully agree with Carol R…she is very true. If a religious muslim woman want 72 vergin hot handsome guy i think Allah will must give her..coz its her desire..its not a matter of jealousy…its a matter of “desire”..and if man called woman jealous for this issue then i must have to say that if a man cant share his wives with others man then how can a wife share his husband with other wives? both are jealous..same fact.But my question ,why this sacrifice only law for woman?? i personally dont desire that type of man who will share his bed with thousands hoors and thousands wives..its matter of satisfaction. Allah will give more power to man like 1 man=70 man power..thats mean ,Allah knows that man will be greedy that they cant satisfied with one wife…thats why given power??? Allah will not give psysical power to woman in heaven?? they will be sexually weak ??? thats why woman need only 1 husband and sharinggg !!! omg !! if there also share i think that is not heaven…how can man sure that woman mind will never want more handsome guy ??? like 72/100/150 handsome guy…if a man want or wish that type of desire ,woman also can want that type of wish and desire.if husband sexually satisfied his wife then woman mind can demand another different face…and i think ,Allah will must give that.
As-salamu `alaykum. Some traditional Muslims believe that Muslim men will be rewarded with 70 houris specially created for them and two believing women from this life. This is very demeaning and offensive to all women. A question comes to my mind at this point. Why would God cause jealousy between husband and wife on this earth when He promises to give the same cause of jealousy (multiple wives) in Heaven to one gender (man) as a reward? Who put love, mercy, and affection between the spouses? It is sad to find that in traditional Muslim literature the concept of Heaven is a place specially created for men; there is no equality between men and women. For men, Heaven is simply an extension of the earth where they established control and dominance over women through legitimizing unsanctioned polygamy and unlimited sex with females. One man’s Heaven is a woman’s Hell. This is supported by scholars, as a majority of them state that Paradise is a place of fulfillment of desires, and men—being prone to polygamy—will receive this as a reward. My question is, how is it possible that Allah Almighty will grant the fulfillment of the desires of the male but not of the female—that is, to not share her husband with multiple women? What about women who are patient in this life, hoping that their desire of not sharing their husbands will come true? I have read that scholars state that Allah will remove the “jealousy” from the heart of the women so they shouldn’t worry about it. Please explain how does this justify anything? Instead of her desire/wish being fulfilled, she will be brainwashed, but on the other hand men won’t have to give up anything. Why won’t Allah remove the lust to have multiple wives from their hearts in order to please the female servants, while He will remove jealousy from the hearts of females in order to please male servants? How come jealousy is a “female” product? When men are jealous, their jealousy is labeled as “ghayrah” (attack on morality). Bur when women are “jealous”, they are labeled as jealous beings? How I see it, being neutral, jealousy is a human product and not just a female thing. Allah created one mate, at least that’s what is mentioned in the Qur’an, for Adam (peace be upon him). Therefore it is the fitrah of every male and female to feel “jealousy” when it is about sharing one’s spouse. Men are more possessive and would react in a similar way, even worse when it is about sharing their spouse. The reason is because we are both human beings. I totally agree with the “acceptance” of polygamy in this life, because it is a “solution” advised in the situations to avoid the haram. But it is discouraged by putting conditions on it. But paradise is every Muslim’s (men and women) goal. It doesn’t sound/feel right to the fitrah that it will be more rewarding towards men and again will require females to sacrifice and share. No matter how you put it, it is sharing the reward when one’s husband will have at least two other wives. Does Allah love men more than women? A male martyr will receive 70 wives, but if a female servant of Allah dies for Jihad fisabillillah, she will still be required to share her husband with other wives. This concept is very discouraging and offensive towards Muslim sisters. I personally feel like crying because it seems that no matter how hard I work to please Allah, even go as far as giving up my life for Allah Almighty, my reward will not be equivalent to that of a male servant.
Your concern is absolutely spot on. But there is an explanation that needs to be highlighted. You see Allah SWT has categorically mentioned what men will get in Jannah but as for the women He SWT has not mentioned that openly. The reason for that is due to modesty and shyness. How can He SWT encourage women to seek Paradise by mentioning something that they are too shy and modest to mention or speak about themselves? So He has simply hinted at it, as in the verse (interpretation of the meaning):
“Therein you shall have (all) that your inner‑selves desire
[Fussilat 41:31-32]
So dont lose hope, you will get whatever you want and whatever there is in your heart that you wish for but are too shy/modest to tell anyone. This is the reason why Allah said “what your inner selves desire” insted of “what you desire”. Peace!
Thank you Ali! This Jannah thing is what has me thinking about leaving Islam. Can you get any more degrading to a woman. I am at a loss. I have struggled with this for years now. I have asked my spouse to divorce me on his death bed as I think that will solve the issue, no hubby- no hurs to put up with. I am a Muslim and I never pray for Jannah, it scares me more than the hellfire at times. I have no where to go 😦
Let me be clear too, I am a woman that would not mind more than one husband. However, that gets me a whole other label which sounds like hur, just spelled differently.
DHAKIRAH1208, what you said made me sad. Leaving Islam just because of Hooris. Just remember Allah is not unfair he is the most just. The quran says “(Whoever does righteous acts, whether male or female, while they are a believer, verily, to them We will give a good life, and We shall pay them certainly a reward in proportion to the best of what they used to do [16:97].” Now can anyone overrule the words of GOD.
I feel exactly the same way you do. I thought I was the only one who kept thinking about this. Sounds like nothing to look forward to. I would love to have a different husband whenever I want in Hannah.
I agree
Dear you literally said my words, why removing jealousy? Means If Allah doesn’t want to give women whatever she whishes then the memory or jealousy will be removed what she wants for herself is completely injustice to woman. I also want multiple man.
sorry don’t take me negative. The rules of Jannah about Eman & Marriage are similar what’s now in Dunia. This 2 things will apply Jannah which is now in this world.
RasulAllah (SAW) said if he(SAW) gave permission to Sijdah after Allah that was for husband.
sorry don’t take me negative. The rules of Jannah about Eman & Marriage are similar what’s now in Dunia. This 2 things will apply Jannah which is now in this world.
RasulAllah (SAW) said if he(SAW) gave permission to Sijdah after Allah that was for husband.
🙂
It is totally confirmed that women don’t men so often as men want women. So if women really want men, why don’t some women on Earth propose men in love and why don’t women rape any man ever??? Why do all women complain against male rapists and try to prevent male rapists from rape? Many women also have more power than many men. This power may be physical, educational, political, administrative, academic. Women can use these power to weak men to rape them or force those men to have sex with them. But any woman doesn’t use her power. Women are in power in many places over men. Examples: Female Boss, Female Trader, Female Teacher over her male student, Female housewife over her male servant etc. Women also have the chance to black mail men to have sex with them. But no woman use this technique to have sex with men ever. Why??? [I am not encouraging adultery, fornication or rape but just asking] Why do such strong sexual desire exist in men only? Because men need more women but women don’t need more than 1 man and women can share man without any problem.
Women will not get more than 1 Husband in Paradise. And that 1 husband will have at least 73 to 100+ wives inshaa Allah. These are confirmed in Hadith. No matter what you think, the truth will not change.
Its important to state that both men AND WOMEN will be 33 years of age. This really has helped me realize that in jannah, there is no age discrimination and its not like 33 year old men who are gross looking are having sex with 18 year olds. Both men and women are 33, both are very good looking (the men in jannah are described as having faces brighter than the moon and having eternal erections), so this shows that men and women are going to fulfill each others sexual needs in paradise. Since most people of knowledge who get to talk are men, they ignore the handsomeness women will enjoy from men in paradise, and instead pretend that jannah is like a dunia fantasy and that men in jannah will be with hot little girls prancing around them. We need to acknowledge that men will be with 33 year old beautiful WOMEN not with girls. Men + women. InshaAllah this helps other sisters and brothers who had a similar concern to the way things have been written on here and other articles.
You are not right. My husband wants loads of women. I just want him. He wants loads so he will get them. But I will just get him. Thats how alims say and thay are always right. Accept your little rights.otherwise you wont even get one. You are disobeying your husband he wants loads of women. You are denying his basic rights. If I was your husband I will admonish you from my bed until you accept. My husband has done nikah to four women and I am happy and accept his wives. learn something from me. You girls of little status think too much of yourself. You have very little brain in your skull.
u r a stool of ur husband where comes only bad smell…thats ur status fool lady..ok??
Lol eternal erections? Ha ha ha, isn’t that a disease?
Why one man will get lots of females
And all of females just him.
These things have made lose faith in islam.
I had respect for god
Now I think he is the biggest dick head worse than men
if that is god then I dont have hope for anything from god at all because I am not worth anything
If having lots of men will please you, you will get lots of men as allah says: “They will have whatever they wish therein, and with Us is more.[50:35]” may allah guide us all to his straight path~
No I have one man I love. Even allah gave me lots I will say no to them just because of the one I have. It is just that why women are looked down at
Probably yr demand should be:
One man and also no other women for him.
Will Allah accept your demand?
What will happen if your husband also opts for 70 Hoors.
Whose wish will be granted.
Leave your family, home, city and be financial dependent on him for everything and obey him in everything. And he says he is equal to 72. That is true love and respect. You get that nowhere. You are great
Me too 😊
Me too
IF In this world we dnt have the one we want and love ,it doesnt mean we wont get what we deserve in jannah…dunya is a practical test for us ..we wont pass in it if wethink that why allah didnt do what we want ,,,we just have to wait to get what we deserve and we deserve something extraordinary …for something extra ordinary we have to wait for jannah
Come on now don’t call Allah the biggest di**. Don’t lose hope to early. I have cried reading articles related to the Hoor All Ayn, but what keeps me going is that women too will get something that is equivalent to the Hoor Al Ayn reward for men, but it is no where to be known because Allah has kept it a secret for our modesty and shyness. Also, I would recommend you pray that you keep your FULL consciousness/ emotions in heaven if you go, i.e. inchluding jealousy. PS a one man woman
good said lady Allah is a pimp running a whorehouse u muslim bast
Superior is inferior and inferior is superior. It takes something special to understand that. Proud men greedy for fame and power would not understand that. God has made positive negative and negative positive in everything.
I just wanna inform evryone that this post is a great great fitnah!It is just not right to describe a woman or any woman this way. . .to describe woman’s body parts like this. . !!!!!Then how can it be true islam. . .U know posts like this used to haunt me years before. . But not now!. . .Bcz i have confidence in Allah that thsi kind of post is haraam!it makes us seem that we are something inferior . . .NO!!!this is not the case!
Salma is correct! God made man and woman to HIS pleasure, and ALL will stand before HIM to be Judged of all things done in this life, regardless of it being great or small.
Go home and worship your husband. What are you doing here.
True islam is your bum
I used to be happy about jannah. But now I am too scared to go to jannah. Enthusiasm has gone.
There is no little part of life where a woman is not put down. I want to be loved by god and everybody and become number 1 and best. I have made my choice of becoming a man. I was a tom boy anyway. I am very very fond of becoming a man. I want to be special too. I have used different names in my posts but i am same person. And woman is not special. She is common. Not even that. Hey I am going to be a man
Do you know how much time a male get sexually excited in a day? It is sometimes more than 100 in a day if he is in relax mood. Even if a man ejaculates all the semen, his sexual desire arises after a short time again. This is what a man suffers in the world. Yet men don’t get their desired women with whom they wanna have sex. It is absolutely true because even an Emperor don’t get the beautiful women all the time whom he desires. So having a penis is like having an excessive pressure of urine most of the time a day even at the time of sleep too.
If you were a man, you could understand how hard and punishing it is for a man to control himself from touching a woman years after years. If you were a man, you could realize the punishment of the males which some males feel from 12 years old at the time of sexual desire when he doesn’t have any beautiful sexual partner to satisfy him.
Sexual excitement causes males to become impure, that’s why many times male persons cannot perform Salat at the right time.
Masturbation never satisfies a man. Because during masturbation, a man cannot kiss, hug a woman and don’t have the opportunity to press the boobs & cannot do what they want to do and see during sex.
Women DON’T WANT SEX as frequently as a men want. That’s why in Jannah most of the time women will be busy in doing other things rather than having sex just like they are busy in other non-sexual things in this world.
How many men a prostitute sees a day. How many women sleep around. Have you seen magazines with nude women. Do you know english women. I myself have seen 30 men in my life. Do you know what is going on in modern west world. I think you are blind.
Yeh saira nam ki jo bhi ladki bahut kamini hai aur jis tarah isne comment kiya hai ,isse dayre islam se bahar kar deta hai…
yeh ladki ek se jyada husband rakhna chahti hai kyun isko complexity ho raha hai ki mard ko ek jyada ka wada kiya ja raha hai… pahle to mein yeh ladki ko apne guroor se nikalne ki nasihat karonga kyun ki yeah mard hona chahti… sabse pahle contentment lao apne ander ladki hone pe aur Allah paak ki shukriya bazaa lao,,,
aur akhri baat mein yahi kahonga ki Allah bahut bada hai,wo Adeel hai aur woh apne bando pe maherbaan hai,,jannat ek aisee jagah hai jiske baare mein kisi bhi insaan ke deel mein khyaal tak nahi guzar sakta,to phir apna akl itna kyun laga rahi hai aur beshak jo bhi batein aurton ke liye nahi kahi gayi woh haya ki wajah se,,,
akhri yeh ki koi evil minded jannat mein nahi ja sakega jaisa jo jindagi bhar fornication aur adultry karta raha aur bina repentance ke is duniya se chla jaye,,
Tu bura acha hey, beta app ko yeh kis ne seekhaaya. papa ne, papa to burey naik admI hey. un ko shabaas dena. I am a joker. Naik tha maar kha kha kur budmaash ho giya. Allah is very very naughty. My name is sahir.
Fights
Slaves
Lot of wives
Lots of children
Lot of problems
good life for you
fuck ur self more than thousand u mother fucker
One man will have all these women but these women will limit their glances to just him. Do you even deserve that. When you promise a young man loads of women. Do you think they will have respect for women.
This is a reminder. And indeed, for the righteous is a good place of return Gardens of perpetual residence, whose doors will be opened to them Reclining within them, they will call therein for abundant fruit and drink وَعِندَهُمْ And near them will be قَاصِرَاتُ الطَّرْفِ أَتْرَابٌ And with them will be women limiting [their] glances and of equal age. This is what you, [the righteous], are promised for the Day of Account إِنَّ Indeed, هَٰذَا this is لَرِزْقُنَا Our provision; for it there is no depletion 38:49 to 54
In the above verse what is promised to the righteous is gardens of perpetual residence, fruit and drink and women of equal age limiting their glances. But really did Allah promise to the righteous that they will be provided with fair women of equal age in the paradise?
But the ones who believe and do righteous deeds – We will admit them to gardens beneath which rivers flow, wherein they will abide forever. [It is] the promise of Allah, [which is] truth, and who is more truthful than Allah in statement. (An-Nisaa: 122)
وَعَدَ Allah has promised the believing men and believing women gardens beneath which rivers flow, wherein they abide eternally, and pleasant dwellings in gardens of perpetual residence; but approval from Allah is greater. It is that which is the great attainment. (At-Tawba: 72)
The example of Paradise, which the righteous have been وُعِدَ promised, is [that] beneath it rivers flow. Its fruit is lasting, and its shade. That is the consequence for the righteous, and the consequence for the disbelievers is the Fire. (Ar-Ra’d: 35
But those who have feared their Lord – for them are chambers, above them chambers built high, beneath which rivers flow. [This is] the promise of Allah. Allah does not fail in [His] promise. (Az-Zumar: 20)
Those are the ones from whom We will accept the best of what they did and overlook their misdeeds, [their being] among the companions of Paradise. [That is] the promise of truth which they had been promised. (Al-Ahqaf: 16)
Is the description of Paradise, which the righteous are وُعِدَ promised, wherein are rivers of water unaltered, rivers of milk the taste of which never changes, rivers of wine delicious to those who drink, and rivers of purified honey, in which they will have from all [kinds of] fruits and forgiveness from their Lord, like [that of] those who abide eternally in the Fire and are given to drink scalding water that will sever their intestines? (Muhammad: 15)
Not even once did Allah promise the righteous that they will be provided with women of equal age in the paradise and what is provided in the paradise to the righteous is fully described in verse 76:5 to 21
At the end of the verse Allah said “إِنَّ Indeed, هَٰذَا this is لَرِزْقُنَا Our provision; for it there is no depletion”.
How many fools/insane are in this world to accept/believe that women of equal age are PROVISIONS of Allah and there will no shortage in the provisions of Allah including women of equal age.
So قَاصِرَاتُ الطَّرْفِ أَتْرَابٌ / قَاصِرَاتُ الطَّرْفِ / قَاصِرَاتُ الطَّرْفِ عِينٌ/ وَكَوَاعِبَ أَتْرَابًا / حُورٌ مَّقْصُورَاتٌ فِي الْخِيَامِ خَيْرَاتٌ حِسَانٌ are nothing but descriptions of the provisions of the paradise.
Indeed, the righteous will drink from a cup [of wine] whose mixture is of Kafur, A spring of which the [righteous] servants of Allah will drink; they will make it gush forth in force [and abundance] They [are those who] fulfill [their] vows and fear a Day whose evil will be widespread And they give food in spite of love for it to the needy, the orphan, and the captive [Saying], “We feed you only for the countenance of Allah. We wish not from you reward or gratitude Indeed, We fear from our Lord a Day austere and distressful So Allah will protect them from the evil of that Day and give them radiance and happiness And will reward them for what they patiently endured [with] a garden [in Paradise] and silk [garments] [They will be] reclining therein on adorned couches. They will not see therein any [burning] sun or [freezing] cold And near above them are its shades, and its [fruit] to be picked will be lowered in compliance And there will be circulated among them vessels of silver and cups having been [created] clear [as glass] Clear glasses [made] from silver of which they have determined the measure And they will be given to drink a cup [of wine] whose mixture is of ginger [From] a fountain within Paradise named Salsabeel There will circulate among them وِلْدَانٌ young boys made eternal. When you see them, you would think them [as beautiful as] scattered pearls And when you look there [in Paradise], you will see pleasure and great dominion. Upon the inhabitants will be green garments of fine silk and brocade. And they will be adorned with bracelets of silver, and their Lord will give them a purifying drink 76:5 to 21
A full description of the righteous in the paradise with their provisions and their attires and the service they will get therein. There is no description of any HURs in the paradise which is a fantasy of those who corrupted the Quran translation
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Hoor is so beautiful and good. How could you disrespect them
One man is equal to 72 or a lot of hoor.
Respect hoor allah promises all the people hoors. Not one man and lots of hoors which you have got wrong but mullah is over ridden. Woman naturally obeys a man in so many ways. As she leaves her people, place, and things and joins husband people place and things and money. A woman leaves too many things for her husband. She is humble. So much is not given but expected. It is not very easy leaving everything. But what a man is saying. That he just gains and gains. He is arrogant. He even looks down at most perfect hoors. He keeps demanding more more. She goes through so much leaving family having children and a man over burden her with too many responsbilities. You should look at a woman as your other beautiful half. Ok bad men and women exist you would have to put up that it wont change. If you be too too good that means you are very bad inside. Your too goodness is going to make everything worse. You be good or too good
How old are the Houri?
what does Tender Age mean?
I feel very little.
evil women dont make it to heaven only good women go to heaven and if this is what god thinks then may be I dont want to be a women. I want to be a man.
evil women if muslim will go to jannah and same case with men after serving their punishment 🙂
Very religious men say these things
I thìnk men whò agree with them have no respect fòr a woman
one man is eqùal to lots of women. Is that love. These men think they are so pious. A pioùs man thìnks that. being pious mean one has more rights than others. If a parent just loved one child over the rest is that a good parent.
Women give birth to whole world and suffer for their children and they say these things about them. Shame on you. You dicks love phusi and your sons
If I had a husband and he had me just for him and he had many other women all of them just for him. That means I am not worth any thing. Either I just want him for myself. Or we both have many. Why it is only him. I like many actors. If he can have many then why cant I get as many good looking men.
Saira ..This book was written by Men for Men ..If a Houri is fair skinned then it is God’s discrimination against color..and what nonsense is this having intercourse with the Houris …Is God expecting us to make children in the heaven ?
Yes we can make children
You are worth a lot, under the feet of women there is jannah, and its already mentioned that wives will be superior to all the hoors…
Now I accept that I am not worth a penny. And a man is worth everything. Religion prefers him. World prefer him. Parents want him.
Alia fazal to alia adnan after marriage
then mrs adnan.
first fazal went. Then alia went
alia fazal becomes mrs adnan
in urdu she says app with respect and and he says tum with no respect.
cant address him with his name cant even say his name
I think of myself a thing and my husband above everything. And many things you would find if you observe everything closely. If god and husband wants that way it is fine.even they or parents want me as boy I will be a boy. Who am I. Me and my brother are only one brother and sister.my brother always wished he had a little brother too. If I become a boy that will be good.
my father love me more than my brother. But mother wanted me as a boy second boy as well. I am happy. But I observed everything I think being boy is a better and bliss. I called my self boy when I was little. My father bought me boys shoes by mistake as I was too little but i put them against my cheek. If every body is happy then who am I to say no. I always found myself not right but men every thing. He was made in fourty days and I was a rib so clear
Dear superior brothers and inferior sisters, may god give you lots of hoors and over obedient slave wives in the heaven. And women only one strict master. It is narrated that wife should be over obedient to their husband worthy ones. If a women gives up basic rights as well thats desired. Man was created in special time and with a lot of thought. But women allah took xrays of adam and he saw a extra useless rib which he forgot their when creating he took the rib out and moved it a little and it formed into a shape in a thoughtless moment. So a women got created. So specially created which took time and effort cant be equal to just thoughtlessly created little beings.
Hi Saira, Though Eve was created after Adom (A), yet women are not less in the eye of Allah. Allah has given women more rights than men through their marriages. Husbands are bound to carry the most necessary expenses of their wives. So, why don’t you think that women are getting more privileges than men? This is the one as an Example. But there are so many privileges which are owned only by women.
Nonsense ..All this Adam and Eve stuff ..Why on earth did god make Adam First ? Give me one good reason..We all gradually changed from lower animals into humans and still changing ..
because thats how God wanted it to be… you are the worst kind of stupid, do some research….
God didnt made a mistake, it was just how he wanted it to be, its all written before, Adam asked for a partner, so God gave him eve by rib… it wasnt useless, women are not useless, they are the best things that ever happened on earth 🙂 love yourself and accept yourself, stop looking for negative, islam isnt about men, its universal 🙂 its for everyone, it will never get old, what it suggested centuries ago, sceince has come to prove it now 🙂
I have relatives, there are widows and divorcees and old lonely women, no one marrys them and make their life hard. And even old all ready married men marry young virgins for beauty. He rejects the first wife completely. They hit ugly and stupid women and obey pretty clever bad women.
thats the fault of men, not islam, it happens under every religon, its discrimination and is not allowed in any religon if I am correct
Who made stupid men and the world god or another god
In islam you are allowed to marry four widows or divorcees or four young, pretty, clever women. Holy prophet married in old age just old widows and divorcees.
I have a wish I hope it comes true. In jannat all your wishes come true. I am woman. But I want to be a man in heaven. That way will never be cursed this much ever. I love hoors and females. I will be born as a man in heaven insha allah.
You should be happy for who you are, you should see your value, women will be given lots of rewards and prizes, in jannat all your wishes come true, I believe so but to change gender hahaha, you really dont know how to value yourself…
Very good post BY A MAN:
http://sheikhynotes.blogspot.co.uk/2010/01/womens-reward-in-paradise-in-islam.html
Qur’an Surah Al Furqan 25:16 Allah Taa’la states – “For them therein is whatever they wish, abiding eternally. It is ever upon your Lord a promise requested.”
Qur’an Surah Ya-Sin 36:57 Allah Taa’la states – “For them therein is fruit, and for them is whatever they request.”
Qur’an Surah Al Nahl 16:31 Allah Taa’la states – “Gardens of perpetual residence, which they will enter, beneath which rivers flow. They will have therein whatever they wish. Thus does Allah reward the righteous -”
Qur’an Surah Qaf 50:35 Allah Almighty states – “There will be for them therein all that they wish, – and more besides in Our Presence.”
Qur’an Surah Az Zumar 39:34 “They will have whatever they desire with their Lord. That is the reward of the doers of good –“
Qur’an Surah Az Zukhruf 43:71 Allah Almighty states – “Circulated among them will be plates and vessels of gold. And therein is whatever the souls desire and delights the eyes, and you will abide therein eternally.”
Qur’an Surah Al Anbiya 21:102 – “They will not hear its sound, while they are, in that which their souls desire, abiding eternally.”
This baby girl was wearing lovely hair bands. I told her to take them off and give it to some poor baby girl. Baby cried and said no they are mine and I like them. I swore at the baby girl and hit her for not knowing.
Don’t misjudge ISLAM.
Why dint you believe in islam.
Just think from where you came here ??
After your death where you’ll go ???
After your death your body will be in earth but you cant do anything with your body and simply you cant open your eyes. Then ??
Is this is our life or is this a LIFE. ???
Without islam which religion is more remembering about hereafter? ??
Dont see islam with your brain just look at it with your heart.
Allah swt is the one who created us.
Yes I want to be rude because muslim women are oppress innocent or clever women are oppressed by their own families. Why you want perfection and blame bad people allah makes you good or bad. Prophet said dont hate bad people.
All the islamic books I have read about sex guide they only talk about men. They say men have wet dream and ejaculation. Women have periods and that means they can have babies now. These books are written by men. I have had a billion emotions and fantasies and I orgasm with ejaculation. For which I did not know what it was. Too shameful for you if I talked about a man it would not be. So my husband first had sex with me and I was a young virgin. He just came took clothes off and just entered straight away. I did not know. It was very hard and would not go and painful. Because he was entering dry virgin who did not know anything. Most asian muslim men have sex that way all their life and women say it hurts very much but never say a word and he just takes it out any time. And she is taught to be very shy and never gets to have sex. Only when she becomes very ill. Still they say she has got a desease. You talk about a women disobeying gets cursed. But men get it all the time. And hardly know any thing about women. That’s a common muslim man. Close your hears, shut your eyes. It is too shameful. But of you talk about a boy it is alright. Why does not islam define women’s complicated sexuality issues. It is easy for a man if he knows or not. He just does it. Believe millions of women life become miserable no curses come to men. It is not his fault if he does not know. I think if he knew he won’t. So what does a virgin mean for you. Not having a sexual desire. Open your eyes they leave all to a man. And marry a women to him. Who does not know anything. By the time she becomes mother of four children one by one she turns into a mourning miserable women who cant even look after her children properly. She does have desires deep down but told to be too shy and bes young. Life goes by and it is all about him thats how it is in muslims. Just giving birth after birth one sided unsatisfactory sex. The only way to know for women to know their basic rights is that to explain very clearly without being shy. But no molvi are busy with speeches that have no effect on young people. Forget this health and food other things are not known by people.stop dreaming about hoors and telling people about them. Talk about other stuff as well you are too sad. Some will say no we know it all. But common people how many. Especially women. Rob innocent women. Talk about men all the time and tell the women to just be shy and bow their heads.women dont even get their basic rights. Some women do want more rights. But do they know any thing about life. Life is not perfect bad will always be bad men or women. So please you think women dont get hoors what they get here a painfull life. Open your brain and eyes.
The authors of those ‘Islamic’ guides on sex were probably practicing fitna. Although I have heard that if your husband calls you to his bed at night and you disobey and he gets upset, then the angels curse you till dawn, but I’m confident Allah never ordered his female slaves to have unwanted sex at the will of their husbands – for he knows it’s very painful for us. And I believe that in Islam Allah SWT has given women more rights than men to compensate for their hardships on planet Earth such as the man to be the one who gives a dowry to the woman at their marriage not the other way around unlike in many societies, women to be the ones who have sexual pleasure nearly 100x that amount felt by men in addition to them being given the ability to control their sexual desires, women being given the blessing of greater levels of intelligence to compensate for men’s excess amount of physical strength, Allah stating in the Qur’an that paradise is literally under the feet of ones mother, and not to mention children being commanded in Islam to be obligated to their mothers 3x as much as to their fathers. And don’t worry about some men saying every man will get additional wives in Jannah because there is no evidence of this anywhere in the Qur’an or Hadith by Sahih Bukhari.
Sarah Alam
I see you are a feminist. You took a Daif(weak) Hadith to prove the dignity of a mother but rejected a Sahih Hadith about the right of a man to have sex with his wives!!!!! See the reference of the duty of a female in responding to have sex with her husband below from Sihah Sittah(From among Six pure Hadith Books):
إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَأَبَتْ، فَبَاتَ غَضْبَانَ عَلَيْهَا، لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلاَئِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ
If a husband calls his wife to his bed and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the angels will curse her till morning. [Sahih al-Bukhari, Book 59, Hadith 48]
وَالَّذِي نَفْسُ مُحَمَّدٍ بِيَدِهِ لاَ تُؤَدِّي الْمَرْأَةُ حَقَّ رَبِّهَا حَتَّى تُؤَدِّيَ حَقَّ زَوْجِهَا وَلَوْ سَأَلَهَا نَفْسَهَا وَهِيَ عَلَى قَتَبٍ لَمْ تَمْنَعْهُ
By the One in Whose Hand is the soul of Muhammad! No woman can fulfill her duty towards Allah until she fulfils her duty towards her husband. If he asks her (for intimacy) even if she is on her camel saddle, she should not refuse. [Sunan Ibn Majah, Vol. 3, Book 9, Hadith 1853]
إِذَا الرَّجُلُ دَعَا زَوْجَتَهُ لِحَاجَتِهِ فَلْتَأْتِهِ وَإِنْ كَانَتْ عَلَى التَّنُّورِ
When a man calls his wife for his need, then let her come, even if she is at the oven. [Jami` at-Tirmidhi, Book 12, Hadith 15]
reena & Sarah Alam, you yourselves have admitted and proven that women don’t want sex everyday. But men want sex everyday and night all time. So it will be logical & righteous that men will get more sex partners than women in Paradise because men want sex more than women.
reena and Sarah, Why do you think that women should be shy in front of their husbands? There is no need to be shy in front of husbands. In reality men love bold women who take controls in sexual intercourse & dominate the men. So sometimes have sex with your husbands forcefully. A man is always turned on for sexual intercourse but a woman is not. Perhaps A woman becomes excited in every 2 months but men become excited sexually in every half an hour. So it will be righteous if men get more women in Paradise and women in reality never need more than 1 husband due to their least amount times of sexual excitement. I hope Allah will establish righteousness in the Hereafter though in the world there is a huge discrimination. Perhaps this discrimination is for test for the sufferers and the sufferers will get plenty of prizes in Islamic Paradise Insha Allah.
Man’s wife is his slave. Mean she does not have any will or anything of her own. She just does what she is told to do. People follow the sharia fully and dont do anything of their own choice only then they can be happy. Same way if a woman completely and fully obeys her husband like god only then she can be happy in life. I love my husband and he loves me. I only do what he wants me to and dont do what he does not want me to do. I cannot even think about disobeying him in slightest way. He likes it this way so if I dis please him god will not be happy. I take every step with his permission. I do not let him do anything in home’ I serve him like his servent. When he needs anything he tells me to do it. He keeps me locked up at home all the time cant even look outside. Everything he says is an order for me. Obeying him is the most important thing in the world. I prefer his will above my own. I no longer have any will. I dont do anything of my own at all just what he tells me to do or nothing at all. He loves that. If I dont do that he will not be happy. And I cant displease god or him. He owns me. He wants me to be a doll that he can play with. So any sisters who want to go to heaven this is the way to go. If you disobey a little bit you must go to hell forever. Allah created this life for just obeying him and wives to obey their husbands. When you enter heaven based on obeying only then you can have all your wishes come true. It is a fantasy so fullfill it after that you will be able to have what you want. Disobeying only deprives you of blessings and a thousand problems. You will object but if you love your husband and god then you will take this path to your desired jannat
I joked a bit she has rights and husband should not be harsh on her. Obeying is not for disobeying husbands and he has to completely obey god first. It is only for good shareef religious people. Bad not soft harsh men dont deserved to be obeyed. Men take bad meaning from that and women. It is only a fantasy of love what else is it. A good obeying not cruel. See god is not harsh. He is full of love. A women is a human she can make mistakes. May be you can obey and still have your own way as well. But you should fulfill all your basic duties and have sometime for yourself. You can balance your life according to your lifestyle. Women is not responsible for society problems society is suppose to be imperfect it is positive and negative. But she should wear full good islamic clothes when she is out. She should not go out too much according to the place she lives in how safe it is.whole world is not safe for its women. I think not many people have good love lifes in this time. If you only do your main and basic duties towards your family and husband that should be enough. I think women are naive and innocent and world is too cruel. They be harsh explaining. Allah is full of love but imams are very harsh with people. Love is crime. Ignorance could ruin a womens life. All men dont be good or have complete knowledge. People marry good women to bad and baf to good. But life will never be perfect. It will be better. So dont blame women some men and women have natural way of thinking there are two sides to everything. So look at positive side of life and good people. Why would a women reject without reason. These days most of the men are rejecting their good wives. It is apposite. Media is a test of end times which you need to find ways to be protected from. Women watch it as well. How she will know herself.human is weak
I know this is an old post. I just came on this website. How old are you? You sound like your a puppet for your self centered husband! I’m not in love with my husband so I quess it’s a little different. Locked in the house all the time. Get rid of him and get someone else that respects you. You sound young and controlled. I feel sorry for you.
Dear Muslim brothers and sisters, it will be better for us to try to enter Jannah to avoid the severe punishment of the Jahannam, more than any other things. Our aim should be to avoid the chastisement of the hell.
i read there is shape/face shifting marked in Paradise. So their ihabitans can change their face and body to whatever they like.. So muslim woman should be aware that there husband can have many beautiful faces and shape to choose from, and he may even come with new apperance everytime you see eachother.. Allah is Akbar, you will not complain once you are in there and you will be satisfied with what Allah have give you.
Oh i like my husband’s face and he cannot change it in jannah because he knows i don’t like it
You know not all of us want to so many wives n the need ro cohabit with them as u say….is tht even necessary….we follow a path of Sufism and all iv been taught is to ask ALLAH for himself…want something further than just 72 wives and wt nt…im ary but sex isnt everything ….y would u even bother abt stuff like tht when u can getthe chance to see Allah himself….is tht nt the best of rewards
Well I’m a woman and a Muslim woman wanting many handsome men. I just want to let yall know that they are many women like me wanting and love to be with many handsome men. I wish to Allah if I ever gone to heaven someday, my reward is also many handsome men. Inshallah. I want my earthy husband won’t get jealous cuz he will be the king from all those hot sexy guys (hoors). My earth husband will be 1000 times hotter than sexy hot hoors guy so he won’t get jealous.
Luv hot men,, What is the proof that women want many handsome men??? Women never proposes men in love relationship, women never search for male prostitute to have sex, raped women never supports her rapists but charges against him. Women never tries to rape any man. Yes, some women have black mailing chance and even more physical power than some weak men. Some women have administrative, political, academic, and power of wealth to rape men. But those powerful women never try to rape any men nor they try to force men to have sex with them. So where is the proof that women want many handsome men?????
Are you stupid, it is because Allah forbids them to do so that they did not do it. They force themselves and controlled their desire, what do you know about them. Men are not scared cause they can get away easily they don’t even face pregnancy or taboo/insult words from people around them. Are you sure women never proposes men in love relationship? Are you sure women never search for male prostitute? I guess you should read more about current society or go to pub, or japan red district. “The proof that women want many handsome men?” The one you replied isn’t a proof? Are you blind?
More and more nonsense..no one can see Allah..
No one cannot see electricity but will get shocked and die touching electrified materials with high Voltage.
Sorry, I had a grammatical mistake which changed the meaning. It will be, ”No one can see electricity but will get shocked and die touching electrified materials with high Voltage.”
You should think. Are you looking at right resources and experts of islam. You are looking at wrong resources and believing in people hearsay. It does not say anything clearly about islam in bible. Bible talks about wrong prophets but there be true prophets also.
There is a big difference between islam and muslims. Islam is a branch of knowledge for imperfect humans. And muslims are people. People either dont have a brain or knowledge. Muslims are ignorant like humans have always been ignorant. Even so called modern people are ignprant in some ways which they dont know. People misunderstand either they are looking at muslims the people or islam the set of knowledge
I don’t know what you’re trying to say but clearly what these “scholars” are saying is completely wrong and misogynistic. They add their own words in the Qur’an in brackets such as “fair maiden” next to the word “hur” when that does not even signify female. Similarly azwajun Mutahhurun means “spouse” or “companion”. This has been translated as so by translaters such as Sahih international and Pickthall.
http://quran.com/2/25
Notice how verse 25 of Surah Baqarah has been translated as “pure spouses/companions” by various translators NOT as the biased “fair maiden.” Look at the Arabic word before assuming false things.
There are still some sane men out there:
http://sheikhynotes.blogspot.co.uk/2010/01/womens-reward-in-paradise-in-islam.html
http://sharif2601.wordpress.com/2013/11/06/muslim-women-slaves-of-men-even-in-jannah/
The first link was an accident. Ignore that. But here: http://sheikhynotes.blogspot.co.uk/2010/01/womens-reward-in-paradise-in-islam.html
http://sheikhynotes.blogspot.co.uk/2010/01/womens-reward-in-paradise-in-islam.html
This above video is by respected scholars (Sheikh Salim Morgan and Shaikh Yusuf Estes) who know what they are saying.
Another one:
Very good post BY A MAN:
http://sheikhynotes.blogspot.co.uk/2010/01/womens-reward-in-paradise-in-islam.html
Qur’an Surah Al Furqan 25:16 Allah Taa’la states – “For them therein is whatever they wish, abiding eternally. It is ever upon your Lord a promise requested.”
Qur’an Surah Ya-Sin 36:57 Allah Taa’la states – “For them therein is fruit, and for them is whatever they request.”
Qur’an Surah Al Nahl 16:31 Allah Taa’la states – “Gardens of perpetual residence, which they will enter, beneath which rivers flow. They will have therein whatever they wish. Thus does Allah reward the righteous -”
Qur’an Surah Qaf 50:35 Allah Almighty states – “There will be for them therein all that they wish, – and more besides in Our Presence.”
Qur’an Surah Az Zumar 39:34 “They will have whatever they desire with their Lord. That is the reward of the doers of good –“
Qur’an Surah Az Zukhruf 43:71 Allah Almighty states – “Circulated among them will be plates and vessels of gold. And therein is whatever the souls desire and delights the eyes, and you will abide therein eternally.”
Qur’an Surah Al Anbiya 21:102 – “They will not hear its sound, while they are, in that which their souls desire, abiding eternally.”
Dear sisters, ignore these misogynistic men and scholars. Trust and believe in Allah S.W.T. He has promised us in the Qur’an and we need no more confirmation than that. Jannah is a place of true happiness. It’s the perfect world. How can you NOT have what you want in such a place? Just stop listening to these lying, foolish men and continue believing what’s right.
There will be no jealousy in jannah, and no discrimination either, wives will be superior to hours, and lots of people have misinterpreted the true meaning of what quran said but hours are real…. and yes women will have these great rewards, after all, under the feet of a mother, there is jannah etc
What nonsense. Women also want men! Why would a woman want material things over companions?! Why would I want a diamond necklace over a handsome man? Are you stupid or completely oblivious about what women want? Every woman is different with her needs and desires such as every man is different. We will be rewarded according to our individual desires not collective! Some men or women may not want to get married, some may not want hurs, some may want many so etc.. If a woman gets Jewellery, then men will also have material things they want, if women get beauty, so will men, but if men get huris then why not women? Women will also have whatever they want. Don’t forget that.
What woman wants to get married after reading this? That we’ll be property in this world and then property in the next world. No, we want freedom too. We want our choice of spouse(s) too. And if we work hard in this world then why would we be rewarded less than men? How is that fair?
This is disgusting. So now Muslim “scholars” will tell me that my husband will have me, another wife and 100s of houris? Only men can think this is justice. And then they say that jealousy will be taken away? If I want another man or multiple men, that is NOT jealousy that is DESIRE which is no different to a man’s. Allah S.W.T states clearly in the Qur’an that everyone will have whatever they desire. And if a woman desires other men over her husband in Jannah, then she will have him! Why would a man get something but a women will be restricted? Do you know how hard it is for so many Muslim women to not even be able to choose a spouse of their choice in this world? Now “scholars” are going to tell us women that we will be restricted in Jannah as well and will be just another piece that our husbands will use? Yeah right.
Many scholars including Dr Zakir Naik have translated the word Hur as pertaining to both male and female. So “Hurs” are for both men and women. “Hur” is plural of Hawra = female and Ahwar = male.
So these rewards are not only for men but also for women because otherwise it isn’t justice and Allah S.W.T is the most JUST.
Muslim men say that “A Muslim women will be stuck with her worldly husband in Jannah even if she does not wish to, but a man can prance around with 100s of women while his wife watches and on top of that, his wife will be much more beautiful to satisfy him even further.”
Can you even believe that Muslim men are giving this sad, Hell-ish definition of Jannah to both men and women of this world?! How pathetic.
No wonder so many Muslim women are losing faith. Please sisters, ignore such things and people and focus on what Allah S.W.T has stated in the Qur’an. He has promised us anything we want.
The Qur’an takes precedence over the Hadith.
Please dnt comment if u dnt even know what Jannah is all about…its clear that u have not understood a single thing said before u in this article..
Please dnt comment if u dnt even know what Jannah is all about…its clear that u have not understood a single thing said before u in this article…
So according to you Jannah is all about the pleasure of men? All women bow down to men? Men get whatever they want in whatever quantity they want? Men are supreme? Women are the pets of men? Men get all the “hurs” and women wait for their man to finish his business? Women get a used man while men get perfect women? You are disgusting.
Don’t worry, women will also have beautiful men and whatever they wish. Are you going to stop Allah from granting a woman’s desire? And don’t worry, I don’t think a wife would want to stay with a husband like you in Jannah so she will be free from you, In’sha’Allah. And don’t worry, you won’t feel jealousy either. I’m sure you don’t need me to explain the correct definition of the words “hur” and “Azwajun Mutaharrun.”
Clearly your misogynistic self cannot take the idea of male and female equality. Astaghfirullah. I wish nothing but Jahannum for people who hurt each other through deceitful lies.
If you believe in such injustice and inequality then you are not following Islam.
look syatan can imitate imams, preachers, and scholars. As i said before when MEN talk about hur al ayn, they describe hur as lower their gaze, modesty, virgin means women. which is they forget that in the quran Allah says Men and women have to lower their gaze, men and women do not close to adultery means they both, men and women, have to be virgin, men and women have to modest.
People forgetting those stuff in the quran. In the quran does not mention the sex of the hur al ayn, but MEN believe so damn much that hur al ayn only for them. Hur al ayn is both reward for men and women period.
god promises will protect quran but not hadith. So hadith can be corrupted by pervert men to destroy humans faith.
Women have hymen which means they are virgin. People say men dont have that. Men have hymen too foreskin at the end of organ is equal to hymen for men. Which should not be taken away after birth on boys. If a girl does not have a bleed that means she is not a virgin. Same if boys foreskin is dirty he is not virgin. If it is clean he is virgin. So man’s foreskin can be equal to hymen in women. I think taking boys foreskin after birth is wrong.
Circumcising boys is in hadith not quran. Obsessed sad muslims will give you sad reasons for circumcision of boys. What if he is circumcised after marriage. Will that prove he is virgin or not by inspecting his organ
Which/what is the proof that women want many handsome men??? Women never propose men in love relationship, women never search for male prostitute to have sex. Any Raped woman never supports her rapists but charges against him. Women never tries to rape any man. Yes, some women have black mailing chances and even more physical power than some weak men. Some women have administrative, political, academic, and power of wealth to rape men. But those powerful women never try to rape any men nor they try to force men to have sex with them. So where is the proof that women want many handsome men????? Moreover after marriage, men suffer for not having chance to have sex because some men’s wives most of the time refuses to have sex all the time. I have read a complaint of a man that he informed in the internet that his wife don’t wanna have sex most of the time. So he gets chance to have sex with his wife twice in every month that too is he forces his wife twice every month to have sex with him though he has desire to have sex with his wife everyday but due to his wife’s refusal he cannot have everyday.
look man!! jannah is what ever you are desire PERIOD. Do not listen to any other humans that will destroy your faith. God is just and fair. In the quran says jannah for both men and women. What HUr al ayn mean?? companions (could be men or women), spouses (could be men or women), VIRGIN ( could be men or women). SOciety specially in the western society think that virgin means only women. Most of people , most of men, think virgin means breaking they HYMENS, which is not true. Virgin means anyone (men or women) who do not have any sexual intercourse. THat is why in the quran allah says both MEN AND WOMEN have to stay away from adultery. For both men and women who guard their chastity (pure, or virgin). Let religious, muslim men, or non muslim men think that they have stronger desire than us. Those men think that they are god that know what women think. No humans are the same.No humans know what in everysoul desire or think what they think. Let men say that we, women, never think about sex at all. Let men think only them thinking about sex every seconds not women. Those men that telling women never think about sex means those men playing GOD. Only allah knows what all hes creation thinking about NOT men. Let men think that their sexual desire stronger than us, as i said their not god. SOme men and even religious preachers hate the truth about hur al ayn is could be men or women, They just selfish. Let them being selfish and arrogant. Remember when ALLAH told animals, angels, and jinn to bow down to adam, but jinn rejected because he told allah that allah created him from fire and adam is from earth (dirt). Jinn didnt bow down because he think that hes stronger than adam. Arrogance, make jinn got kicked out of heaven. The same think to Man. Let them think that men are stronger than women, men have stronger sexual desire thats why they think that they will have many wives in jannah and all women sharing husband. Let them think that they are superior than us because we are women weak.
read the hadith. Many of them telling different think about hur al ayn concept. One hadith says full brested, one says big beautiful eyes (means asian are ugly, only women have big eyes not men), one hadith says beautiful ( only women beautiful not men. What about yusuf of joseph AS. He is the most beautiful man and prophet), other hadith says no menstruation, no tools ( so men never have tools or feces), other hadist says people in paradise will be busy and they translated to busy breaking hymens instead of busy praising allah, other hadist say no pregnancy, other hadith says no hanging boobs LOL, other hadith says white beautiful women (mean asian, black, hispanic, and mix racial are ugly as hell LOL)
Now you know that people confused what hur al ayn mean. Off course pervert men will pick and believe so damn much that hur means women for them. The pervert religious men and regular men do not accept hur al ayn is companion or mates. They want to believe hur al ayn means WOMEN. Those perverting men do not accept that hur for both men and women. They just want for themselves LOL
Some people and men says Allah created more men than women. GIVE ME the surah in the quran says that I, allah created more women than men. Some people had idea thats is why men giving many wives in jannah because god created many women and men have very strong desire about sex than women
Let me ask you people? God created pair of human adam and eve. Not adam and 2 eves, or tenths, or thousands eves in paradise!!!
Remember when adam and eve had children on earth. 2 pairs boys and girls. One of the son killed other son. There you go 1 men down (died). Where did adam’s son goes when he got killed? heaven insha allah. WHere is the killer goes after he died Hell probably (only allah knows). MEn died in so many wars, where did all those men that died in wars go? either heaven or hell depend on their taqwa or good conduct to allah. Remember not only men died in wars, children and women also since thousands years ago. Pharaoh killed many newborn males, make more women and baby girls live that times. Where did the baby boy go after pharaoh killed them? heaven insha allah since they dont have sins and still pure. In old arabian times, jahiliyah time, cruel fathers killed and buried baby girl infants alive. Where did those baby girl infants go? heaven insha allah since they do not have sins and still pure. The World War 1 and 2 how many men, women, and children died knownly and unknownly? Where did those people go? either hell or heaven. Only allah knows. Many baby girls killed in India because for them girls are misfortune for the parents? where did those baby girls go after get killed? in heaven insha allah. In china, many baby girls died because the one child policy. THey pick baby boy more than baby girl. Where did those baby girls abortion go? heaven insha allah.
People and scientists say that baby girls have chance survive than baby boys, if those baby boys do not survive where do you think they go? heaven insha allah.
So people please do not say that more women in heaven or more men in heaven or more women in hell. Nothing in the quran says that more women in hell only in HADIST. We do not know which hadith is authentics since men corrupted?? if hadith true about more women in hell because prophet muhammad said so, Isnt it 1500 years ago?? did muhammad saw say even now adays more women in hell so no judgment day, or grave question at all?
So can humans calculate with calculator how many men born and died since prophet Adam AS thru nowadays?? If you do not know , so then do not guess and tell a lie about god created more women than men.
We do not know if the hadith not corrupted by humans and syatan. We know that quran never corrupted by humans and syatan but not hadith.
When you ask men how many times they think about sex, probably they said every day and every seconds, but do you know that is really what they think every day? mouth can lie but they cant lie to humans since they want to look studs but they forget that allah knows what and how many times they think. Who knows they think about sex little bit.
The same think apply to women. When men asking women how many times they think about sex, some might say none and some say just once a week. But how do you know that women do not think about sex every second or everyday just like men do? their mouth can lie but they cant lie to god
When men asked how many times they masturbate, they will say everyday. Because they want to look studs and they want women know that their sexual desire are stronger than women. But they cant lie to allah. I heard many men say they did not masturbate at all. Same think to women, if you ask women how many times they masturbate, Most of the times they wont tell you because they do not oper minder about sex. but still you cant say women doing less masturbate than men. Only allah knows NOT MEN. Mouth can lie but you cant lie to allah.
Think about it when men tell they masturbate or sleep around with many women, society accepted or think that men nature, and they want to look stud. But they forget the jugdment day.
but when it comes to women say that they masturbate many times or sleep around with many men, society think they are SLUTS, WHORES, and disgusting
In this world, god give every humans with trial or test. God tests men to have many wives up to 4 and women test to accept their husband doing polygamy (it hurts so much but we have to accept it or divorce) . Do you think in heaven god is going to make women the same trial again in jannah sharing husband? Heaven is about happiness and no more trials. What ever your innerselve desire god will fullfill your desires. Some men hates it when allah says he will give every pious men and women innerselves desires. Some men will tell you even in the internet, they will say the desire have limit. They say what if human desire to have sex with animals, do you think god will rewards their desire? ( you all should know if you have that stupid desires, do you think you can go to heaven??). Some anger men will say and making excuses to tell women not all innerselve desire will be rewards. They do not want women innerselves desires to have many husbands in jannah, so they put idea that those women desire is disgusting and lustfull. They put stupid idea of limit desire. I heard in internet when men commented about innerselves desire about what if humans desires to have sex with every single people in jannah to be their wives or husbands. THere you go again since those men get mad about innerselves desire and telling women not every desire will fullfill by god, they give stupid examples. Off course if you have desires to have sex every single human being in jannah including your father or mother what make you think you can go to heaven?? To those stupid men please do not give stupid example just because you were mad at the ideas of innerselves desire what women want. If some women desires wanting many hot men in jannah why is it you give stupid example of limit desires with have sex with animals or have sex with every single human being in jannah. CONTROL YOUR ANGER !!!
The idea of Women is 1000x better than the hur al ayn, where is it come from? quran? hadith? i bet in hadith because look at in quran nothing says women will look 1000x prettier than hur al ayn! Many muslim and non muslim men say why would i want hur al ayn if my wife is thousand times prettier than hur al ayn??
When hadith describes hur al ayn like WOW how beautiful they are, even when hur spit on the ocean the salty taste ocean will become sweet. Isnt spitting is not appropriate in islam? Did the person who said this ever seen hur in spitting?? When they mention how gorgoeus beautiful magnificent of how hur in are then they say ur wives better than them LOL.
The idea of women will not got jealous with men having many wives in jannah because they will look prettier than hur in or they become the queen in jannah and also god will removed their jealousy. The question is what make women feel relieve or happy becoming prettier than hur in or the queen of hur in?? what if the other way around all men will sharing wives in jannah. All women will have 2 earthy husbands and 72 hot men for her but do not worry because you will be 1000x more handsomes than those 72 studs hot men and you will be the king and god will remove your jealousy?? LOL i bet men will kill their wives and make their wives to become unbeliever so they wont go to heaven. Some men like to say this “why is it women always like to complain never accepted sharing husbands, no wonder majority in hell is women”!!! I dont blame him since women worry about the idea of jannah according to men. The question is to those men that said women complaining so much what if men have to share wives in jannah? i swear to god those men with such as ugly tounge will complain also.
When some hadith mention THESE :
, Abu ‘Umama (R.A.)
(Allah be pleased with him) reported that Allah’s Messenger Every one of them will have a pleasant vagina and he (the man) will have sexual organ that does not bend down during sexual intercourse (perpetual erection).” [Ibn Majah, volume 5, number 4337], [Ibn Majah, vol.v, page 547: Hadis number 4337]
The question is Did prophet muhammad SAW when he went to jannah israk mikraj, had sex in jannah during this time?? or he peek on people in jannah while their having sex?? or people in jannah talking about their experience in sex?? YOU HAVE TO TELL ME THAT?? is it true or not??
A man will touch 100 virgins a day.” [Tabarani, al-Mucam as-Saghir & Awsat]
WOW each man will busy breaking the hymens instead of praising allah
Hashim b. Khalid says, ‘The words “out of his inheritance (due) from the denizens of the Fire” in above stated Hadith, mean men who will enter the Fire and the inmates of the paradise will inherit their wives just as the Faroah’s wife (Aasiah R.A.) will be inherited (by the believers).
So Aasiah, Faroah’s wife, will be cut in pieces for all men in jannah?
Houri will say: “We are Houri who has not had a sin.” The women of this world will reply them saying: “We are the fasters (who keep fast), and you are not, we are the prayers, but you are not and we are the givers of charity but you are not.”
according to this hadith all women will be mouth fighting against hur in and fight over their husbands who has right up on their husbands?? No men in jannah will ever fight for their wives since they are 100 % pray, fasting , and zakah??
I dont say that prophet muhammad SAW is a liar. Humans and syatan corrupt the hadith to make prophet muhammad look bad and pervert.
He has daughters also, mother, female cousins, and grandmother. Prophet muhammad is a perfect human being, shy, modest, never do adultery, never talks vain, and respect women.
When hadist say hur al ayn translated lowering their gaze, modest, virgin, never get old, beautiful never urinated, never tools or feces. Remember in the quran allah told the believers (both men and women) to lower their gaze, men and women to be modest, both men and women virgin (means no sexual intercourse before married), both men and women who guard their chastity (pure, virgin), both men and women do not close to adultery.
hadith say each men will have 2 worldy wives and extra 72 hur in, the other said each men will have 2 worldy wives, 72 hur in and 300,000 extra single women never get married before, another said 2 worldy wives, 70 hur in, 80,000 female servants and 300,000 wives extra, other said 343,000 huris for single men in jannah
You guys tell me if these hadith never corrupted by men or syatan??
Most of these hadist talking more about sex to hurin and women than pleasing to allah and pleasing meet the all allah’s messengers and prophets, pleasing meet their family like fathers, mothers, daughters, sons ect….
To some of religious men like imam, preachers, or men think about all women will share husbands in jannah (what women rewards), they forget their mothers birth them in 9 months in their wombs with pain and uncomfortable, and suffer during pregnancy and yet they dare talk about all their mom will sharing husband, majority will be their mom in hell. MASHA ALLAH!!!! NAUDHUBILLAH !!
Educate yourself for all those men!! Even though you hates women or your wives, but dont forget your mothers, daughters, female cousins, aunts, and grandmothers. You guys only thinking about your fathers, sons, male cousins, uncles, and grandfathers
Have you heard when some imams or preachers said that men have more difficulty than women guarding their chastity, men have stronger sexual desires than women, thats why their rewards in many wives in jannah?? think about it for the parents, they let their sons do what ever they want, but to their daughters, they tell them to be virgin, chastity, and controling them.
They think that they let men do what ever they want because they are the leader. If they think they are the leader why is it ALLAH sent all his messengers for both men and women to the right path. Allah sent his messengers to teach not only women to the right path, but for both men and women.THINK ABOUT IT!!
WHen men say that many men going to prostitution because they sexual very strong and uncontrolable than women. Let say a man have sex with a prostitute in one night, i bet he will think he has strong sexual desire, but think about it how many men that this prostitute had been having sex before and after this man?? how many wives or girlfriend been cheating behind their husband and boyfriends? Maybe men said not that many like men, but they forgot about how many women or wives have never been caught cheating on their husbands or boyfriends?
Some men said many women got raped because their sexual drive stronger than women, thats why women get chance to be rape not men!! Even in the prison one man can get rape by many men just like gangbang. think about it again? why women want to rape men since men have stronger physical or muscle then them. Before those women try to rape the men, the men will knock them out or kick their ass. Anyway women do not need to rape men to have sex with, if they want they can ask their male friend (if he wants it), or just go to club no problems or no hard times for women getting men to have sex with specially those women are hot.
Men think that women can only love a man but a man can love many women! Since muslim men allow to marry upto 4 wives and women not. They forget again just because women are prohibit to have many wives doesnt mean they do not have desire loving another men or liking or wanting many men. Some imams or preachers say that women by nature can only love one man and men by nature can love many women. What happen with those women, muslim or non muslim women, that cheating behind their husbands with either the men that hotter than their husband, more handsome or uglier than their husband, older or younger then their husband, nicer or not nicer than their husbands, ect… thats all about sex period not because attention, whose more warm or comfertable!!!
Remember the story about yusuf AS, His face carried immaculate beauty. The purity of his inner soul and his heart showed in his face, increasing his beauty. People from afar came to the city to have a glimpse of him. The prettiest of maidens and the richest of ladiesnursthe to possess him,
The chief minister’s wife, Zulaikha could not resist the handsome Joseph, and her obsession with him caused her sleepless nights. She fell in love with him, and it was painful for her to be so close to a man, yet be unable to hold him. Remember when Zulaikha tried to seduce prophet yusuf AS and all the female guest cutting the fruits and they did not notice they cut their fingers once they all looking at the prophet yusuf AS. Zulaikha honestly believed that it was not easy for any women to resist a man as handsome as Joseph. Zulaikha convinced her husband that the only way to save her honor was to put Joseph in prison; otherwise she would not be able to control herself or to safeguard his prestige.
Now you guys have to know even women got hard times to control their chastity when they see hot guys than their husbands. The same thing augusta’s daughter, the first emperor in rome. Some story said that she slept with 70000 men, is it true or not / human just exagerated? only allah knows. and how many women or wives cheating with other men that hotter than their husbands.
PLEASE guys do not said that women have less sexual desire than men. Only god knows not YOU. Also dont put the stupid or irrelevent story about if imam or teacher tell the pupil who want many wives in jannah and the all the boys will raised their hands. But if they said who want many handsome husbands in jannah and no girls raised their hand. DONT GIVE IRRELEVANT story or stupid story. Off course women will be happy to have many handsome husbands in jannah. Me i will be please.
Dont give stupid story about if a father or mother telling their son to behave and his rewards are beautiful wives and the son will be so happy, but if the father or mother telling their daughter to behave and her rewards are handsome men and the daughter wiil feel insult or hurt feeling. Who is this stupid people telling this stupid story.
IMAMS or PREACHERS, SCHOLARS becarefull when you preach, talk , and write about jannah and women. How many women and men turn away from islam or become the unbeliever since their hoping and believe their leader will preach to give them stronger faith than weaker their faith. LEARN more the quran not with your men emotion and selfish. Remember your preach either bring you to hell or heaven. You decide. Im only a stupid woman that learn quran and sunnah. But i dont say it all i say is true. You all should learn your self and learn to many imams, or people not just one. May allah forgive all of us and grant us jannah amin ya rabbal alamin
Walaikum salam
PEOPLE use your brain. You are smarter than animals
Dear Sister,
Many of the points you have mentioned are mentioned in good faith but perhaps misunderstood. Before a detailed response below I agree that Quranic texts sometimes refer to companions but sometimes they refer to and give description of women companions in Paradise.
This however does not rule out handsome men companions for our believing sisters in Islam. It was true during the time that Quran was revealed and it is even true today that it is easy to talk about male sexuality than female’s (except in research circles). Same goes with the hadith text’s.
You refer to scholars as somewhat biased and you even inferred that these hadith may be corruptions. If the specialists of hadeeth have graded them reliable then they are as true as the other hadeeth that may suit your sense. Thereofore I believe you have a misconception about scholars. No true scholar can dare to belittle the rewards that Allah has Promised to beleiving women. This would be a serious crime.
In your discussion you have missed the point that many of the ahadith quoted in the articles were asked by ‘male’ sahaba and Prophet (saws) answered with some details which another ‘man’ would be encouraged to hear. There would be no need for Prophet to also include in these hadeeth details which interests a woman because he was answering to a man not a woman. However the Prophet answered to the inquires of female sahaba in the manner they inquired. If some encouraging details about the husbands of paradise are not available through these texts then the verses of Quran describing rewards to beleving men and beleiving women as equal in measure to their deeds and what they desire are proof.
You assumed that scholars think that women have somewhat lower sexual desire than men and therefore their opinions are somewhat biased.
In reality every grown up human who has had sexual experience knows that this is far from truth. It seems you are a grown up women and I need not elaborate more. What is true however is that men and women have different fitrah even when it comes to their sexuality. It is a whole different issue if in present day society the sexual fitrah of both men and women has changed due to promiscusity of modern society at large.
I do understand that there may be some woman who would desire to have many partners. But the limit set by Allah in this world is 1. However if someone is not properly satisfied then she can find another husband. In the same way some men can argue that 4 wives are also not enough for them. But that is the limt set by Allah in this world is 4 if they can treat them equally.
Ameen that may Allah swt may forgive our shortcomings and grant us Jannah.
Nonsense and more nonsense.
denial and more denial
You dont know fitrah of me, I was five when we did not have television in pakistan. Without everything I had a sexual fitrah. I have seen everything now, english and asian. My fitrah is exactly same as men I know all the fitrahs of men. If I told you all my limitless less fantasies your firah will fail. Do not guess my fitrah ask me my fitrah. It is very lovefull and very lustful fitrah. How many time I think about it. Lets say some scholar said this is confirmed hadith and it was not but you would accept.
Why do you think women are so useless. They are not. Men and women are equal but not necessarily the same. I dont know you and I have no right to judge you but let me assure you there are men who treat their women with utmost repect and honour. I personally have never ever come across a guy who looks down on women. Infact guys are protective for their women. I dont know what you’ve been through but it seems life has been pretty harsh on you. I pray for you.
Do you know how much time a male get sexually excited in a day? It is sometimes more than 100 in a day if he is in relax mood. Even if a man ejaculates all the semen, his sexual desire arises after a short time again. This is what a man suffers in the world. Yet men don’t get their desired women with whom they wanna have sex. It is absolutely true because even an Emperor don’t get the beautiful women all the time whom he desires. So having a penis is like having an excessive pressure of urine most of the time a day even at the time of sleep too.
If you were a man, you could understand how hard and punishing it is for a man to control himself from touching a woman years after years. If you were a man, you could realize the punishment of the males which some males feel from 12 years old at the time of sexual desire when he doesn’t have any beautiful sexual partner to satisfy him.
Sexual excitement causes males to become impure, that’s why many times male persons cannot perform Salat at the right time.
Masturbation never satisfies a man fully. Because during masturbation, a man cannot kiss, hug a woman and don’t have the opportunity to press the boobs.
Women DON’T WANT SEX as frequently as a men want. That’s why in Jannah most of the time women will be busy in doing other things rather than having sex just like they are busy in other non-sexual things in this world.
I don’t believe people have the same body, let along the same gender after this life. I don’t think we have human bodily desires in heaven. Why would they have female chest and other parts if they don’t get pregnant? It’s saying female parts are only to please a man but not to feed a baby. It sounds like this was made up to appeal to teenage boys.
Dumb people and uneducated people think that GOD knows the best rewards for WOMEN kitchen,
mansion, gold, jewelry, plates, forks, lock in the room, sharing husband, no need handsome men, LOL
Dumb people and uneducated people think that GOD knows the best rewards for MEN are many women or wives thousand or hundred of thousand of women pretty one. THATS ALL LOL\
Dumb and uneducated people think GOD knows the best rewards for women is SHARING HUSBAND since ALL men wanting POLYGAMY in JANNAH LMFAO
HEY ANYNOMOUS!!
let me marry you right now and i swear to god i will cheating wiht many men then i want to see you will not get hurt at all. IF U GET HURT WELL THTS THE SAME THING WHAT WOMEN FEEL THAN YOU LEARN.
COME TO AMERICA THEN YOU KNOW HOW MANY WOMEN WILL HURT U. DONT HURT ASIAN OR ARABIC WOMEN BECAUSE THEIR INNOCENT AND PURE HEART. CHALLENGE WITH WHITE WOMEN LIKE ME I BET YOU WILL GET HURT AS HELL
ANYNOMOUS !!!!!!!!!!
NOw you are giving the most stupid example ever. CALORIES?? wht has anything to do with CALORIES??? GIVE ME A BREAK!!! R U COMPARING SEX AND CALORIES NOW WOW BRAVOO
SO if a mother giving more food to his son then a daughter because son need more calories
SO UR POINT IS GOD WILL GIVE MEN MANY WIVES IN JANNAH BECAUSE MEN NEED IT??? so God will closed his eyes FOR WOMEN DO NOT WANT SHARE HUSBAND OR WANTING MANY HUSBANDS??
GOD WILL GIVE YOU MANY WIVES IN JANNAH BECAUSE YOU REALLY NEED IT. BUT ALL YOUR WIVES JUST WANTING YOU ONLY!!
ALLAH is not DAJJAL only HAS ONE EYED
we re talking about jannah paradise heaven NOT WORLD.
Quran is an old nonsense written by arab men for arab men
if you are a muslim and you said it and meant it, I believe you are out of islam and will need to understand islam again and repeat kalma, stupid person, quran was sent by God as a universal to all men and there have been lots of misinterpretations of it…
I deny it and I want a fight with you. Come on lets have a proper fight somewhere.
IF muslim women do not have strong faith and they read this article about their heaven will be sharing husbands, and god do not do justice in heaven, what do you think they will do?? I ve known 4 muslim women and also men became unbeliever once they keep hearing in the mosque and reading stupid people said in hadist or quran women will be sharing husbands in jannah. I hope to god, those people who teach people wrong and fitnah about islam just like this article, they will take the responsibility to those women and men who become unbeliever once they read this article, in the other life.
Since i have strong faith to ALLAH insha allah, i ignore this stupid article fitnah about islam. But these people should be very carefull to put wrong about hadist and quran cuz those people will take the responsibility about this. THink about it when non muslim read this article, they will look islam religion very bad to women and god is not just . Im american and most of my friends are non muslim, they keep telling me about muslim paradise is pain in da ass for women. I have to tell them many times that is not true. Yall should look at the news hows Hammas leader’s son became unbeliever and talks shit about islam how they treat muslim women and also about women paradise in islam
we only r to preach what is correct and accurate, if anyone doesnt like it then he/she can have his/her own way,
what Allah’s messenger has thought is for all and the truth. ppl leave islam coz Allah takes away their iman,
If anyone dont like what they prophet said then he/she have nifaq in his heart.
According to you when people is doing preaching alway is correct, accurate, and acceptable. It always depend on what topic are you going to preach like for example if someone preach the wrong way about some wrong hadist said that prophet muhammad saw told muslim people to kill non muslim people and the rewards 72 virgins, terrorism, suicide in the name of allah, circumzise the women so they wont get any desire or to control women desire, women not to allow to drive, women will be sharing husband in jannah, burning women face with the acids cuz the husband jealous, cutting off the women’s nose, beating up the women, father shot his daughter because the daughter dating non muslim guy (their only dating) but father never shot his son for dating non muslim women, husband chopped of wife’s head because the wife was cheating on him. etc…..
Make it that you are doing preaching in the mosque, internet, or what ever, you told people that to be a true believer they have to kill people, to be a true believer women like or not allah will make them sharing husband. So someone do not like it and leave islam means allah takes away their iman?
when iblis told adam and eve to eat the fruit so mean allah took adam and eve iman??
Allah punished adam, eve, and iblis and kick them all out of heaven.
So the point is allah will punish people who leave islam because they dont have faith and the people that gives wrong preaching about islam PERIOD thats what i have learnt
People do make mistakes’ you are suppose to correct them like a teacher checking homework. With relaxed behaviour not anger.
agree disagree one day truth will be revealed thets the purpose of judgement day.
Men can be virgin’ untouched. men can lower their gaze’ men can have beautiful eyes. Men will look at other women and women wont look at other men. I know why they are saying it but you should look at male actors’ singers’ dancers’ models producers’ directers’ writers etc as well not only female. If unlucky males are not happy then unlucky women are not happy too. You leave women to guess work. Some times both male and female get mistreated. But always remember world is not perfect place. Good people have to try to put stupid and bad people right with patience not mad frustrated behaviour.
So when LESBIAN muslim women who do not do adultery the reward in heaven god will cure them to like men and once they cure god will make them sharing husbands with other 700000 wives?????
ALL Religious muslim women rewards in heaven are sharing husbands?????
ALL faithfull wives to their husbands, their rewards are sharing husbands with 500 hurs and extra 80000 unmaried women and blah blah blah???
ALL the women in this world suffered from period every months, suffered from their husbands married to 4 wives, suffered from pregnancy…. THeir rewards are sharing husbands??
All muslim women whos struggling to control their sex drive in this world, will reward sharing husband in jannah??
THIS IS NOT JANNAH OR PARADISE at all for us. IT IS paradise for men
WOW GOD is VERY JUST AND FAIR according to this stupid people
Why did God make them Lesbians to begin with if it was such a bad thing…to finally correct them in heaven…this whole book is BS
NO! It was to test them and to create diversity in the world, if I’m not wrong, you stupid!
me Muslim woman…but really u r amazing …your thought and my thought are very same..i like the way u think..me fully agreed with u…your all comments are my comments..really we are in same thought…
These stupid people who put this fitnah in islam are really dumb. LOOK at the surah al rahman 55 these stupid people mistranslate it and put it in the brackets :
…With Whom no man or jinn “yatmithhunna” (has opened their hymens with sexual intercourse) before them.” [Sura Ar-Rahmân (55):72,74]
WHAT???? HYMES?? Do you know what this mean?? VAGINA!! Can you believe this crap?? Holy quran is not a porn book.
In surah al rahman 55 is say “with whom no man or jinn before them has touch”
Nothing to do with HYMENS!!! IVE seen no hymes there!!
HUR al ayn is companion no gender could be man or woman. How could these people translate it HUR AL AYN as round breast, HYMENS (VAGINA), No menstruation,….. OH my GOd LOL dumb people!!
LOOK this one is fUNNY
“As stated in above mentioned Hadiths the situation of the believing woman in Paradise will be better than the situation of the houris (hoor al-Ayn); she will be higher in status and more beautiful than hur”
THey said women in this world wil be beautiful than houris and better status than huris but when they mention the houris sooo detail as WOW like fairy tales LOL
Read this one :
In book by the great Imam Ghazzali: Ihya Uloom Ed-Din. Volume 4, Page-4.430;
“According to Prophet Muhammad (صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) the Hurs (Houris) of Paradise will be pure women—free of menstruation, urine, stool, cough and children. The Hurs will sing in Paradise on divine purity and praise—we are most beautiful Hurs and we are for the honored husbands. Muhammad also said that an inmate of Paradise will have the sexual strength of 70 men. Muhammad said, “An inmate of Paradise will have 500 Hurs, 4,000 unmarried women and 8,000 widowed women. Each of them will keep embracing him for the duration of his whole worldly life.”
WOW!!
So according to this people think authentic hadist HURIN for HONORED HUSBANDS??
What is for HONORED WIVES??? sharing HUSBANDS???? LOL
SOme hadists said in according to MUHAMMAD SAW all men will have sexual strength of 70 men, some said 100 men??? which one is right??
SOme hadists said according to MUHAMMAD SAW all men will have 500 hurs, some hadists said 2 hurs, some said 2 worldy wives and exta 700,000 hurs, some said 500 hurs plus 4000 unmarried women an 80000 widowen women??????????/
I bet this people confused and tried to translate the quran so damn hard LOL.
WHen MEN mention only women are jealous look at this what they put ” huris will restrain their eyes not to look other men in jannah, All men wives will restrain their glance not to see other male…. LOL
hehe….true..true…me agree with u..
I really want to ask you all this simple questions, please read it carefully and answer with common sense and brain OK???
1. When god already mention in the quran “Therein you shall have (all) that your inner selves desire, and therein you shall have (all) for which you ask for” so if a woman wanting many hot guys in jannah means some selfish guys will stop allah not to give reward to that woman??
2. What do you think about this when Some scholars translate if a woman marry many times in this world and her husbands died before her, some said she will pick the last husband (what if the last one is jerk to her, what if she didnt love her last husband), some said she will only pick one of the best character (what if she wants to pick with not best character or none of them with no best character). BUT anyway nothing is good for woman because either way we have to share husband in jannah!! since scholar said all believing men will get 2 extra wordly wives and 72 wives from jannah.
3. what do you think about scholars said all men will get many wives in jannah, what if those men do not want many wives in jannah, so allah will force them to have many wives in jannah?
4. what if women do not want to share husband in jannah, so allah will force her to share husband in jannah? so what this quote means in quran “herein you shall have (all) that your inner selves desire, and therein you shall have (all) for which you ask for” so means nothing ??
Are you gonna change the quote instead of “herein YOU shall have all your inner selves desire TO “herein BELIVEING MEN ONLY shall have your inner selves desire??
5. Some scholar translate it and ulama tell why god give all believing men with many wives in jannah because men have stronger sexual lust desire than women or becuase all believing men wanting women so damn much.
My question is what happen with gay believing men who never doing zinah ( aldultery) to any other males? WHat happen to the lesbian who never doing zinah (adultery) to other females??
What happen with other women who have stronger sexual lust desire?
SO God will get rid off their (gay, lesbian, or women with strong desire) sexual lust desire because god has power to do so, But god could not or has no power at all to get rid of the lust of believing men who want many wives in jannah??
God has power to cure or fix gay, lesbian, or women with strong desire but god has no power to cure men who has strong desire at all in jannah??
6. when scholar said or ulama said huris never annoy their husband. I want to ask you, so only women will annoy their men but men never annoy their women at all. You think men are ANGELS who never annoy anyone or men are perfect than women??, we both men and women are made of sperm and ovum or made of dirt (earth) means men and women are the same can be annoy or not perfect.
7. When ulama or scholars said all women reward in jannah are gold and mension only because only women love gold and material. HALLOOOOO!! IF only women love gold, mension, or materials. WHy is it so many muslim men or non muslim men wearing gold or bling bling like the men hip hop singer or rapper?? if only women love material luxury in this world why is it many believing men or non muslim men doing corruption in this world, why is it so many men in this world become drug cartel??
ALL these because men want luxury too right?? Just because muslim men do not allow to have gold or jewelry means they do not have desire at all toward gold right??
Same thing with women just because women do not allow to have more than one husband means they do not have desire at all toward many husbands.
THe scholar or ulama who talk about jannah so damn detail not even in quran mention so detail about jannah. It seems to me that they been to jannah already. Even prophet muhammad said that in the quran god will give rewards to all believing men and women what ever their inner selves desire, even prophet muhammad said that allah will reward all believing men and women in jannah that ear has never heard before, eyed that never seen before and not even you heart will think know slightly about jannah
yup you r right sister!!
But too many men or selfish males disagree about the real meaning of hur al ayn. They want to believe so hard that they will make all females or their wives, sisters, daughters, aunts, grandmas, and female cousins to share husband. They always want to see all women are suffering. Its so clear in the quran that Allah will reward and promise to all pious men and women, patient men and women with FAIR and JUST. Allah will not injustice his creation in jannah. BUT the problem of the selfish people who mistranslated the quran or hadist, they believe so much that all women have to share husband. For them is justice. LOL. They do not think what if those stupid selfish men were born women, i bet they will get hurt also.
For the selfish men, they think they all have to have many wives in jannah and all women in this world have to share husband in jannah then is justice for selfish men. For the selfish stupid men do not want to hear if women can have many men in jannah . For them, only they can have many wives not women having many husbands.
First of All, Selfish men is less likely to get admitted into Jannah. So why thinking of them? Purest of the purest men/women are supposed to go to Jannah. It’s not so easy as we are thinking, we have to die, then have to go to the Grave alone, have to tolerate the punishment of the grave, then have to resurrect, then have to wait for long time for the judgement. and then the matter of going to heaven or hell will come only. Then once you will enter in jannah, do you think that these issues will come at all?
the topic they put is not about selfish men or unselfish men. The topic is EVERY MEN (MALES) will rewards more than 2 or thousands of wives in jannah. EVERY WOMEN will shares husband. THats the topic
We can understand the topic.
Unfortunately, you are thinking Jannah as world perspective!! Whereas that time will we be like this? Will our heart and soul be so impure? Not at all? Therefore we will not create any debate either. Even if you see in this World….how many women have simultaneously more than one husbands or how many of them like to have four five husbands together? First of all, to enter in Jannah will be the best relief/reward , get rid of hell fire will be the best reward and after that to see the appearance of the Almighty Allah in Jannah will be the biggest of all rewards. So, it’s meaningless to argue with men and women ratio in Jannah as people would not have this worldly ugly mind there in Jannah. That will be the place of peace and happiness, and therefore people will not be involved with these types of debate there.
I have sisters, mother, and aunts, female cousins . THere is no way i dont get offended or hurt feeling if I knew the heaven for them is so damn suck sharing husbands. This is crazy
First of all, let them enter in the Jannah!!!!!!!! You are sure that they are going to get admitted into the paradise?!!!
First of All, let them all get admitted into the paradise. You are sure that they are going to Jannah, right?!
Well James is not stupid but he is right the topic is the rewards in paradise nothing to do how to get there first. No body knows whos going to hell or heaven. Only allah knows. The problem when people said that authentic hadist said all women sharing husband
If someone is gay or lesbian then he/she can not be a true believer …Islam does not support gay activities and it is mentioned as a great sin in Islam, then how come a gay can be a “TRUE BELIEVER”?
“If any of your women are guilty of lewdness, Take the evidence of four (Reliable) witnesses from amongst you against them; and if they testify, confine them to houses until death do claim them, or Allah ordain for them some (other) way. If two men among you are guilty of lewdness, punish them both. If they repent and amend, Leave them alone; for Allah is Oft-returning, Most Merciful.” (Qur’an 4:15-16)
So it can be understood that a gay can not a true believer, if he would be, then he would have maintained/followed the basics of Islam.
Also about getting ……number of husbands and wives in Jannah, should not be questioned. Because we are thinking these as worldly context, but when believers will be in Jannah, surely their heart and soul will be purified and then may be no one will think like now we are thinking and explaining things in this world.
To admit into paradise will be a relief for them, I guess rather than thinking of wives and husbands and they will be thankful not to get admitted into hell fire. So we should not create debate on the number of husbands and wives only, rather we can try to see the big perspective, are we thinking that it would be easy to get admitted into Jannah? Nah!! And can we even imagine now how non believers will tolerate hell fire and other punishment whereas it is difficult for us to tolerate even small burning in this world? So, my believe is that if someone , somehow can get admitted into Jannah- he/she will only be thankful to the Almighty, rather than thinking these issues that time in a totally different perspective.
So if gay and lesbian are never do zinah so they not true believer???? Straight people doing zinah means they are true believer??? The problem is not because hell or heaven. THe problem is if a man have to shares wife with other malesin jannah , it is feel worse the hell. THe same think to women have to shares husband with other females in jannah, it is worse than hell. Cuz imagine you have to share your husbands eternity in jannah, wht do you think dumb ass.
It just so funny when they mention hur in only for believing MEN rewards in jannah. When they mention will get rid of their jealousy MEANS WOMEN. LOL. OH MY GOD. It seems men never got jealous at all. When they mention BAD thing in quran they Translate it to WOMEN lol. Even scholars who translate this stupid sunnah they think authentic , the scholars already so jealous about what women will get. THink about it scholar says women will lower their gaze not to see other male in jannah. Women wont go anywhere in jannah because other hot guys in jannah will steal them away. ITs sound jealous already. WHy is it they think women jealous
Great. Sir!……..
May god give 72 chaachi jees in hell to all the people who want 72 wives.
some say they will be servents. There will be robots who will do every thing. People will just relax. deprived chaachaa jees lose their brain because of hallucinations then they make such claims.
What is your problem? Obviously, you did not actually read the article that says the hoor ul ayn are gifts to the believing men. Most Muslims just want to make Jannah. I would be happy being dust there, but would welcome any reward for my prayers, fast, charity, etc.
Actually the word “Hoor” is a plural for both “Ahwar” which is applicable to the man and “Hawar” which is applicable to the women. And “Hawar” means ‘big, white beautiful eye” and it specially describes the whiteness of eye. . And it is rightly translated by ‘Abdullah Yusuf Ali’ that hoor means ‘companion’. Therefore “Hoor” actually means a ‘companion’ or a ‘spouse’’ It has no gender. Thus on paradise women will get a good man with big beautiful eyes. And man will get a good lady with big beautiful eyes.
Look up in the youtube about what women get in jannah by Dr. zakir naik
What Zakir Naik meant is in Paradise, every male and female will be with their companion with “big, beautiful eyes”. And their companion is their own worldly spouse with whom they will be united. In other words, people in Jannah will have attributes of beautiful eyes. Bear in mind that Houri, the special creations of Paradise are the servants of the dwellings of Paradise, nothing to do with sexual partner of men or women. The servants of Paradise will be both male and female.
Paradise is a place of justice, and those misunderstandings should simply be avoided.
Just believe firmly in your heart that – it is simply IMPOSSIBLE that Allah is not just to the women in Paradise…all will be equal. (Those explanation to justify the men’s need only is ridiculous. That is a mere brainwash)
Check again all those verses and hadiths — they are man-made explanation included in brackets to arrive to what they desire. Do not believe them — The Quranic word itself NEVER says about (fair maiden or female etc)- those always come in brackets by men!
It was narrated that Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The first group will enter Paradise looking like the moon on the night when it is full, and those who follow them will be like the brightest shining star in the sky. Their hearts will be as one, and there will be no hatred or jealousy among them. Each man will have two wives from among al-hoor al-‘iyn, the marrow of whose calves can be seen from beneath the bone and flesh.” (Narrated by al-Bukhaari, no. 3014; Muslim, 2843.
this is only one of the various hadees which talks about hoors as wife ,its a hadees of sahih bukhari and this is authentic hadees with out any doubt .board of scholars have agreed upon this hadees and various other hadees to be authentic,
what u r saying is absolute non sense , that hurs will be servent and no sexual relation or there will also be male hurs,
muslim ummah is divided into various sect like some follow imam abu hanifa, some imam malik some imam shafai some imam ahmed , but none of them has any dispute on this issue of hoor al ayn ,every body agrees that these r the beutiful females as a reward for good deeds of men.
u have not a single hadees to prove ur argument that there will be male hurs or there will be no sexual relation between them why?????????????????????????????????
how can u say that the scholar u r referring to has only understood the concept of hur correctly and and rest of thousands of scholars including the imams and classical scholars none were able to understand this concept and muslim ummah was fooled for 1400 years????????????????????????
now just use a little common sense , when allah the all mighty describes the hurs in quran , in every place where he talks about hurs he tells the about beauty ,
Like unto preserved pearls”
al-Waaqi’ah 56:22, 23]
“(In beauty) they are like rubies and coral”
[al-Rahmaan 55:58]
Loving (their husbands only), (and) of equal age”
[al-Waaqi’ah 56:35-37]
Therein (Gardens) will be Khairaatun‑Hisaan [fair (wives) good and beautiful]”
and various other places , i m asking a very simple question , what is the point of describing the beauty of a servent ?????????????????????????????
for example i want a servant in this world and some one says i have a servant for u with big beautiful eyes , i will say good but tell me about how good he is at doning any particular job?
and then he reply he is of equal age, i will say ok but what can he do? and he again replys he is very delicate , very loving , lowering his gaze, preserved in pavillions, ………………………. will it make any sense??????????????????????????
according to u these beautiful females r for teasing the men in jannah?????????????????????
and how many people will be motivated with the concept of beautiful servants, we know that we will not be the same in jannah as we r here we r lazy ,tiered ,weak in this world so we need servants to do our work but in jannah we wil be free from these disabilities so the idea of servants is no way motivating . and the servants in jannah are already been mentioned in quran as ghilman , so ur effort to declare hurs as servents is absolutely useless and nonsense
so brother plz think again
there r so so so so so so many hadees which talks about hurs in minute details, u can play with one or two words but u cant deny the fact ,that these r beautiful females as a reward for men. and no concept of male hurs is there in any hadees .and nor any indication from quran so plz listen to the scholars, u r referring to dr zakir naik .he is also a human being he can also make a mistake even the other scholars on peace tv have a different view i m sure all of u have listened to them. but not have the guts to digest the truth
wa ja al haq wa zahaqal batil innal batila kana zahoqa
So you mean men are superior to even good women. That means you dont love women. You just love lust. If mohammad said that it means he is superior to his mother. And his dad will have plus women along with mohammad’s mother. Ali will get plus women along fatima. Mohammad will have plus women along his wife. And his great grand mother husbands. And all the family but none of the women. Wow god is very good.
Hur ^In:
This is a combination of two words Hur and ‘In. The former is the plural of both Ahwar (Masculine) and Hawra (Feminine) which literally means persons distinguished by Hawar signifying “intense whiteness of the eyeballs and lustrous black of the pupils.” (vide: Qamus), hence the purity (vide: Tafsir al’Tabari, and Tafsir al-Razi in 3:52). And as for the word ‘In it is the plural of both A yan (Masculine) and ‘Ainao (Feminine) (vide: Al-Raghib.Al-Mufradat, Beirut, l998,Kitab ‘Ain,P.358)
It was basically used to refer to the beautiful eyes of the wild-cow whose eyes are blond. In later usage, this word was applied to any ‘most beautiful eye’ irrespective of the person’s gender.
Thus, the most appropriate English endering of the compound word Hur In will be: “Companions pure, most beautiful of eye.” (vide: Muhammad Asad, Message of the Quran in 56:22); and it is applicable to both male and female companions.
JUst because you believe so much about some hadist say HUr in means wives, u said those hadist are authentic???
If u see hur in mean applicable both men and women u said is not real hadist?
Off course you will pick something so sound delicious and selfish on the hadist all women will sharing husbands and husbands will enjoy with party sex. Women will be like robot no jeolaus at all. I bet this authentic hadist (u think) are the best one.
I want to ask u what is WIFEs mean in arabic words?? WHat is fair maiden in arabic words?? what is full breasted in arabic words?? U MEAN HUR IN????
Do you speak arabic PAL???
JUst because you believe so much about some hadist say HUr in means wives, u said those hadist are authentic???
If u see hur in mean applicable both men and women u said is not real hadist?
Off course you will pick something so sound delicious and selfish on the hadist all women will sharing husbands and husbands will enjoy with party sex. Women will be like robot no jeolaus at all. I bet this authentic hadist (u think) are the best one.
I want to ask u what is WIFEs mean in arabic words?? WHat is fair maiden in arabic words?? what is full breasted in arabic words?? U MEAN HUR IN????
Do you speak arabic PAL???
From the beginning to the end in the al quran are Plural. Always they (men or women) not HE.
anynomous have you gone to school?? DO you learn old arabic words from quran? or you just read some scholars says those you think authentic hadist that women will sharing husband?? How do you know there were authentic?? Have you gone to heaven yet?? Have you talk to Allah yet??
Mr. anynomous
Are you christian or muslim. U think men are superior than women. So those men who being a murderer, drug addict, doing adultery, thief ARE superior than women who’s very religious???
When humans think about VIRGIN automatically refers to WOMEN. But god said virgin is for both men and women that never have sex before. In the quran god says chaste man for chaste woman, pure man for pure woman. God never mentions adultery man for chaste woman, adultery man for pure woman.
When humans think about BEATIFUL automatically refers to women. Beautiful could be man and woman. Beautiful could be for an object or to animals or plants, for instance; beautiful car, beautiful house, beautiful cats, beautiful horses and etc…..
Have you gone to school to understand about quran or the meaning of the quran? I ve been going to master degree in the university and learning so much about al quran. Me and my colleagues seeing in the quran nothing in jannah that women have to share husband. Only in some hadist but we are not sure which one is authentic hadist. As we know that evil and man can change hadist but not quran. Many people trying to do FITNAH in islam. Many people trying to do FITNAH on our prophet Muhammad SAW. Prophet muhammad saw was very a shy man and respect women so much. 2 People that he loved the most are khadijah and fatimah. There is no way he wil make a vain talk about women have to share husband.
Hadist says different thing about everything that is why we do not know which one is authentic.
Some hadist allow for believing men to marry non believing women. Many muslim men marry jewish women, christian women, hindus women, and atheist women.
Some hadist do not allow for muslim men to marry non believing women UNTIL they become believer.
THink about it why all the wives of prophets muhammad saw become muslim before he marry them, why is it all sahabah of prophets muhammad saw marry to believer women??
Why is it men now a days marry with whomever they want without care what those women religion. Of course men will pick the hadist that allow them to marry any non believer women because they want something sound easy and better.
In the quran allah said believer man for believer woman and believer woman for believer man. God never says believer man for non believer woman or believer woman for unbeliever man.
IN the quran the only surah mention about women only IS surah An Nisa means women is the fourth chapter in the quran. THats the only surah specifically mention about women. The rest of the surah are for BOTH MAN AND WOMAN.
IN the quran everything written in PLURAL from the beginning to the end of the quran
ANyway we are going back about HUR AL AYN again
word húr, it is a plural of ahwar (applied to a man) and of haurá’ (applied to a woman), signifying one having eyes characterized by the quality termed hawar, which means intense whiteness of the white of the eye and intense blackness of the black thereof. The word ahwar (singular of húr) also signifies pure or clear intellect The other word, ‘ín, is plural of a‘yan (meaning a man wide in the eyes) and of ‘ainá’ (meaning a woman beautiful and wide in the eye).
Mr anynomous if you dont have scholar and degree knowing about quran can you please to shut your mouth up.
when did i said men r superior to women ? superiority has nothing to do with sex , superiority is based on takwa , and where did i said men doing murders adultery, drug addict etc r superior to religious women????? no way every body is equal in eye of allah superiority is only based on takwa ,
i dont know why u r thinking that i am against women or i hate them or i degrade them ???? what i am saying is very simple and clear ,that both religious man and women will make it to jannah inshallah and they will be rewarded.
now the question arise what the reward will be some of them r mention in quran and hadith ,
as far as the hurs are concern , its really strange how some people r trying to inject the concept of male hurs but have no supporting from quran or hadith ,
all of u when u say there will be male hurs u say about the word hur ,ahwar bla bla bla, no one disagree that it refers to big beautiful eyes, and thats right a man could also have big beautiful eyes but what about the other attributes ??? they no way fits on man
we all know that parameter’s of male and female beauty r different some time even opposite for example when we talk about female beauty we talk about delicacy and when we talk about males beauty we talk about strength ,power , muscles etc now when we look what is mention in quran regarding hurs just imagine it for a man for a while ,
men with big beautiful eyes ,lowering there gaze sitting in the pavilions , beautiful like rubies and corals , untouched ……………. is this is how u expect allah the all mighty the most wise will explain the attributes of a man???????????????????????? u gotta be kidding me .and here i have not mentioned the attributes u think r wrongly translated like round breasted , and other ……..
now lets come towards hadith , u have found a very easy way that which hadith goes against ur concept u say it unauthentic but i am sorry to say its not that simple . all sect of muslims agree that the most authentic book of hadith is sahih bukahri and the 2nd most authentic book of hadith is sahih muslim . the hadith mention in these books r already passed through many filters then the r considered to be the most authentic , there is a criteria through which a hadtih is considered to be authentic or unauthentic
and if a hadith is present in both books sahih muslim and sahih bukhari then its considered to be the most authentic and the hadith which i mentioned is present in both books
so i m extremely sorry to say that it not depends on ur liking or disliking to say a hadith authentic or unauthentic u have absolutely no authority for this and even ur so called master degree doesnt help,
and u said there r contradictions in hadith so we dont know which one to follow . yes i agree there r contradictions but lets see is there any contradiction relating to the subject we r talking about.i didnt found any hadith which talks about male hurs is there any my dear sister???????? forget about authentic or unauthentic . the answer is big nooooooooooooooooooooooooo absolutely no , not even a single hadtih in any book of hadith, and now what u people say is yes there is no hadith but hadith is also wrongly translated another lame excuse. so i say give me a hadith which is correctly translated according to u , still u will able to produce nothing..
yes if there is any contradiction among the hadith its about the number of hurs one will get ,so it doesnt matter what the actual number is 70000 ,100000, 100000000 what ever but one thing is sure that it will be more than one.
the other weak argument u give is every desire will be fulfilled, yes it is verse from quran but the way u r trying to use it is wrong , for example a person who reverts to islam and his parents died as non muslim when he enter jannah his inner self desire his parents to be with him. will that desire will be fulfilled?????????????????????? the answer is no and i am not saying this no from my own we all know that a nonmuslim cannot enter jannah .so ur this argument of every desire will be fulfilled is not except able , and to make it more clear for example if u and ur husband make it to jannah and ur husband inner self desire to have millions of wives and ur inner sellf desire that he have only one ,so it will be a situation of dead lock if allah fulfill ur desire the husbands desire will not be fulfilled and if husband desire will be fulfilled ur desire will not be fulfilled .
so my dear sister ur argument once again with all due respect is rejected.
now lets come toward justice, the problem is that u r not able to understand what actually justice is for example a mother has daughter and a son both of them r of same age and adult .and mother give more food to her son then her daughter will that be injustice ??????????? a fool like mr james will say yes thats injustice the mother should be hanged (.haha i have not used ur name cuz i respect women and mr james is a perfect example of stupidity) , any way but a sensible person will say yes it is justice because he know that the requirement of calories for adult male is more than adult female so if a mother give a food which 100% fullfill the calories requirement of his son and a food which is comparatively less to her daughter but which fullfil 100% requirement of her daughter thats absolutely fine
i hope u get the point
i think thats enough for now, so plz try to give it another thought . i know once again i will be attacked by my opposition but i will say plz come up with some logic and strong arguments i am fed up of hur ahwar hur ahwar hur ahwar ……………………………………..
anynomous i saw men with big beautiful eyes, allah told to both men and women to lowering their gaze in the quran and hadist, YUSUF As is the most beautiful man in the world. He is our prophet. Do you remember the story about YUSUF as?? In the quran everything is plural. From the beginning to the end. YOu never answer someone was asking WHAT IS FULL BREASTED IN ARABIC? WHT IS WOMEN in ARABIC? WHAT IS BIG EYES IN ARABIC?? you mean HUR??
ANYNOMOUS !!!!!!!!!!
NOw you are giving the most stupid example ever. CALORIES?? wht has anything to do with CALORIES??? GIVE ME A BREAK!!! R U COMPARING SEX AND CALORIES NOW WOW BRAVOO
SO if a mother giving more food to his son then a daughter because son need more calories
SO UR POINT IS GOD WILL GIVE MEN MANY WIVES IN JANNAH BECAUSE MEN NEED IT??? so God will closed his eyes FOR WOMEN DO NOT WANT SHARE HUSBAND OR WANTING MANY HUSBANDS??
GOD WILL GIVE YOU MANY WIVES IN JANNAH BECAUSE YOU REALLY NEED IT. BUT ALL YOUR WIVES JUST WANTING YOU ONLY!!
ALLAH is not DAJJAL only HAS ONE EYED
we re talking about jannah paradise heaven NOT WORLD.
Wow, aren’t you ashamed? Don’t you just wanna die of shame? How can you be so adamant, so forceful JUST to put women down?
You can’t judge all women but the same standards. Some women want their husband, some want multiple, some do not want to get married etc etc. Same with men.
The logic you are using is heavily flawed. You are saying that a woman’s “nature” is to have one man but if that is the case then you must know that it is her nature to have that man all to herself? So now according to you, a man’s nature will be fulfilled but not a woman’s nature? Your “logical” argument falls flat right there. Nature is not what you decide. Everyone is different. Everyone has different wants and desires. And so Allah S.W.T clearly stated in more than 4 places that the dwellers of Heaven will have whatever they want. If it is immoral for a woman to want multiple men then so is for men.
The argument that people use about Hur being plural for Ahwar and Hawra is a perfectly valid argument. Same with the words Azwajun Mutahharun, which translated to spouse or companion for BOTH men and women.
You are asking for Hadith, which is stupid because the Qur’an takes precedence over the Hadith. You are basically asking people to ignore the Qur’an and provide a Hadith (Astaghfirullah), the Qur’an is the strongest word and you can’t be a Muslim if you deny that.
I think you should get over your insecurities and understand that we all have personal desires and wants that we want to ask Allah S.W.T for. We don’t need to consult people like you for that. Neither can YOU or any “scholar” influence Allah’s decision. If a woman asks Allah S.W.T for a different husband or multiple men, will you be the one to stop Allah? Astaghfirullah, who are you? Not even an ant.
If so many women are worried about all of this then clearly it is not justice or equality. Or are you saying that all Muslim women have weak eman?
Allah S.W.T is Just. Remember that.
And don’t worry, if your wife asks for a different husband than you, or asks for several men, your jealousy will also be taken away so you have no need to worry about what she wants.
Go make your life useful. You will be questioned for all the lies you spread and the hurt you cause to other people.
I can say a lot more to you. I have many points which you can never answer so I think it’s better if I don’t embarrass you.
Very Right!!!
Thank you. This is perhaps the clearest and most easily understood explanation that I have ever heard. I was personally struggling with this topic and the “man-made” explanations until I just read this comment and I have found peace. Alhumduallah.
Question Of Translation Of The Quran:
The true meaning and precise import of a Quranic word or phrase can in no way be determined by only looking at its translated version in another language. Translation only serves to bring the mind closer to the message inherent in the original word. The Quran has been translated into almost all the major languages of the world. But none of these translations can replace the Arabic text of the Quran. Most of the English versions particularly those by Non-Muslim Europeans such as Mercier, de Ryer, Sale , Bell, Noldeke, Rodwell etc. are too defective to convey the message. As for the translations by Pickthall, ‘Abdullah Yusuf Ali ‘Abdul Majid Daryabadi, and Muhsin Khan, they are reliable but short of perfection. Certain places still deserve to be rechecked and retranslated. Muhammad Asad’s and T.B. Irwing’s translations are better than others. One, therefore, has to be careful while deriving a message of the Quran through its translations.
Under the head “Virgine” in the said article the entire theme rests on three phrases: Hur ‘In, Qasirat al-Tarf, Kawa ‘ib Atrab, which have been translated as dark eyed Houris (beautiful virgins); bashful, dark-eyed virgins; high-bosomed virgins for companions.
Although these translation are in agreement with those by Bell, Pickthall, and N.J. Dawood, they need reconsideration. The meaning of the above three words could be appreciated only in the light of the classical Arabic used by the Arabs of the time of the Quran’s revelation.
Hur ^In:
This is a combination of two words Hur and ‘In. The former is the plural of both Ahwar (Masculine) and Hawra (Feminine) which literally means persons distinguished by Hawar signifying “intense whiteness of the eyeballs and lustrous black of the pupils.” (vide: Qamus), hence the purity (vide: Tafsir al’Tabari, and Tafsir al-Razi in 3:52). And as for the word ‘In it is the plural of both A yan (Masculine) and ‘Ainao (Feminine) (vide: Al-Raghib.Al-Mufradat, Beirut, l998,Kitab ‘Ain,P.358)
It was basically used to refer to the beautiful eyes of the wild-cow whose eyes are blond. In later usage, this word was applied to any ‘most beautiful eye’ irrespective of the person’s gender.
Thus, the most appropriate English endering of the compound word Hur In will be: “Companions pure, most beautiful of eye.” (vide: Muhammad Asad, Message of the Quran in 56:22); and it is applicable to both male and female companions.
Qasirat al-Tarf:
It means modest, bashful, and chaste women who restrain their glances, and do not look towards others with any desire. Muhammad Asad, a world-renowned European Muslim, translates this phrase as “mates of modest gaze.” (vide: Asad’s translation in 37:48)
Kawa’ib Atrab:
Kawa’ib is plural of ka’ib which is derived from the root word Ka’b signifying prominence, eminence, and glory (vide: Lisan al-‘Arab) Muhammad Asad says: “We realize that in the above context the term kawa ‘ib can have no other meaning than “glorious and splendid beings” without any definition of sex”. (see Muhammad Asad, Message of the Quran, P.924.). The word Atrab is the singular form of tirb which primarily means persons of equal age, or well-matched. ‘Abdullah Yusuf ‘Ali translates this compound term “companions of equal age”. (see his translation in 78:33), and Muhammad Asad’s translation is “splendid companions, well matched”. Here Muhammad Asad explains: It alludes to the relations of the blest with one another, and stresses the absolute mutual compatibility and equal dignity of all of them. (Vide: Muhammad Asad, Message of the Quran, P.924).
Nature Of The Blessings In The Paradise:
According to the Quran itself, its verses are of two categories: Muhakam (clear and precise), and Mutashabih (allegorical) (vide: The Quran 3:7). Islamic scholars are unanimous over the fact that the verses dealing with the unseen world and its objects are all Mutashabihat, as the things that are beyond man’s Ken and perception can not be precisely described in human language which can depict only what the man thinks, observes, and experiences. The other worldly things are to be described allegorically referring to what man knows and understands. The paradise and its blessings can not exactly be stated in human terms. That is why Allah has used illustrative approach with a view to bringing at least the feeling of the paradise closer to human mind. Hur, water, fruits, pearls, eggs, corals, gems etc. are all allegorical and illustrative terms for the good life of the paradise.
It is, therefore, not proper for anyone to sketch a picture of the paradise like that of any worldly comfort and luxury. ‘Abdullah B. ‘Abbas, who is known in the Islamic world as the spokesman of the Quran (Tarjuman al-Qurain) says that the only thing common between the paradise and the worldly luxuries is names of the things, (vide: Al-Tabari, Tafsir, in 2:25). The Prophet (s.a.w.) himself has clarified the nature of the blessings in the paradise: “Allah says: I have readied for my righteous servants such provision which the eye has never seen, the ear has never heard of, the human mind has never imagined of” (vide: Muslim, Sahih, Hadith No. 7065).
Merely on the basis of abstract references to the good life available in the Paradise as mentioned in the Quran none can ever form an exact image and comprehensive picture of the paradise.
The First Hadith Quoted In The Article Is Ingenuine.
The Hadith regarding a sex market in the paradise is one of those traditions which the ‘Ulama have identified as fabricated and ingenuine. Hadith scholars such as Abdul Rahman B. ‘Ali generally known as Ibn al-Jauzi (d.597A.H.), Jalaluddin al-Suyuti(d.911A.H.), and Abual Hasan ‘Ali B. Muhammad B. ‘Arraq aJ-Kanani (d.963 A.H.) have all declared this report ingenuine and incorrect, (vis: Ibn al-Jauzi, Kitab al-Maudu’at, Beirut, 1995, vol.II, PP. 427-8)
It should be born in mind that every statement recorded as Hadith can not necessarily be genuine one. Islamic scholars have done great job in identifying what is original, true and genuine, and what is spurious, fabricated and ingenuine. Before any Hadith is quoted by anyone today, its authenticity is to be checked first. So, what is wrong can not be attributed to Islam.
Paradise: The Reward For The Righteous:
It is a known fact that the Quran is not a Book in the modem and general sense of the word. It consists of revelations received by the Prophet (s.a.w.) over a period of more than two decades. All these revelations descended in relevance to various situations involving the Prophet (s.a.w.) himself, his followers, his open enemies, hypocrites, and the vacillating souls. The heavenly inspired chapters, passages, and verses were not put down in chronological order. The arrangement of the Quranic revelations was made on a different pattern dictated by Allah, the source of the Quran.
The Quran, therefore, is full of repetitions. Many an item is discussed at one place very briefly and abstractly but is elaborately detailed at some other place. Likewise, all the messages given in the Book form one integral whole. In order to appreciate the definition, scope, and practical relevance of one Quranic precept, one has to see other places of the Quran where the same matter has been referred to, on the one hand, and has to check it in the light of the basic tenets of life the Quran propounds, on the other. The paradise is one subject-matter from among so many others. To do justice with the meaning, implication, and application of the Quranic message regarding the paradise, one has to adopt the same methodology. Only the picking up of certain verses on paradise can not help one grasp the real, true, and original message on the subject. In other words the entire Quran and all of its messages will have to be taken into consideration for developing a genuine idea about the objective, definition, implication and role of the paradise.
The Quran invites the man, in his individual and collective capacity, to establish a full-fledged human civilization based on intellectual freedom, (68:10) loyalty and accountability to the Master of the entire universe (4:36), moral upliftment (17:23-37), development of knowledge and scientific methods of research and analysis (2:164; 3:190-91), application of reason (47:24), participation of both male and female in the growth of the humanity at intellectual, moral, and social level (16:97), elimination of evil and promotion of the good (3:l 14). On the other hand, the Divine-writ also identifies the anti-human attitude and acts such as superstitions (6:100), disbelief (3:97), intellectual blindness (2:171), mental slavery (2:170), insincerity (33:60), immoral practices (2:268), knowledge bashing approach (5:50), blind obedience to traditions and the leaders(38:6), supression of female’s participation in the social development (4:75), religious bigotry (2:88) etc; so as to get them stamped out.
To develop such a civilization is the true service to the humanity which always stands in need of peace, and justice, the most missing items in all the non-Islamic scheme of life. And it is not an easy task. It requires sincere and concerted effort of a people whom the Quran rightly calls Muslimun (submitted to Allah), Muminun (genuinely faithfuls), Qamfiin (obedients), Sadiqun (steadfast), Khashi’un (devouts), Mutasaddiqun (philanthropists), Muttaqun (God-conscious), Muhsinun (excellent in social interaction), Muqsitun (upholders of justice), Muhtadun (rightly guided), etc.
Such are the people irrespective of their tribal racial, regional, linguistic, national and ethnic background who deserve to be rewarded in the most befitting manner. Paradise characterised by comfort, ease, enjoyment, peace, and tranquility is the most appropriate reward Allah (a.w.j.) has readied for those who strive hard to bring peace and justice in individual and social life. The Quran reiterates:
“Those who humble themselves in their prayer, and turn away from all that is frivolous, who are intent on inner purity, who are mindful of their chastity, …… ..who are faithful to their trusts and pledges, and who guard their prayers, it is they, who will be the heirs who shall inherit paradise to live therein for ever.” (23:1-11)
Mr. Georgie maintains in his article that the paradise is meant for those who commit acts like rape, loot, plunder, murder etc. This view is self-constructed. It has no basis in the Quran. Had he sincerely surveyed the Holy Scripture of Islam, he would certainly have found therein that the people with a program of rape, murder, loot, plunder, and other immoral acts have been condemned, as, among others, Mujrimun (criminals), Mufsidun (miscreants), and Zalimun (wrong doers) etc. Who have been warned time and again of grave consequences in the form of hell-fire. For example:
“Anyone who comes to his Lord as criminal will have hell; he will neither die in it nor yet will live(a decent life).” (The Quran 20:74)
“As for those who abandon themselves to wrongdoing, They are indeed but fuel for the hell.” (The Quran 72:15)
This discrimination among the evil-doers and the good doers is a natural demand of justice which is a main characteristics of Islam.
The Quran makes it crystal clear that the two are opposed to each other, hence the difference in treatment and outcome.
“There is no comparison between the bad things and the good things………. ” (5:100)
The blind and the seeking are not equal; nor are the depths of darkness and the light; nor the shade and the scorching heat; and neither are equal the living and the dead.” (35:19-22)
“The inmates of the Fire are not equal to the inhabitants of the Paradise.” (59:20)
The Comfort And Joy Of The Paradise Are For Both Male And Female:
In the said article it has also been claimed that the joy of Islamic paradise is meant only for males. It is an erroneous hypothesis. The Quran is very categorical on the matter that the Islamic scheme of life is for both men and women, and both of them are destined to receive the reward in the form of the paradise characterised by ease, comfort, happiness, and rapturous life. Few verses may suffice to reveal the truth.
“… …I shall not lose sight of labour of any of you who labours (in MY Way), be it man or woman………… .and shall most certainly bring them into the gardens…….” (3:195)
“Anyone, be it man or woman, who performs honourable deeds, and is a believer, they will enter the paradise and not be harmed a speck.” (4:126)
“We shall let anyone -who acts honorably and is a believer, whether it is a man or a woman, live a happy life and reward them with their earnings for the finest deeds they have been doing.” (16:97)
“…….. While someone who does righteous deeds and is a believer, whether it is a man or woman will enter the paradise.” (40:40)
The Concept Of Young Boys And Pure Drinks:
From among other things available in the paradise two are young boys and pure drinks. Georgie has unsuccessfully tried to read a joy of homosexuality from the Quranic description of youths and that of wine from the pure drinks. The relevant Quranic words and sentences from no angle can help one extricate what Georgie claims.
Young Boys:
The Quran uses two terms for youths in the paradise Wildan Mukhalladun (eg. 56:17; 76:19), and Ghilman (eg. 52:24). Both the terms signify immortal youths. This meaning by itself refers to the non-human nature of the young beings. And wherever the reference to these immortal youths has been made in the Quran, their duties, their functions, and their relationship with the inmates of the paradise have been explained. Their only duty and function is to serve the people, both male and female, by waiting on them drinks and other blessings of the paradise. This assignment of the young men clearly demonstrates that the relationship between them and others is that of guests and attendants. The Quran does not refer to any other relationship between the inmates of the paradise and the immortal youths. It is quite illogical and unscientific to see only carnal love wherever there is the togetherness of the people and youths. Parents love and enjoy to see their young and handsome children, army commanders feel elated and satisfied with the presence of their young and able bodied youths, community leaders take pride in the young, talented, and smart boys of the community, those at the helm of a nation praise and admire their youngsters whom they consider the basis of the bright future of the nation, the guests at every level are quite often served by handsomely clad boys, and the air passengers are waited on by young air hosts and hostesses.
If someone thinks that at all these places only a relationship of carnal love exists, he will certainly be deemed as an insane or a person with perverted nature, who is unable to see between two humans pure, unstained, honorable and natural relationship.
Moreover, since the inmates of the paradise will have lived a pure and pious life in the pre death world, their approach and behaviour in the paradise will be of the same nature. Carnal attraction towards the same sex is unnatural. Inmates of the paradise will not even imagine about what is unnatural and inhuman.
Pure Drinks:
In the said article four passages on wine have been quoted. Two of them do not at all talk about wine. Correct translation of these verses are given here below.
“A cup will be passed round among them from unsullied springs.” (37:45)
“With goblets, and ewers, and cups filled with water from unsullied springs.” (56:18)
In these two verses the reference is to a drink from some pure springs. How does one read from them a message related to wine? This is a striking example of a flagrant academic dishonesty which Georgie has calculatedly committed.
For other drinks available in the paradise the Quran has used a term Khamr (47:15), a proper name for wine, and Rahiq (83:25) an attributive word for the same.
As for the word Rahiq it was used by the ‘Arabs of the Quran’s revelation period for a beverage totally different from the general alcoholic drinks which could have its negative impact on the drinker’s mind. The Quran also qulifies this drink by the word Makhttim (sealied). It means that this beverage will be pure, fragrant, and delicious. It will certainly be different from the worldly alcoholic liquor.
Khamr has also been qualified as delightful for those who drink it (47:23). The Quran while petering to the nature of all the drinks in the paradise explains:
“There will be no hangover from it, nor -will they feel exhausted by it.” (37:47)
The heavenly Khamr (pure and delicious drink) can not be imagined as the worldly intoxicants and spirits. Both are diametrically different from each other in terms of source, method of preparation, taste, effect and impact. The latter causes headiness and mental aberration, whereas the former is entirely safe from such negative effects.
It is, in deed, not the name that matters, but the merits and demerits of the thing which count and should therefore be taken into consideration while making any objective judgement. Islam has prohibited the wine not because of its name but owing to its harmful characteristics (2:219;5:90-91).
That is why, if the Quran declares that the heavenly drinks are free from adverse properties, they do not fall under the category of forbidden beverages.
Conclusion:
The Quranic description of the paradise from no angle could be considered pornography. A perverted mind of the modem world, whose only interest lies in always thinking reversely, describing one thing or the other sensually, and doing everything unnaturally, look at the thing from an abnormal angle, hence the distortion of the facts. Georgie has unsuccessfully tried to extract from the Quran what is not therein. After his failure to find anything objectionable in the Holy Scripture of Islam he, under the impact of heavy dejection, seems to have used his own self-imagination for an allegedly x-rated image of the last Book of Allah.
Only one verse of the Quran, is sufficient to explain the nature of its message, and the method of its description:
“Verily, God commands justice, kindness, and giving to near relatives, while He forbids all that is shameful, and all that runs counter to reason, and insolence.” (16:90)
This verse holds special place in Islamic scheme of life. It was recited by the Prophet (s.a.w.) throughout his life in his Friday sermon; it has, therefore, formed an essential part of every Friday sermon in Muslim world signifying the very basis of Islamic civilization. Is, then, it possible for the Book to contradict its own principle meant for its followers?
The said article must have reminded the reader of the Salman Rushdis and the Taslima Nasrins who are all out with one single objective in their life i.e. to spread lies about Islam and speak blasphemously about the Quran and its teachings .The world knows that the freedom of speech given to any individual is not absolute and unlimited and it should always be restricted and qualified. Georgie’s article is a gross violation of all decent limits. Healthy criticism is always welcome; but such unwholesome approach as Georgie’s is morally undesirable, religiously reprehensible, rationally unjustifiable, socially condemnable, and legally cognizable.
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By
Dr. Israr Ahmad Khan
Dept. of Quran & Sunnah Studies, IRKHS
Explanation of so-called ‘maidens’ (húr) in Islamic conception of paradise
From the notes in the English translation of the Holy Quran
by Maulana Muhammad Ali
The mention of húr in the Holy Quran as among the blessings of paradise, promised to the true believers in the life after death, is much misunderstood. This word and certain other associated terms are mistakenly considered to mean beautiful, young maidens, to be given as reward in the after-life to Muslim men, and on this basis the teachings of Islam are maligned and criticised as pandering to the crude, lustful desires of men.
We quote below some commentary notes by Maulana Muhammad Ali in his English translation of the Holy Quran, explaining these terms and their true significance. The following points emerge about what these blessings of paradise are:
They are the fruits of the good deeds of a person, whether male or female;
Their nature is entirely different from anything that is, or can be, known in this world;
These rewards are meant for both the male and the female believers equally.
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Verse 52:20
“Reclining on thrones set in lines, and We shall join them to pure (húr), beautiful ones (‘ín).”
Note 52:20a on this verse:
(For simplicity the first few lines of this Note,
containing a philological discussion, are omitted.)
As regards the word húr, it is a plural of ahwar (applied to a man) and of haurá’ (applied to a woman), signifying one having eyes characterized by the quality termed hawar, which means intense whiteness of the white of the eye and intense blackness of the black thereof. The word ahwar (singular of húr) also signifies pure or clear intellect (Lane’s Lexicon). The other word, ‘ín, is plural of a‘yan (meaning a man wide in the eyes) and of ‘ainá’ (meaning a woman beautiful and wide in the eye). The latter word also signifies a good or beautiful word, or saying (Lane’s Lexicon). It may be noted that whiteness is also a symbol of perfect and unsullied purity, and hence the two words húr and ‘ín really stand for purity and beauty; and therefore, instead of white-eyed and large-eyed ones, I adopt the words pure and beautiful ones, as being more expressive of the true significance.
To realize the true significance of these words, two points must be borne in mind. The first is that paradise is a place for faithful women as well as for faithful men, and hence the Holy Quran often speaks of the faithful as being in paradise with their wives; see for instance 36:56, where the faithful are spoken of as sitting on thrones or raised couches with their wives, or 13:23 and 40:8, where they are spoken of as being in paradise along with their wives and offspring. The second is that the blessings of paradise are alike for women and men, there being not the least difference in this respect between the two sexes. The question then is what is meant by húr ‘ín here. It has already been explained that the Holy Quran does not speak of any conjugal relations being maintained in a physical sense in the life to come. Moreover, it has been shown on various occasions that, where the blessings of paradise are spoken of, these are nothing but physical manifestations of the spiritual blessings which the doers of good enjoy in this life too. There are gardens, trees, rivers, milk, honey, fruits and numerous other blessings spoken of as being met with in paradise, but that all these are not things of this life has been shown more than once in these footnotes, and a saying of the Holy Prophet already quoted makes it clear that the blessings of paradise are not the things of this life. The Holy Prophet is reported to have said: Allah says I have prepared for My righteous servants what no eye has seen and no ear has heard and what the heart of man has not conceived (Bukhari 59:8). The Holy Quran also speaks of them in similar words: No soul knows what refreshment of the eyes is hidden for them (32:17). These clear statements need no comment, and they establish beyond the shadow of a doubt that whatever blessings are spoken of as existing in paradise, the one thing sure about them is that they are not things of this world. Hence even the white-eyed, large-eyed ones, or the pure, beautiful ones, the húr ‘in, of this verse, are not actually the beautiful women of this life. These are heavenly blessings, which the righteous women shall have along with the righteous men, for v. 17 plainly says that those who keep their duty will find these blessings, and therefore the pure, beautiful ones are as much a blessing meant for the righteous women as for the righteous men.
The question may still be asked, why are these blessings described in words which apply to women? The fact is that the reward spoken of here is one having special reference to the purity of character and the beautiful deeds of the righteous, and it is womanhood, not manhood, that stands for a symbol of purity and beauty. Moreover, it should be noted that in Arabic sálihát and tayyibát signify good deeds and pure things as well as good women and pure women, and this is another reason why the reward of good and pure deeds is spoken of in terms which apply to women. But note also that both húr and ‘in are plurals of words applying to men as well as to women, as also to qualities and deeds.
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Verses 37:48-49
“And with them are those modest in gaze, having beautiful eyes, as if they were eggs, carefully protected.”
Note 37:49a on these verses:
The description of women given here calls attention to the prominent feature of the character of a good woman. In the first place, they are described as restraining their eyes, and modest in their gaze, and attention is thus called to the fact that the most valuable virtue of woman is that rare chastity which is described here as restraint or freedom of the eye from lust. Then the beauty of their eyes is praised, the suggestion clearly being that the purity of the eye leads to its beauty, or that the real beauty of the eye consists in its purity. In the second place, they are described as being eggs carefully protected, which alludes to their pure and unsoiled character. It should, however, be noted that what is apparently a description of women is really a description of the fruits of deeds done in this life, the words adopted being applicable to both (see the word húr in 52:20a), and these are in fact spiritual blessings manifested physically. The blessings which it promises, whatever they may be, are as much meant for men as for women; the only thing certain about them is that their nature is different from the nature of the physical blessings of this life.
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Verse 38:52
“And with them are those modest in gaze, equals in age.”
Note 38:52a on this verse:
For the modest in gaze, see 37:49a. Here, in addition, they are called atráb or equals in age, as showing that their growth begins with the growth of spiritual life in man, thus showing that they are the fruits of good deeds, whether done by males or females, who would all have these fruits equally.
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Verses 56:35-38
“Surely We have created them a (new) creation, so We have made them virgins, loving, equals in age, for those on the right hand.”
Note 56:38a on these verses:
It is noteworthy that the blessings granted to the righteous are first spoken of as shades, water, fruits and resting-places; and then, as it were to dispel all doubts as to what these blessings of the next life are, it is said in v. 35, We have created them a new creation. These words settle conclusively that, whatever these blessings are, whether shades or trees or water or fruits, they are all the fruits of deeds, which have been made to grow into a new growth. The words that follow this statement are no doubt primarily applicable to women, but, as shown in 52:20a, it is only because womanhood stands as a symbol of purity and beauty. Thus abkár, plural of bikr, means a virgin, and also an action that has not been preceded by its like (Lane’s Lexicon). Similarly, atráb, or equals in age, as already shown in 38:52a, signifies that the growth of those blessings begins with the growth of spiritual life in man.‘Urub (“loving ”) is plural of both ‘urúb and ‘aríb, the former signifying a woman that manifests love to her husband.
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It’s a shame that some people full of hate and venom have nothing to do with their lives but attempt to spread it among others who actually want to further their knowledge.
Laundry? Grocery shopping? Tidying up? Don’t you have anything else to do?
Imams and alims don’t get women of their choice, they get left overs women and are abused by women. Most of them can’t do other jobs and they become mullah in the end. Only some imams have sane brain and can be trusted, most of them don’t have sufficient brain. They don’t understand world is not a perfect place and go angry over people. You have to suffer to find truth. Sorry to them, but imams talks about a lot of women but will go mad with anger if somebody talked about their women.
Neem hakeem khattra e jaan, neem mullah khattra e iman
When people talk about something generally, most of the time they keep saying he will do this, he did that. When you ask them they say we mean both but can’t repeat again. So most of time he is used to talk about everything. If in everything else he is used but people mean both. Then why not here. But I don’t think that he talked about men having loads of women. He had a mother and daughter too. He would not do vain talk. From begiining to end in Qur’an all the sentences are I plural so Qur’an talks to everybody.
yep. but Some guys who has very strong ego will denied it. The scholars who translate only men can have loads of women, they translated with rush. They didnt think if the other way around happen to them. THe scholars who mistranslated the quran forgotten about their mother, sisters, and daughters. However when they translated “jealousy” right away they mention to women. It seems men never got jealous at all. God created both women and men from the dirt so they think men and women are totally different. In God eyes we all are equal but humans make it different. Off course the appearence are different but the heart are nothing different even the desire. Everything in quran is plural. Nothing mention only HE always THey. When they mention jealousy refers to women, it seems so funny. Of course anyone as human being could be jealous if their husband have another women to sleep with. Just imagine if their wives is cheating with other guys, off course men will get jealous too. Just because muslim men can marry up to 4 women, they think their desire stronger than women. Nothing in quran mention men marry 4 women because their desire uncontrolable or stronger than women. Some of ego selfish men who think they can marry up to 4 women because they think god created men so different becuz they think god created men with stronger sexual desire. They forgotten why god created first human in pairs. ADAM and EVE. They think god created man with strong desire, why didnt
god created adam and eve, sandra, fatima, julia or many women for his wife.
In the quran never mentions that adam and eve were having sex, we should know that adam and eve were from the paradise at the first place befoe they got punished.
I myself have a mother and sisters, and i dont like the idea of my mother or my sister’s heaven sharing husband. I dont like either the idea of heaven or paradise according the scholar that the wives will be stay in the mansion cant enjoy the view of heaven cuz their husband will get jealous if other guys are looking at their wives. It seems to me only us as men can enjoy the paradise, not women, women will stay in mansion waiting only for their husband. It seems the scholar so damn jealous already.
If i were a woman in case i go to heaven, if my husband wanting 1000 wives including megan fox, catherine zeta jones, katty perry ( if they were muslim ). So god will fullfill my husband desire with all the women including my self, so what happen about my desire as woman? what happen to megan fox, catherine, katty desire? who know megan fox wanting tom cruice as her husband, catherine wants brad pitts, katty parry wants kenya west, so what happen with their desire?? Just becuz my husband desire with those women including me, so god will close his/her eyes not to care about other people desire, only care my husband desire??? So the ego selfish men will think god will only fullfill 1 guy desire out of 4 women desire? wow that is not heaven at all.
Maybe is heaven for selfish ego men but not other people. When Allah mention in quran the reward in jannah or paradise for all pious people or humans their inner selves desire, the ego selfish scholar or men only thinking about men inner selves desire not women. They only think women desire only money thats it. Men dont care about money at all. If men dont care about money who is doing the most corruption, money launder, thief????
if a man asking IMAM or ulama, can he has many wives in jannah, the imam will reply with smile off course he will get it. But when it comes to a woman asking imam can i have a handsome many men in jannah, the imam or ulama will get heart attack and cursed her, telling her are u a filfthy woman or what, are u slut or what? lol.
My sister went to the mosque here in the US. Im muslim american. My sister and her female friend listen the one of the imam or ulama talking about parfume. The teacher or imam or ulama said about only man can wear parfume not woman. If women wear parfume will aroused the man sexual desire, but if men wear parfume women cant get aroused becuz if women get aroused means those women are crazy. Wow my sister, her friends, and other female get offended. So thats my point already. Men like to control what women want or dont want. They love to call women crazy if the women have desire. When it comes to men desire, they smile and happy about it. That is why women dont like to share about they desire, they will know the ego men will call them crazy or slut
everytime i smell parfume on women i have never aroused. How come u i will get aroused just by smelling women parfume. Off course i will get aroused if i see women naked. i will get aroused if my girlfriend naked in from of me. thats for sure.
Men love to exagerate everything about women, becuz men wanting control women so damn much
Me and my brother hated so much when they like to say bad thing about women desire
A man will have loads of untouched women. And a woman will have only one man touched by countless women. that is very just. Salman khan shows off himself a lot. There are so males along females who show off. Every day to day men wear jeans and their stuff and show as well, but people think women don’t have a heart. Asian women be shy, don’t say any thing but that does mean that’s what they think also. Women will have modest gaze reserved for there husband only and men will have Unmodest gaze having lots of women. That’s very just. It is not only women that show off. Get it right, men are doing same. It’s just that people think women don’t have any desire. What you know what she thinks deep down. Men just say what they think and women don’t that does not mean that is the case.
1 Salman khan= a world full of ugly women
1 Tom cruise= a world full of ugly women
1 ashwarya rai = a world full of ugly men
1 Angelina joli = a world full of ugly men
i bet these all men and women want these actors not their ugly partners
Why can’t this happen in heaven as well.
Well all these people will be forced to be with these actors.
All these actors will be forced to sleep with these ugly people
I have been reading all your posts and would like to answer you in a breif way; women will get whatever they want in jannah. Please if some imams are biased towards women doesnt mean islam is biased towards women. Allah said “you will get what your inner selves desire”. So whatever is deep down your heart, you will get it. And your husband will have no jealousy. So relax and work for jannah 🙂
It does not say in Qur’an that worldly women and hoors are two different things. Worldly men and women will become hoors. Meaning they will be very beautiful. The idea that a husband and wife and hoors also is strange. A man and woman becoming beautiful hoors sounds good. It could mean that women will become hoors and men will become hoors. Then they will be married to them.
God gave different responsibilities to men and women. He did not create them different so one has more rights than other. A man and woman will only have one partner at a time buy after years and years they want a change they will be able to do that. No body will have so many partners at one time. One man and woman at a time sounds good. But after a long long time if they want change they could do that.
Muslims and non Muslims both have problems.they are not because of religion. Some are associated with religion. But some ignorant people don’t have good understanding of religion. Every part of life has problems. Religion could have some problems as well due to ignorance or history long misunderstandings or mis
yep soo trueee. Special on the muslim men. Some of them love to control what women want in this life and the other life (jannah). They thought only them can only get hurin not women. Women only stick 1 man only since they know in the world they only can married 1 man.
Basically sister the translators specially the Urdu translators have interpreted the word “Hoor” as beautiful maiden. Actually the word “Hoor” is a plural for both “Ahwar” which is applicable to the man and “Hawar” which is applicable to the women. And “Hawar” means ‘big, white beautiful eye” and it specially describes the whiteness of eye. . And it is rightly translated by ‘Abdullah Yusuf Ali’ that hoor means ‘companion’. Therefore “Hoor” actually means a ‘companion’ or a ‘spouse’’ It has no gender. Thus on paradise women will get a good man with big beautiful eyes. And man will get a good lady with big beautiful eyes.
Look up in the youtube about what women get in jannah by Dr. zakir naik
What Zakir Naik meant is in Paradise, every male and female will be with their companion with “big, beautiful eyes”. And their companion is their own worldly spouse with whom they will be united. In other words, people in Jannah will have attributes of beautiful eyes. Bear in mind that Houri, the special creations of Paradise are the servants of the dwellings of Paradise, nothing to do with sexual partner of men or women. The servants of Paradise will be both male and female.
Paradise is a place of justice, and those misunderstandings should simply be avoided.
Just believe firmly in your heart that – it is simply IMPOSSIBLE that Allah is not just to the women in Paradise…all will be equal. (Those explanation to justify the men’s need only is ridiculous. That is a mere brainwash)
Check again all those verses and hadiths — they are man-made explanation included in brackets to arrive to what they desire. Do not believe them — The Quranic word itself NEVER says about (fair maiden or female etc)- those always come in brackets by men!
Sister Nasira you have to believe Allah is just and fair. Always believe in your faith that Allah is justice and fair special about heaven.
never listen to selfish men who will destroy ur faith or other muslim women faith. Never doubt Allah. Allah will gives justice rewards to all muslims (men and women).
The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: “It is said in the Quran without knowledge, let him take his place in Hell”
Most of women are married to somebody with whom they are not happy with. Look at men and women. Who would want them.
i hate the idea of some men dirty fantasies about heaven. They so proud that they will get many wives and hoors in heaven. They dont care about their mothers, sisters, aunts, cousins, or daughters would be a slave sex in heaven. As long as they r so damn satisfy
I know with my faith that heaven is not like that. God is not one eyed. Allah will not give injustice to the people (men or women) in jannah. If men think that all men will get hundreds or thousands of wives including extra worldy wives for their reward. Poor us or all the muslim pious women in this world who do the prayers, fasting, good deeds, zakat, or hajj at the end the rewards for us (women) will share husband LOL. People use comment sense. GOD is not one eyed
The very idea of “hoors of jannah” strikes me as the ultimate in absurd superstitious nonsense. After knowing real human women in this life, the idea of sub-human sex slaves in the next is actually rather ghoulish. It should lead intelligent Muslims to question the hadiths and authors on which these fantasies are based.
Jannah is not same as this life. Women don’t have less sex desire in this life. So how in that life. You are saying one man is equal to 100s of women. Woman is taught about nothing but haya only. this concept that women have less sex desire, is invention of a man. only a woman will know it. She is forced to hide it. White women don’t be shy. So get the fact right in your dirty head, crazymania exists deep down in women too. I can prove it. So men are not good saying this so forget the hoors and remember shoes
well thats a proven fact that men have far more desire than women ,so no need to talk on that every body knows that yes i agree that women has a better control over there feelings , but one thing is for sure that women r way too jealous .all the time comparing them self with men ,trying too prove we r no less then men we can do this we can do that ,who the hell said that women r less than men? ,but this has become a phobia for most of the women, i agree there r lot of bad men who cheat with them treat them bad but there r huge number of good men as well who give them respect and take care of them nicely .
the way u talk clearly tells that ur experience with men is not good.but u should be polite when it comes to arguments any way u called men dumb bells in fact girls deserve that terminology cuz mostly they r the victims the easiest thing in this world is to fool a girl it doesn’t takes much effort .
i m not saying that its good to fool a girl but want to clear that girls unfortunately dont have that good analytical skills to judge a guy they keep on to be fooled by series of boys .and in the end what happens is they become rude ,start hating men use abusive language,but they dont know its not the men but there wrong choice of men, and big reason why they choose a wrong men is that most of the girls go after money and very soon they learn a lesson.
bottom line is this world is full of good and bad people ether men or women , and allah has created men and women for each other so they should respect each other and there is no need to debate on who is superior they r equal but men has the responsibility of a captain and female is the vice captain and this is i dont know y the hardest things for females to digest.
Women don’t have control over their desires. They suffer and suffer in ignorance. Ignorance is caused by oppressed sexual desires. I know west have too much freedom but east have too much restrictions to the point that nothing but restriction. You should be moderate not too much freedom or restricted. Men don’t have more sexual desires than women. How can a man know that. Asian women don’t say it that does not mean they don’t. I know myself and women. Your guess work is not good. I know expressed diwangi and oppessed diwangi. In jannah everybody will have full control over there desires. You are a captain for a short time. Not all men are captains. Bad won’t be for ever. So don’t take advantage of being a captain. i am not rude. I got angry for what these oppressive men are like. I am very polite
Can someone please make nasira and all the haters stop with their foolishness? I am referring to the ignorance about women’s intelligence, sexuality and common sense. I am a well educated woman, considered to be analytical and serious. I am also much smarter than many others, men and women — only because I had the good fortune to be raised by loving parents who insured good health, high academic standards and my own personal pursuit of knowledge my entire life. It has nothing to do with my gender or genetics. Someone who grows up in an anti-woman, anti-intelligence atmosphere with limited ability to read and write is not going to result in an open-minded balanced person at the age of 18. Add to hatred of those of a different faith or culture. Chance are you wind up becoming someone like nadira, anonymous or the others here who are locked in their own mental prisons.
Lucky you I am fed up with some people’s negative attitudes towards marriage love women etc. Most of them are full of negativity and emptiness. And it is very hard to change their attitudes. They only learn after making lifes miserable. I have seen too much. I have lost my temper sorry.
Mujey sharmiley naina bout pasand hain. Main moon pe rumaal rukh le shirmai chuley jaataa hoon. Agur orut much key de to main shurm o haya yaad aati. Jub murd pe aye to shurm o haya ke sarey durwazey for deta hoon.
Chaachaa ji, jo kehtey nahin wo ziada diwaney hotey hain. Upney ussaar se bahir ahhaa jaaiey. Orut complicated oti hey.mugur under se kuch or oti.
come on i can write a book on female sexuality i have a good idea how she feels and how see express her desire, hmmmm may be i can be wrong but if u say so i agree that she has more desire than what i think still it can not match men’s desire if i had a wrong idea of female desire u also dont have the right guess about men.any way for get about it. happay to know that u r not rude
all we need both men and women is to become better humans it is only possible when we follow quran and sunnah , we dont need to degrade each other we should be kind and polite even if we disagree with each other we sholud respect other persons views, i apologize if i said some thing which u dont like purpose is not to hurt some one feeling but to share my views
orut is complicated but she is very innocent very bholi we like them any way majboori hai .hahahaha
I know my desires not you. There are bholey men as well. Some women make fool of them too. Girls be too young and inexperienced. But life is full of dangers sometimes it can happen to you. You don’t need to go mad over them you should inform your innocent children. Not swear and beat them
Having loads of women and talking about them in detail is polite but if a women says anything it is rude. men can be rude anytime but women can’t. Is that justice or unfair.
well what can i say there r hadees which r talking about females in detail.actually men wanted to know about them more and more because that is some thing which attracts him the most.
actually males r more interested in the physical beauty of a female, but females r more interested in the overall personality so in this case females r more mature and decent .
and men r a bit besharam so females dont need to copy there bad habits
what makes a women really beautiful is haya , so its there choice if they want to become really beautiful or want to be besharam like men
Look the truth about hur by Actually the word “Hoor” is a plural for both “Ahwar” which is applicable to the man and “Hawar” which is applicable to the women. And “Hawar” means ‘big, white beautiful eye” and it specially describes the whiteness of eye. . And it is rightly translated by ‘Abdullah Yusuf Ali’ that hoor means ‘companion’. Therefore “Hoor” actually means a ‘companion’ or a ‘spouse’’ It has no gender. Thus on paradise women will get a good man with big beautiful eyes. And man will get a good lady with big beautiful eyes. Look up on you tube what women get in jannah by Dr. zakir naik
I also got this one very important to read for selfish muslim men
What Zakir Naik meant is in Paradise, every male and female will be with their companion with “big, beautiful eyes”. And their companion is their own worldly spouse with whom they will be united. In other words, people in Jannah will have attributes of beautiful eyes. Bear in mind that Houri, the special creations of Paradise are the servants of the dwellings of Paradise, nothing to do with sexual partner of men or women. The servants of Paradise will be both male and female.
Paradise is a place of justice, and those misunderstandings should simply be avoided.
Just believe firmly in your heart that – it is simply IMPOSSIBLE that Allah is not just to the women in Paradise…all will be equal. (Those explanation to justify the men’s need only is ridiculous. That is a mere brainwash)
Check again all those verses and hadiths — they are man-made explanation included in brackets to arrive to what they desire. Do not believe them — The Quranic word itself NEVER says about (fair maiden or female etc)- those always come in brackets by men!
the bad habit of man are from syaitan who whispered to man’s heart and same shit the bad habit woman are also from syaitan who whispered to woman’s heart. Why do u make up such as stupid idea of women copy bad habits from men?????? Dont u ever think that u are GOD. Human bad habits are not from copying. IN the quran never never never ever ever says women more nature than man. Scholars say those think. Men and women can be mature and not mature. NOt all males interested in the physical beauty of a female only. They are some men who marry with women are not prettty at all, some are with very fat women, some with very short women, some are with crippled women, and some with super beautiful women. Same thing with women, some marry with ugly men, some marry with very short men,some are with fat men, some with crippled men, some with blind men, and some with very super handsome men. Allah decided already who is gonna be your match. If a man marry with hot beautiful woman means because Allah already choose that woman to be his wife. IF a woman marry with super handsome man for her husband, because Allah already chose that handsome man to be her husband. If a man marry with not pretty woman or woman with small boobs and small butts, because Allah already choose her to be his wife, some thing to the woman who marry with ugly or short brainless man with small weeeweee JUST LIKE U dumb anonymous , because Allah already pick him to be her husband.
Not only men more interested to women physical beauty (women too).
Not only women more interested to men in the overall personality (men too)
If you think U will pick women in the physical beauty only, pick meghan fox, shes so damn hot, but she s bisexual, will u pick her?? IF she cheat on u with another woman i bet u will take a shit in ur pants. Same thing with women too. Remember this World is not PERFECT like JANNAH. They are bad man and bad woman, they are pervert men and pervert women, they are mature menn and mature women, they are religious men and religious women, and they are men with strong desire and women with strong desire. This world always black and white. Allah already put pairs in everything. They are light and dark, they are good men and good women, they are daytime and nitetime. U never play like god u think u know about human being. Only Allah knows allah creatures NOT U. DOnt watch movies too much about women sooo perfect and faithfull. Dont watch james bond too much so ur brain will say that is true about all men.
Just remember this WOMEN DO NOT NEED VIAGRA!!!!!!!!!!!! We as men need viagra if we get old. Even tho women get monopause someday when they get older but they still have sexual desire. When women get monopause means they couldnt bear a baby anymore (pregnant) but doesnt mean sexual desire DIES.
By the time they Look at monkey faced husband even viagra would fail. Is it less desire or desire vanishes after putting up with fatso all of their life. Men did not abuse white women in history she could not put up with uglyness. She abuses everybody and complains about men’s abusive history.
A woman is married for four (things); her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. Choose (marry) the religious woman so that your home will be in abundance. (Bukhari)
every person has given a free will in this world to do what ever he wants to do ,as this hadees indicates that choose among these qualities ,yes allah already knows what a person will choose and he has already written that, but what we do its our choice.
if u ask a women who she wants to marry every women in this world will say a handsome smart tall intellectual kind polite loving caring and most important resourceful man, but problem is that these men r very few in this world, most of the population consist of assholes like u. so the girl have to compromise and have to give up some of her demands. most of the time she compromise on the physical beauty of the men thats the point very simple.
and men also want a perfect women who is beautiful hot and have a list of other qualities again difficult to find and men also have to compromise and the last thing he want to compromise on is the physical beauty of the women thats it.
The reason humans want sex is due to the hormone testosterone, which is predominantly male hormone. A normal male’s body produces 20 times more of this hormone than a female’s.
In other words, a male feels the same way after one day without sex as a female after 20 days without sex. A male that has not had sex in 20 days feels the same way as a female after more than a year without sex.
Knowing this simple difference, you can already understand the pain of the opposite gender. It’s NOT their fault: they are made this way! It’s in our genes! This is the reason why men are men and women are women.
Men and women are DIFFERENT.
Not better or worse, just different.
For a man, sex is a physical act that eases the testosterone pressure he experiences constantly. Only after this tension has gone, can a man feel love towards a woman. This is why it often happens that men disappear after they got what they wanted: it wasn’t love; it was the testosterone pressure. Sex for men is the reality check of their passion.
This is why having sex early in the relationship is hazardous for women: the man has not had the time to develop any romantic feelings for her. He needs time to develop those feelings, and the only way to do it is through keeping the sexual tension going for as long as practicable. Sex must be attainable, nearly possible – but not quite. When the sexual tension is at its peak, its release is mind-blowing – and once is never enough, which lays a proper foundation for a future relationship – and love.
Men fall in love through sex; women fall in sex through love.
All of this happens on the unconscious level – we do NOT realize what’s going on.
mr james i think u have open ur eye between super horny females ,so u think they have equal desire as men but thats not the case . so plz shut the fuck up and dont open ur mouth untill u have something logical to say,
World of big maasi’s who knows what they think deep down. You men are very good at guesswork. Maasi’s dont say anything. That is the case inside aswell. May god turn you into a maasi in hell. Women dont express their sexual desire fully. Only 20% is expressed and 80 is not. Men express it 125 %. Your guess work is not good for people. Love your maasi. Oppress her and then say they dont.
Khurab undey ki khurab nasul.
I know plenty of horny massi jees. They love to tell you their kahani. There horns just break.
u call me an asshole? who said first women have less desire?? who said first women never ever get hurs in jannah? who said first women will be sharing husband so proud?? who said first haram having many husbands in jannah only men?? All i do and said women do not have less desire than men, i said whatever women will want in jaanah even they want many handsome men for their inner selve desire they will have them with god permittion (not Ur permittion), ur the one so god damn worry if women wanting many hot guys in jannah
u call me an asshole? who said first women have less desire?? who said first women never ever get hurs in jannah? who said first women will be sharing husband so proud?? who said first haram having many husbands in jannah only men?? All i do and said women do not have less desire than men, i said whatever women will want in jaanah even they want many handsome men for their inner selve desire they will have them with god permittion (not Ur permittion), ur the one so god damn worry if women wanting many hot guys in jannah.
what do u mean MASHA ALLAH. WHere in the fcking idea u make such as fcking theory about male has not sex in 20 days feel the same way as a female after more than a year without sex??? Hey stupid fcking brainless anynomous….. How in the earth u make such as stupid theory?? hey ur penis and my penis will become soft like cheez once our sperm comes out after sex or after masturbating, but women vagina will never become cheez even tho they get orgasms, women can still go on and on without resting. We need to rest at least 15 minutes or less and while we are resting those women still can go on straight for another orgasms. We can do at least 3 times the most but women can get orgasm 10 time or more without stopping thats wht I heard from all my female friends and women in my college. Of course u will say oh man are so damn strong about sex, U KNOW WHY because UR man. U want to look stud right LOL
Hey fucker men fall in love through sex??? Do u want have sex with my 84 yrs old neighbour. I bet u will fall in love through sex with her? LMFAO
Women fall in sex through love???? so what happen with those many more who cheating behind their husbands or their boyfriends??? So what happen with those prostitution women? all those prostitution women doing sex through love??? they dont even fucking care about those men??
USE UR BRAIN BEFOE UR TALKING
Oh i really want u ve fuck with one of my female bestfriend, I swear by god U will open ur brain more. I bet u will kill her because she s gonna cheat on u , u will be killing her because u catch her in action with another men. Do u want to fuck my female friends? SHes here with me, she says yes?? I know for sure ur fucking ugly man, but my friend hot like catherine z jones and megan fox. She said she will put tom cruice poster on ur ugly face so she will able to fuck u good. LOL
OH MASHA ALLAH…. I cant wait for MUSLIMAH whos been married 4 times to respond ur fucking idea about women less desire and too god damn jealous.
IF only women jealoous why is it in africa their husbands circumsize their wives so they wont cheat on them, why is it all women in afghanistan must stay home and cant go anywhere because the men didnt want their wives cheating right not only because religion. why is it so many muslim women abused by their husband? because their husband jealous right? why is it many men kill their cheating wives?? How do u call that if not jealous fuking retard?
Oh wait I bet u will not be jealous if ur wife screw around with another hot guys!! wow!! ur heart made of steal!!! I will fuking jealous if my wife or girlfriend in this world will cheat on me thats for sure!! i bet u will not be jealous woww!!
WKKWKKWKWKWWK brother james ignore anynomous. We all know he is stupid.
Just think about non muslim people when we try to tell them GOD is one, islam the truth, Jesus is not god or budha is not god, THey wont listen to us because thats their believe. God already seal their heart, close their ear and shut their eyes because of their so vain or proud
MUSLIMAH WHERE R U????
I want u to respond this dumb anynomous ass. HE said Women like u have less desire than him. MUSLIMAHHH
whos said Hur in is female? hur in is plural from hawra. hur is neutral. Hur dont have gender. It can be men or women. Al Quran is from the old arabic words, even arabic speaking nowadays dont understand the words from quran itself. THe first people whos translated the surah or quran are MEN. Obviously those men imaginary about hur is female for men only. Prophet Muhammad SAW said anything in the quran is for both men and women.
Why men only think that only them have very strong desire. COme on people ur not GOD. U dont know about women so shut up. How do u know women have less desire? just bcuz u ask ur wife about having less desire but doesnt mean all women have less desire.
its so funny when it comes to men are going to have many wives in heaven, Many men are agree and so proud about it. But when it comes to women wanting to have many partners in heaven, Many of men disagree and get mad about it. Look Hurin is plural, from hawra. It doesnt say the gender. It could b men or women, But men just close their eyes and denied it cuz for them hur is only for men not women. Which is so dumb. Learn quran and authentic sunnah more than just listen from what people said
i have never herd any allim taking about male hurs .nor any hadees not any indication from quran.plz can u give me any referecne from quran aur sahih hadees which speaks about male hurs. as far as ur question about men translating the quran and they said hur only refers to female hurs so for ur kind information the first person who teach the quran to sahabas was no one else but our beloved prophet muhmmad s.a.w .so plz tell me the sahih hadees which talks about the male hurs ,
and ur stupid example of six pack man and ugly man ,if the the six pack man is a womenizer drug addict then what ? ???????? ur arguments r not strong enough gentleman.
Dude as i said about hurs in the quran is no gender. U should learn old arabic words and learn quran. hurs is plural from hawra. It means neutral. it could b man or woman. The one that translated the quran or hadist is the scholars, not sahabas. In the quran said hurin. lear what hur means???
Praise be to Allah
Since you believe in Allah and His Book, you must know that (“: and not one will thy Lord treat with injustice”), Verse 49, Surat al-Kahf, or the Cave, and (“Allah is never unjust in the least degree: if there is any good (done), He doubleth it, and gives from His Own Self a great reward”), Verse 40, Surat an-Nisa, or the Women.
Allah has meant this Law of Islam (Shari’ah) for both men and women. All address to men in the Quran is address to women, and all rules affecting men affect women as will unless evidence is established that one of them is meant and not the other as in the rules relating to Jihad (fighting for Islam), menstruation, custodianship, rule etc.
The evidence that women are included in Verses of the Quran in the male gender is a Hadith by ‘Ayishah who said that the Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) was asked about a man who sees traces of semen but does not remember having any dream of sexual nature. The Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Such man should perform the Ghusul (ritual ablution). He was also asked of a man who remembers a dream of sexual nature but sees no traces of semen. He said: “Such man does not have to perform the Ghusul (ritual ablution). Umm Salim said “A woman may have the same experience. Does she have to perform the Ghusul (ritual ablution)?” The Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Yes, there is no difference in this between man and woman.” Narrated by Abu Dawud, at-Tirmizi 113 and others. The last phrase is in Sahih al-Jami’ under No. 2333.
With respect to rewards in the Hereafter and what women have in heaven, we include a number of Verses and Hadiths as follows:
Um Salamah said: “O Messenger of Allah. I did not hear a Verse in the Quran regarding the Hijrah (migration with the Prophet ) of women.” Then was revealed the Verse: (“And their Lord has accepted of them, and answered them: Never will I suffer to be lost the work of any of you, be he male or female: ye are members, one of another: those who have left their homes, and were driven out therefrom, and suffered harm in My cause, and fought and were slain – Verily I will blot out from them their inequities, and admit them into gardens with rivers flowing beneath; … A reward from Allah, and from Allah is the best of rewards.”), Verse 195, Surat al-‘Imran, or the Family. The Hadith was narrated by at-Tirmizi under No. 3023.
Ibn Kathir (May Allah have mercy on him) said the Verse (“fastajaba lahum rabbuhum”) means Allah replied to their queries … and the Verse (“anni la udi’u ‘amala ‘amilin minkum min thakarin aw untha”) is an explanation of the reply meaning that good deeds will not be lost or ignored. All men and women will have the just reward for their deeds. The Verse (“ba’dukum min ba’d”) means you will be treated equally with respect to rewards.
(If any do deeds of righteousness, be they male or female, and have faith, they will enter heaven, and not the least injustice will be done to them.), Verse 124, Surat an-Nisa, or the Women.
In explanation of this Verse, Ibn Kathir (May Allah have mercy on him) said the Verse shows Allah’s kindness, generosity and mercy in accepting the good deeds of all people, men and women, provided that they believe, in allowing them into heaven and in not decreasing rewards for their good deeds no even in the least.
(Whoever works righteousness, man or woman, and has faith, verily, to him will we give a life that is good and pure, and we will bestow on such their reward according to the best of actions.), Verse 97, Surat an-Nahl, or the Bees.
Ibn Kathir (May Allah have mercy on him) said this is a promise by Allah, the Exalted, to those who do good deeds i.e. deeds acceptable to Allah in which a Muslim follows the rules set in the Book of Allah, the Exalted, and the Sunnah of His Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him), be they men or women, if they believe in Allah and His Messenger (May peace and blessings be upon him), that He will make them live a good life in this world and will be rewarded in the Hereafter. A good life would include all types of comfort.
(He that makes evil will not be requited but by the like thereof; and he that makes a righteous deed – whether man or woman – And is a believer – Such will enter the garden (of bliss): therein will they have abundance without measure.), Verse 40, Surat al-Mumin, or the believer.
Finally; dear sister, here is a Hadith that will dispel any doubt you may have with respect to the mentioning of women:
Um ‘Umarah al-Ansariyyah said that she went to the Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) and said to Him: “I feel that everything is for men. Women are not mentioned as having anything. Then was revealed the Verse: (For Muslim men and women, for believing men and women etc), Verse 35, Surat al-Ahzab, or the Confederates. The Hadith is narrated by at-Tirmizi under No. 3211, and is in Sahih at-Tirmizi under No. 2565.
In the collection of Hadiths of Imam Ahmad was narrated the Hadith that Um Salama (May Allah be pleased with her) said: “I said “O Messenger (May peace and blessings be upon him) of Allah. Why aren’t we mentioned in the Quran in an equal footing with men?” Then; I was surprised to hear Him call one day from the pulpit: “O people.” As I was combing my hair at the moment, I wrapped it up and came close to the door and stood there listening to Him say: “Allah, Mighty and Sublime be He, revealed that (For Muslim men and women; for believing men and women; for devout men and women, for true men and women; for men and women who are patient and constant; for men and women who humble themselves; for men and women who give in charity; for men and women who fast; for men and women who guard their chastity; and for men and women who engage much in Allah’s remembrance for them has Allah prepared forgiveness and great reward.) Verse 35, Surat al-Ahzab, or the Confederates.
We ask Allah to give us all the ability to show sincerity in words and deeds and to continue as will-established Muslims.
May Allah have blessing on Prophet Muhammad .
Islam Q&A
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
Praise be to Allah
Since you believe in Allah and His Book, you must know that (“: and not one will thy Lord treat with injustice”), Verse 49, Surat al-Kahf, or the Cave, and (“Allah is never unjust in the least degree: if there is any good (done), He doubleth it, and gives from His Own Self a great reward”), Verse 40, Surat an-Nisa, or the Women.
Allah has meant this Law of Islam (Shari’ah) for both men and women. All address to men in the Quran is address to women, and all rules affecting men affect women as will unless evidence is established that one of them is meant and not the other as in the rules relating to Jihad (fighting for Islam), menstruation, custodianship, rule etc.
The evidence that women are included in Verses of the Quran in the male gender is a Hadith by ‘Ayishah who said that the Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) was asked about a man who sees traces of semen but does not remember having any dream of sexual nature. The Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Such man should perform the Ghusul (ritual ablution). He was also asked of a man who remembers a dream of sexual nature but sees no traces of semen. He said: “Such man does not have to perform the Ghusul (ritual ablution). Umm Salim said “A woman may have the same experience. Does she have to perform the Ghusul (ritual ablution)?” The Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) said: “Yes, there is no difference in this between man and woman.” Narrated by Abu Dawud, at-Tirmizi 113 and others. The last phrase is in Sahih al-Jami’ under No. 2333.
With respect to rewards in the Hereafter and what women have in heaven, we include a number of Verses and Hadiths as follows:
Um Salamah said: “O Messenger of Allah. I did not hear a Verse in the Quran regarding the Hijrah (migration with the Prophet ) of women.” Then was revealed the Verse: (“And their Lord has accepted of them, and answered them: Never will I suffer to be lost the work of any of you, be he male or female: ye are members, one of another: those who have left their homes, and were driven out therefrom, and suffered harm in My cause, and fought and were slain – Verily I will blot out from them their inequities, and admit them into gardens with rivers flowing beneath; … A reward from Allah, and from Allah is the best of rewards.”), Verse 195, Surat al-‘Imran, or the Family. The Hadith was narrated by at-Tirmizi under No. 3023.
Ibn Kathir (May Allah have mercy on him) said the Verse (“fastajaba lahum rabbuhum”) means Allah replied to their queries … and the Verse (“anni la udi’u ‘amala ‘amilin minkum min thakarin aw untha”) is an explanation of the reply meaning that good deeds will not be lost or ignored. All men and women will have the just reward for their deeds. The Verse (“ba’dukum min ba’d”) means you will be treated equally with respect to rewards.
(If any do deeds of righteousness, be they male or female, and have faith, they will enter heaven, and not the least injustice will be done to them.), Verse 124, Surat an-Nisa, or the Women.
In explanation of this Verse, Ibn Kathir (May Allah have mercy on him) said the Verse shows Allah’s kindness, generosity and mercy in accepting the good deeds of all people, men and women, provided that they believe, in allowing them into heaven and in not decreasing rewards for their good deeds no even in the least.
(Whoever works righteousness, man or woman, and has faith, verily, to him will we give a life that is good and pure, and we will bestow on such their reward according to the best of actions.), Verse 97, Surat an-Nahl, or the Bees.
Ibn Kathir (May Allah have mercy on him) said this is a promise by Allah, the Exalted, to those who do good deeds i.e. deeds acceptable to Allah in which a Muslim follows the rules set in the Book of Allah, the Exalted, and the Sunnah of His Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him), be they men or women, if they believe in Allah and His Messenger (May peace and blessings be upon him), that He will make them live a good life in this world and will be rewarded in the Hereafter. A good life would include all types of comfort.
(He that makes evil will not be requited but by the like thereof; and he that makes a righteous deed – whether man or woman – And is a believer – Such will enter the garden (of bliss): therein will they have abundance without measure.), Verse 40, Surat al-Mumin, or the believer.
Finally; dear sister, here is a Hadith that will dispel any doubt you may have with respect to the mentioning of women:
Um ‘Umarah al-Ansariyyah said that she went to the Prophet (May peace and blessings be upon him) and said to Him: “I feel that everything is for men. Women are not mentioned as having anything. Then was revealed the Verse: (For Muslim men and women, for believing men and women etc), Verse 35, Surat al-Ahzab, or the Confederates. The Hadith is narrated by at-Tirmizi under No. 3211, and is in Sahih at-Tirmizi under No. 2565.
In the collection of Hadiths of Imam Ahmad was narrated the Hadith that Um Salama (May Allah be pleased with her) said: “I said “O Messenger (May peace and blessings be upon him) of Allah. Why aren’t we mentioned in the Quran in an equal footing with men?” Then; I was surprised to hear Him call one day from the pulpit: “O people.” As I was combing my hair at the moment, I wrapped it up and came close to the door and stood there listening to Him say: “Allah, Mighty and Sublime be He, revealed that (For Muslim men and women; for believing men and women; for devout men and women, for true men and women; for men and women who are patient and constant; for men and women who humble themselves; for men and women who give in charity; for men and women who fast; for men and women who guard their chastity; and for men and women who engage much in Allah’s remembrance for them has Allah prepared forgiveness and great reward.) Verse 35, Surat al-Ahzab, or the Confederates.
We ask Allah to give us all the ability to show sincerity in words and deeds and to continue as will-established Muslims.
May Allah have blessing on Prophet Muhammad .
Islam Q&A
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
brother u have come ou with many hadeed but none of them is relating to the issue unfortunately. u said about the word hur that is not only female but also for males or genderless what ever. if for the sake of argument i agree how will u cope with the attributes which r mentioned in quran they doesnt fit on males? ok for the sake of argument again i agree that its because of wrong translation of men translating the quran . what u will say about the hadees they r discussed with more minute details in hadees and ofcouse there attributes noway fit on men.
if the attributes of females hurs r discused in so much detail y prophet muhmmad s.a.w didnt tell the females about the attributes of men in detail???????????? for get about the detail y he doesnt even tell them clealy that they will have more than one men ???????????????? forget about the sahi hadees y cant u give a refernce of even a zaeef hadees which talks about male hurs?????
its very clear that men or women who ever enters in janah will be very happy because allah has promised that he has so much for us there for both males and females which is even beyond our limited thinking
So ur perspective about jannah means u having 72 hoors and hundreds worldly wives. Every one will be ur slaves sex?? is that u want? so ur mothers will be ur father slaves sex compete with other wives in jannah?? Ur sisters ur female cousins, ur grandmothers, and ur daughters will be sharing husband in heaven???? So Fatimah the beloved daughter of prophet muhammad SAW will also share husband??? All muslim women in this worlds who prays will be getting the best reward in jannah sharing husband and god make them not to get jeolus????
if u think having more than one wife is equal to sex slave , then let me tell u that many prophets and sahabs including our beloved prophet muhammad s.a.w had more than one wife. plz think and study before u comment and hurs in janah will be wives and there is huge diffence between sex slaves and wives.
and u talked about hazart fatima r.a let me tell u hazart ali had more than one wife in this world so she was already sharing his husband.so plz expand the horizon of u thinking
use common sense so women who share husband in this life will be share husband again in the other life which is eternity sharing husband???? Allah is not one EYED. Probably ur god is Dajjal then he is has one eyed. THis world is temperory and heaven is eternity. How do u know fatimah the daughter of muhammad saw and other women in this world will be being polygamy in heaven also how do u know??
so u have very strong believe if women being polygamy in this world they will be rewards the same thing in heaven sharing husband. Just the same as blind people who were born blind in this world will keep blind in the heaven. Use ur small brain.
well i think u r not mature enough to argue with, allah says the the wives of this world will be the wives in janah as well if both want to be toghather .if more than one wives of a person want to be with his husband than who r u to stop them ?
excuse me . This world (earth) man can marry many wives so in heaven. women have to wear hijab in this world, so in heaven? Women getting hurt because their husband marry 4 wives so in heaven too? In this world men can not wear jewelry like women do, but in heaven men getting jewelry also. You can not compare the law of the earth with heaven. My allah is not a man or male. My allah is god with just and fair. About fatimah sharing husband. Rasulallah told ali when ali about to marry another woman. Rasulallah told ali that if he wants to marry again, he has to divorce fatimah. Ive never heard that fatimah sharing husband. I want to ask u something what is heaven for religious muslim women? sharing husband, not to get jealous, hijab, lower their gaze, lock in the mansion where men enjoying the view of heaven, can not see or meet their males bestfriend because their husband will get jealous, kitchen, nice clothes, beautiful, gold, diamonds.
man heaven: wives 72 wives, 3000000 wives they all have to be beautiful with nice vagina, men will have giant 12 inches penis, no need mansion but they still will get it anyway, go anywhere to see the view in heaven but their wives stuck in the mansion waiting for them in the bed, do not need to look handsome, ugly is ok, old is ok as long as their penis satify, their women do not need handsome face because only men need their women pretty.
OH RUBBISH!!!!! men heaven invention, always want to get the best not women. HEY im lesbian muslim woman. I always accept this trial from allah. Insha allah i always be strong not to do zina. But this heaven’s men invantion is such as rubbish. I bet you are pervert arab who love to put the women down the earth. Allah is not your daddy. I heard from my religious teacher that hoors has no gender. It could be man or woman. I also heard that heaven is whatever you want and you will get it no exception. But i bet pervert arab guy like you will strongly disagree. I bet you will say oh there are no hadith said about anything for woman having many husbands. NEVER. LESBIAN OR GAY go straight to hell no matter what….even they do not do zina.
so my rewards in heaven not to do sin or zina is god will cure me to love man and once i cure i will be SHARING HUSBAND. I dont even like men and my rewards is still SHARING HUSBAND. THank god i will be cure in heaven but still sharing husband. GIVE ME A BREAK LOL. Dont watch pornography hadisth translation. Not even in quran mention about vagina or breast. This website is BS
if the ugly men is womenizer drug addict then what also????????
its not about what u think or what i think.there r several studies on male and female sex drive and all says that men sex drive is far more than female.so do ur home work before u come up with ur bullshit theory
1. Men think more about sex.
The majority of adult men under 60 think about sex at least once a day, reports Laumann. Only about one-quarter of women report this level of frequency. As men and women age, each fantasize less, but men still fantasize about twice as often.
In a comprehensive survey of studies comparing male and female sex drives, Roy Baumeister, a social psychologist at Florida State University, found that men reported more spontaneous sexual arousal and had more frequent and varied fantasies.
2. Men seek sex more avidly.
“Men want sex more often than women at the start of a relationship, in the middle of it, and after many years of it,” Baumeister concludes after reviewing several surveys of men and women. This isn’t just true of heterosexuals, he reports: gay men also have higher frequency of sex than lesbians at all stages of the relationship. Men also say they want more sex partners in their lifetime, and are more interested in casual sex.
Men are more likely to seek sex even when it is frowned upon or even outlawed:
About two-thirds say they masturbate, even though about half also say they feel guilty about it, Laumann says. By contrast, about 40% of women say they masturbate, and the frequency of masturbation is smaller among women.
Prostitution is still mostly a phenomenon of men seeking sex with women, rather than the other way around.
Nuns do a better job of fulfilling their vows of chastity than priests. Baumeister cites a survey of several hundred clergy by Sheila Murphy in which 62% of priests admitted to sexual activity, compared to 49% of nuns. The men reported more partners on average than the women.
Women don’t really Say what they really think or want. that does not mean that’s what they think inside. There are many things we think about but feel awkward. Shy people want to do lot of things but can’t do it. So it is not all about what we show, we hide many things
when u mention about men major about sex 60% than women. How do u know women only think 40 % about sex. As I said UR NOT GOD. Only Allah knows what in humans heart or desiree. If u ask the men about how many times they ask about sex a day, they might say every seconds or every hours. But how do u know is it true what they think or not. Mouth can lie but ur heart cant. U can lie to anyone but not to god or urself. IF u ask women how many time a day they think about sex. Of course they wont tell u, but how do u know whats in their mind. Women do not open minder about sex. they keep it for themselves. I always remember when we were in the religious class, one of the teacher ask the students who wants to have many wives in heaven. 99% the males raised their hands, but i just laugh my self. Cuz 30 % who raised their hands are gay. I know those people whos gay. The 30% males whos gay are from friends of my female friends. I asked them (gay) why they raised their hand. U know what they told me?? cuz if men dont raised their hand not to want many women they think bad about them. THey will call them that their sick or gay.
THat time i didnt raise my hand cuz for me i was mad in love with my girlfriend and now we both married. When i didnt raise my hand, 6 of the guys asked me why didnt i raised my hand. They said to me that im gay. I was so pissed. I told them so if i only want 1 wife means Im gay?? Stupid people!!! when it came to question to female wanting many husbands in heaven, only few raised their hands. Those females who raised their hands were stared by the males and the teacher. They told them that female nature cant be like that. Some of the males call them crazy n SLUTS. I asked some of the females who didnt raise their hand. Some said if they raised their hand people will look at them weird or crazy, some said they just one 1, 3 of them are lesbians LOL. U know why i learn about women so much? Im male having many females friends also. My wife friend is my friends also. Everytimes i heard when my wife’s friends talking (when they gathering together) they talk about sex also.
THink about it in this worlds when u watch the movie JAMES BOND or Playboy men, they call those men STUD. But when it comes to women they call them SLUT,
I agree with LB. In this word u cant say just black or just white.
dude when it comes to masturbate about women u have no damn idea. U know what we as men masturbate i time or few times a day, but when we r done we have to wait for at least 15 minutes to continue again. Dont lie the most we can comes 3 times, but who know some guy can do more a day. About women im sorry i heard this from females, they can marstubate one hour nonstop and they said in one hours they can comes up to 20 times or more. Can u believe that? i asked my own sisters and she said the same thing. I ask my wife she said the same thing.
Im very sorry to all females who read this one. All i tell is by the fact from what all the women who share the information to me. Im researches thats what i do. If i ask the guy about women of course they will say money, pink, kitchen, gossips, etc…
when they said 40 % women dont masturbate. Look women most of the times they like to keep it privacy. but doesnt mean they didnt do it. we as men most of the time we dont keep it secret specialy among to other males. Most of the times when we among the guys , we said great thing about sex, women. bcuz we want to look stud. We as human like to divide different thing between men and women. The sociaty dividing what for women and what for men. LIke for example; when parents having newborn baby, they will prepare PINK clothes for baby girl, and Blue for baby boy. so what i mean is we as human always pick which one is male and which one for female since we all born.
about gay male more openly than lesbian were true, but doesnt means lesbian have less desire. ITs so funny when they say the survey about man thinking 60% about sex more than women. Have u taken they survey about man thinking about sex more than women?? i have never take the survey or none of my males or females friends taken those survey. Not even in my college taken the survey about that. Have yall wonder where in the earth they can asked billions of people about what men thinking about sex more than women. In my college we keep talking about that. When they do the survey and where is the 60% men thinking more sex than women??? How do they got those idea or do they make it up??Just because u read the book about this physcologist says this says that, doesnt mean thats all true. If i want to i can make my own book about 99% women knows how to cook, love kitchen, faithfull only 1 husband, only love to stay home, less desire, brainless, dont like handsome men just want men who care how they look, only like van not sports car, hijab, underwear, bracellet, money (reality men doing more corruption than women), dont like freedom, dont want to drive, dont like masturbate, disgusting looking handome men, gossips, pink never likes blue just pink, girly movie about love only
I can write or any one can write the book about men… 99% love many women, women, women, and women, do not know how to cook cuz thats women job, only love sport cars cuz van for women, more brain than women, more logic than women, only love hot sexy women not ugly one, want the wife lock in the room cant go any where, men do not want money, who cares men sleep in the dirts or being homeless as long as hot women besides us, men dont need food only sex, men never gossip, men never makes sins like women, men perfect than women, men never ever get jeolus not like women alway jelous,and ect…..
The point is……….. book or some people can say that but they have to know the reality only god knows. U should ask to women not just one or few women about who they really r. Dont ask us as a guy about women.
oh about when the parents pick baby clothes to new born baby pink for girls, blue for boys, is very good example for me. the point is we already decide what the girls want n what the boys want since they were born. They parents decide it since the baby hasnt talk yet so the parent have power to control what baby wants. One of My sister hates pink but when she was a baby my parents pick pink for her. Since she grows up she never buys pink clothes.
The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: “It is said in the Quran without knowledge, let him take his place in Hell”
about prostitution they are chipandle (man whore for women) any way women do not need to look man prostution for them to fullfill their desire. In da club most of the time they get the guy easily to be with them, not like us as men, we have to look harder to keep looking for women. If the dude or guy very good looking off course no need to worry to look for women or no need to go to prostitution. They can get women anytime they want. Same thing with women, if they are so damn hot no need to find men, the men will come to them automatically just like magnet. About the priests 62 % admitted to sexual activity get caught, does SHEILA murphy knows only 62 % get caught?? who knows more but never get caught. Sheila murphy or U dont know about the truth. The same thing about nuns 49% admitted to sexual activity. Who know more than 49% but they never get caught. Only god knows and themselves. If u see women wear hijab, how do u know that they never do sins or more religious than women who dont wear hijab???? how do u know man that go to the mosque every day never do sins than men who dont??? Only god knows.
I disagree when u said that women have more control about sex desire than men. If all women can control about their desire, there are no wives or girlfriends cheating on their men in this world. Just because muslim men allowed to marry to 4 women and women cant, doesnt mean women have less desire DUDE. In this world have BLACK n WHITE. There are bad men and bad women, LiGHT n Dark, there are pervert men and pervert women, there are good men and good women, there are shy men and shy women, there are jelous men and jelous women. UNDERSTAND??
what do u mean by women are so jelous comparing about men. Women never compare themselves to men in the first place. Because men from decades like to say that women have less desire off course thats so annoying. U r not a woman so u dont know anything about women. U r not GOD who can see what women wanting inside or what women want? I have female friends muslims or non muslim, many of them talk about sex also just like us,men. Yall should read quran more than listen to other people. Anything in quran is for both men n women. I totally disagree when they say all men looking for women because their body and their pretty face, but women dont care about handsome men and they only care about their personality. THAT is SO STUPID. If a woman have to choose between handsome, tall and six packs abdomen men TO ugly and fat men let say they havee good personlity. Who do u think shes gonna pick????? use common sense stupid. How do we know people have good personality or not?
Off course the woman will pick handsome men.
REMEMBER THIS ONE
Allâh (SWT) says in the Holy Quran:
“Therein you shall have (all) that your inner selves desire, and therein you shall have (all) for which you ask for.” [Sura Fussilat 41:31-32]
IF a women in JANNAH wanting many husbands or partners in heaven, who can stop ALLAH to say NO??? MEN??
Allâh (SWT) says in the Holy Quran:
“Therein you shall have (all) that your inner selves desire, and therein you shall have (all) for which you ask for.” [Sura Fussilat 41:31-32]
IF a man dont want many wives in jannah, who can stop him? i dont want many wives, all i want my only wife. SO Allah wont force anyone. Allah will give reward to the people, men and women, in jannah whatever they want not. Allah wont give some thing that they dont want it.
who says that every desire of men and women will be fulfilled? if a gay men wants male partner will that be provided if women want lesbian action will she get it????????????? ?????? what is sin and amal e sheytan in this world it remain the same in the next world as well.
male can have more than one wife in this world but for women its a big sin.so dont think that evil and weird desires will also be fulfilled. what kind of place u r trying to project janah in which women having lot of men to fulfil her desire ????? r u talking about islam and janah or lasvegas???
there is hadees which says if a women had two husbands. like if one had died before and than she married to another person in janah she will have the option to choose one of them. and u r talking about play boys for females in janah .????????
janah is a pure place and our desires will be pure as well so plz throw that crap out of ur mind and make ur concepts according to quran and sahih hadees not on ur own fantasies
“Therein you shall have (all) that your inner selves desire, and therein you shall have (all) for which you ask for.” [Sura Fussilat 41:31-32]
oh u said if man have many wives thousands of wives do u think jannah is place for prostitution also???? or las vegas???
I show my female muslim friend ur replied or ur comments. Its funny she s right. Who cares if she wants many partners in heaven not my business or ur businees.
I will let her to reply ur comment anonymous wakakakakakakaka
U fight with NASIRA, other anynomous one, and LB my bestfriend. I think u disagree with with any of them who disagree with u, u dont like to hear other people comment as long as u hear the other men agree with ur point of view about jannah. Poor woman who married u. In heaven u ask god to make ur wife to compete with thousand of ur wives in jannah. You are so selfish. Only u can have those nice fantasies not ur sisters, not ur daughters, not ur grandmother. Imagine if your mother remaried with another men. You will have step father. So good bye to your biological father not to meet your biological mother in heaven since she will pick your step father. WHo knows. Your mother will be sharing your step father with other thousands wives. LMAO
hey im female and yes im muslim. So if im married and i die, in case im going to heaven, in heaven im going to share my husband with thousand wives in jannah? LMAO.
Ur wives in jannah will share with other wives in jannah too? LMAO
oh only men can have fantasies about having more than partners? If im asking god for having 2 of my husbands be with me in heaven, whos gonna stop ALLAH? U?
If i only pick one the last husband, but my first one wanting me also in heaven, so r we gonna having STRIKE in heaven whos get whos?
Only u can get HALAL fantasies in heaven many partners but none of the women can have those fantasies, is that what u think??
Im not the only female muslims who have those fantasy. Sorry I love too many handsome men. Like it or not I dont give a crap. I dont care u think im evil or not. I love Allah, pray everyday, fasting, zakat, but sorry im not perfect woman. I love many handsome men sorry u dislike it cuz dont give a crap about what u think
hey dumb anonymous want to b a playboy! Have u been to heaven yet??? have u talk to allah right now why women cant get same plasure like men??? ALlah already put it in the quran so clear about this
““Therein you shall have (all) that your inner selves desire, and therein you shall have (all) for which you ask for.” [Sura Fussilat 41:31-32]
why u still arguing about what women inner selves desire??? why??
Women dont complain if u will get thousands of wives in heaven and why u complaint so much what they want?? why
I dont mind if women wanting many heaven in jannah. I cant stop it what they want neither u
wow u r one of the most jeolus man in the world. Yep god will eliminate ur jelousy in jannah thats for sure wkakkakakakakakakakk
I bet u are so damn worry what ur wife or ur girlfriend inner selve desire. Now i bet u cant sleep all night all years and wondering what ur wife or wives, or ur girlfriends inner desire. U really scare they want many men in jannah. Cuz in ur head only u can have many wives in jannah but not ur wives wakkakakakkakakakakakakkaka
Me and my girlfriend, and my female friend were laughing at u right now
well after reading ur comments its suggest that u r the president of kingdom of assholes.well if u r so worried about that y dont females get many men dont worry atlest u can care about ur sisters wife mother etc marry them to as many men as possible so u feel satisfied , come on dude y r u so unjust y???
look how come ur daddy, ur grandpa, ur brother, and u can bang thousands wives but not ur mommy , ur sister, ur daughters, or ur beautiful hot girlfriend bang by ohter men. Let me bang ur wife??? U believe all men in this world will get thousand women and plus hoors right? i hope one of my hoor is ur sister, mother, and ur wife uuuhhhmm. Since u will get thousands hoors who cares with them
is that what my wife want in heaven or what my sister wants in heaven. Let them be. Why would i get jeolaus??? why? im not like U dumb ass. Only u can have fun but not ur sister ur mother and ur wives.
Hur plural dumb stupid brainless. U pervert wanna be a playboy u like to shut ur eyes when u know is hur is plural. U disagree cuz u only want to believe hur is female. LEARN old arabic worlds, Go to school then u will find out the truth. My friend’s father is a imam also a scholar. He told me the same freaking thing but men just denied cuz they want heaven like the earth where they can control women again but this time is eternity. Use ur comment sense. James was right also why god created adam and eve, not adam eve, salima, sandra, veronica. Since u told us that god created men with more sex ability than women, why didnt god created adam and 9 wives in the first place. Why we never heard adam and eve having sex in heaven? where is in the quran says when adam and eve in heaven having sex?? when adam and eve in the earth having children 2 daughters and 2 sons. Not 9 daughters and 1 son or 2 sons?? GOd already give anyone their own match. God created humans in pair husband and wife. GOd created adam and eve in heaven. God created pairs of human. ADAM n EVE NOT ADAM EVE SANDRA FATIMA or ect
I read all these comment.
Becareful what you say. Watch your mouth.
The Messenger of Allah peace be upon him: “It is said in the Quran without knowledge, let him take his place in Hell”
Now u compare women with GAY or LESBIAN. THere are gay muslims and lesbian muslim women who never do the ZINAH all their life until their death. ALLAH gives every souls different test in this world. Depend on us to pass the test or not. If we pass our test mean we get the rewards in heaven if we dont pass it we go to hell but only with Allah mercy we dont throw in hell. Gay and lesbian are test from god too just other people. So how do you know if gay or lesbian who dont do zinah in this world will go to hell? we straight humans make mistake and some straight humans do zinah also. Only Allah knows whos going to hell or going to heaven. With just our pray 5 times a day, fasting, zakat do not bring us right away to heaven without allah mercy. IF pious gay or lesbian who dont do zinah in this world in case go to heaven, asking god what they want in heaven. Allah will reward their inner selves desires. I dont know how cuz im not god. Only Allah knows best. Who knows Allah will change them for example gay guy to become straight or lesbian to become straight. Who knows God will change their appearance or genitals from man to woman or woman to man. WE DONT KNOW!!!!!!!!
We heard the story about a prostitute (on the time of Isa al masih bin Mariam AS) go to heaven cuz she helped the dog by saving the dog’s life
What i mean is even prostitute go to heaven by god mercy and what make you think pious gay or lesbian who dont do zinah or do zinah wont go to heaven. We know zinah will go to hell but who knows in Allah mercy those sinner still go to heaven. We do not know what Allah plans. We cant control Allah who is going to hell or heaven. We cant control ALlah what men or women will get in heaven
Nothing is impossible to ALLAH.
Even Angel ask Allah why allah created more men (humans), Allah said YOU DONT KNOW what I KNOW.
So human dont know what ALLAH plans. All humans know just guessing thats my point
o my god i have such a huge opposition, any way i will reply to all inshallah.
1. after reading all the comments of my brothers and sisters i have noticed the biggest issue is why cant a women had many men in janah ?
so lets make it very simple why r we guessing why r we making hypothesis ? its crystal clear that men will get many hoors nobody has objection in that ,and i didnt send any application to allah to give us so many beautiful hoors as reward but he has already promised, but when it comes to females unfortunately its not mentioned any where that females will have many men now what i have noticed is thats too much hurting for females and some of male as well ,
but unfortunately none of my brother and none of my sister can come up with any verse from quran which indicates that they will have many men ,nor any sahi hadees. for get about the sahi hadees they even cant come up with any zaeef hadees. if its mention so clealy for men y not for women????????????? all what my friends r saying is allah cant be unjust he will fulfill every desire. no boby say that allah can be unjust but we have to rely on the knowledge which has given to us from quran and hadees , i dont claim to have full knowledge of quran and hadees thats y i m saying if some one can help me and tell me any verse or sahi hadees which clearly say that women will also have many men , i will have no objection if allah want to reward them with men then who am i to object????
no body say we r disagree if Allah wants to give all men in this world thousands wives or million wives. But ur disagreee if a woman wanting many husbands in heaven. there is a surah say i give u many god damn time already u super stupid wanna be playboy with small freaking weweee.
read this one dumb ass
Allâh (SWT) says in the Holy Quran:
“Therein you shall have (all) that your inner selves desire, and therein you shall have (all) for which you ask for.” [Sura Fussilat
and u still disagree what people have in their inner selves desire. My god i hope u still have brain left in ur small head. Not even the amount of wives in jannah God mention in quran. The amount mention on the hadist only. NOT IN QURAN
syaitan can change the hadisth but not quran. THe problem is where can we find the authentic hadist. Have u read hadisth.THe translation are different from one book to another. Hadisth says different think . ONe book say men will get 72 hoors other books say men will get 72 hoors plus 2 worldy wives, other book says men will get 72 hoors, plus 2 worldy wives pplus 80 thousands slaves u can have sex with, other book says u will get 72 hoors , plus wives, plus 80 thousands slaves, plus the markets u can go with no bargain. the markets have beautiful females and males. If u want to have sex with the females u can have sex with her in that market right there. WOW
this is a answer by a female scholar i think that will help u understand the concept better
Men get Hoor Al’Een in Jannah….But what about us women…….what do we get??!!
That is a question that we come across many times and actually, that is something a lot of us ask. In fact, just the other day, someone asked me the very same question.
To that sister and others who may have this question up their mind, I say….
My dear sister…..first of all Jannah and Jahannum (and Hoor Al’Een, for that matter) and all what happens in them are matters of the Hereafter. These are a part of the realm of the Unseen of which we have very limited perception. Such matters are beyond our understanding and cannot be known by reasoning and thinking and we have really no knowledge of these things except what the Quraan and the authentic Sunnah tell us.
All we do is to believe in such matters of the Unseen, while remembering that its realities are known only to Allaah.
And actually, one should not really get into the details or indulge in discussions of the matters of the unseen without knowledge, because there is really no benefit in that. Rather if such a question comes up, we should say Allaah knows best.
As Allaah says:
“And follow not (i.e., say not, or do not, or witness not) that of which you have no knowledge. Verily, the hearing, and the sight, and the heart of each of those ones will be questioned (by Allaah)” (Surah al-Isra’ :36)
And, dear sister, from whatever limited knowledge we do have about Jannah that Allaah and His Messenger (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam) have informed us, there are a few points that we, as believing women, should remember, when questions such as these pop up in our heads.
1. Allaah is Most-Just and the Most-Merciful
The first and foremost thing to remember is that this is Allaah, Rab ul Aalameen we are talking about here.
Subhaan Allaah.
Remember that He is ar-Rahmaan ar-Raheem, the One who is Just and there is no one more just than Him….
And He is the One who is Fair and there is no one who is more fair than Him!!
He will never ever let you down or be unfair to you. If He has promised the men of Jannah Hoor Al’Een, then surely He will give the believing women of Jannah something equally pleasing too. There is no way that He will favor the men over the women, aoodhu billaah. Subhaanahu wa Ta’ala.
“If any do deeds of righteousness, be they male or female, and have faith, they will enter Jannah, and not the least injustice will be done to them.” (Surah an-Nisa:124)
2. Allaah created men and women differently
Another thing to remember is that what pleases women may be different from what pleases men. And everybody knows that. So wouldn’t He, Who created us in the first place know that better than anybody else?
“Shall He who has created (all things) not know? He is the Subtle, the Aware.” (Surah Mulk: 14)
So have this firm belief in Him, and have blind trust in Him, Subhaanahu Wa Ta’ala….He, who knows us women and our nature best and He, who will give the women of Jannah whatever will please her the best.
“Therein you shall have (all) that your inner-selves desire” (Surah Fussilat:31-32)
3. In Jannah the righteous woman will be married to her husband and she will be pleased with that
Allaah will marry the believing women to their husbands of the dunya if they were righteous and make them pleased with that. That IS what they would desire. They wouldn’t want any one else.
And if a woman did not get married during her worldly life, or if her husband was not from the people of Jannah, then Allaah will marry her to one of the believing men in Jannah. The women will live with their husbands and children and families in their own realms in Paradise, and they will be so content with that.
“Gardens of perpetual bliss: they shall enter there, as well as the righteous among their fathers, their spouses, and their offspring.” (Surah ar-Ra`d: 23)
“Enter the Garden, you and your wives, you will be made glad. There will be brought round for them trays of gold and goblets, and therein is all that the souls desire and eyes find sweet and you will stay there forever. This is the garden, which you are made to inherit because of what you used to do. Therein for you is fruit in plenty whence to eat.” (Az-Zukhruf 43: 70-73)
Ibn Katheer said: “ they (the women of Jannah) lower their gaze and avoid looking at men other than their husbands, so they do not think that there is anything in Paradise that is more handsome than their husbands. This was stated by Ibn ‘Abbaas, Qataadah, ‘Ata’ al-Khuraasaani and Ibn Zayd. And it was narrated that one of them will say to her husband: By Allaah I do not think that there is anything in Paradise finer than you, or that there is anything in Paradise dearer to me than you; praise be to Allaah Who has made you for me and made me for you.” (Tafseer al-Qur’aan al-‘Azeem).
4. In Jannah there will be no jealousy
Remember,my sister, that life in Jannah will be nothing like life here in this world. It is a different world that has nothing in common with this world except names only; the realities of things are completely different.
Pleasures and feelings that we experience here in this life will be experienced in a different and much better and purer way. We will eat and drink but there will be no filth or dirt. Our bodies will not excrete wastes nor will we grow old. And not only our physical bodies, but our psychology and nature will be different also.
“And We shall remove from their breasts any (mutual) hatred or sense of injury….” (Surah al-A’raaf:43)
The Prophet (sal Allaahu Alayhi wa Sallam) said:
“The first group to enter Paradise will look like the moon when it is full. They will not spit or blow their noses or defecate therein. Their vessels and combs will be of gold and silver, their incense burners will be of aloeswood and their sweat will be musk. Each of them will have two wives, the marrow of whose calves will be visible from beneath the flesh because of their beauty. There will be no dissent or enmity among them and their hearts will be as one, and they will glorify Allaah morning and evening.” (al-Bukhaari, Muslim)
He also said: “they will not envy one another.” (Bukhaari)
So even if the men will have Hoor Al’Een, we will not be jealous. Yes, it seems hard at this time, but it is just as hard to imagine eating and drinking without any excretion, although it is surely true. So rest assured…there will be love and peace and no jealousy.
Besides, think about it….Isn’t the One capable of making you the way you are in this world with all your jealousy and the other ‘womanly’ feelings, capable of making you without jealousy in the Hereafter??!! Of course He is!
Rejoice, O sister, the believing women will be better than the Hoor Al’Een
Yes that’s right. Read the quote below, my sister, and rejoice!
“The situation of the believing woman in Jannah will be better than the situation of the hoor al-‘iyn; she will be higher in status and more beautiful. Several ahaadeeth and reports have been narrated concerning that, but none of them can be proven to be sound. But, if a righteous woman from among the people of this world enters Paradise, then she will do so as a reward for her righteous deeds and as a honor from Allaah to her for her religious commitment and righteousness. As for the hoori who is one of the delights of Paradise, she has only been created in Paradise for the sake of someone else, and has been made the reward for the believing man for his righteous deeds. There is a great difference between one who enters Paradise as a reward for her righteous deeds and the one who was created as a reward for one who did righteous deeds. The former is a queen and a princess, and the latter, no matter how beautiful she is, is undoubtedly lower in status than a queen, and she is subject to the command of her believing master for whom Allaah created her as a reward.” (www.islamqa.com)
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen said regarding this matter:
“It seems to me that the women of this world will be better than the hoor al-‘iyn, even in outward appearance, and Allaah knows best.” (Fataawa Noor ‘ala al-Darb).
Logically speaking……Wouldn’t you rather be beautiful??
When we look at ourselves and our nature, we realize Allaah’s infinite Wisdom and Justice in the way He has created us. It is in our very nature that most of us women are generally pleased with and devoted to only one man.
Ask yourself this or any woman out there you know, this question and you would know what I mean. Ask them….
“What would you rather be……be extremely beautiful with one loving husband or be ordinary looking with several husbands??!!
I am sure there will not be very many women out there who would pick the second choice…!!!
We have no right to question to Allaah
Actually, if you think about it, we have no right to question Allaah in whatever He does, how He does it and when He does it. We should not question Allaah’s wisdom in making us in the nature we are now or in re-creating us in the nature we will have in the future. We know that He is generous and merciful, and we have to trust Him.
He is All-Wise, All-Knowing. He is the Just and He knows Best.
AND, for arguments sake, EVEN IF, in His Infinite Wisdom, Allaah chooses to give men Hoor Al’Een and the women absolutely nothing, so be it. Know firmly, in your heart and believe unshakably in your mind, that, this is what was better for you. Know that He will NEVER be unfair to you and He will give you ONLY and ONLY if He pleases. And He will withhold from you, ONLY and ONLY if you deserve it.
Where is our trust in the Almighty??
The real focus
Instead of worrying about what Allaah has promised men and competing with them, we should focus on how to serve Him and worship Him better. We should try to improve our relationship with Him so that we may hope for His generous reward and forgiveness, so that out of His Mercy, He may enter us in Jannah.
Think about it, sister, if we learn all the details of what life in Jannah will be like and what rewards women will get, but fail to worship and serve Him the way He and His Messenger have taught us to…. then our knowledge is pretty useless, isn’t it…?
If you are among those women who leave this world having won the pleasure of Allaah, then good news to you, my sister. When you enter Jannah you will have delights and pleasures such as no eye has seen, no ear has heard and no mind has ever imagined. You will have all that you wish for in the best of ways. You will be more beautiful than you can ever imagine, with a status higher than you can ever conceive and happier than you have ever been, content with your husband and family. Everything that you will ask for will be granted, and everything that you long for, you will get. You will never find anything to upset or disturb you, or make you jealous for you will be in the care of the Most Generous, Most Merciful.
What more could you ask for….????
Actually the word “Hoor” is a plural for both “Ahwar” which is applicable to the man and “Hawar” which is applicable to the women. And “Hawar” means ‘big, white beautiful eye” and it specially describes the whiteness of eye. . And it is rightly translated by ‘Abdullah Yusuf Ali’ that hoor means ‘companion’. Therefore “Hoor” actually means a ‘companion’ or a ‘spouse’’ It has no gender. Thus on paradise women will get a good man with big beautiful eyes. And man will get a good lady with big beautiful eyes.
Look up in the youtube about what women get in jannah by Dr. zakir naik
in the quran everything is plural. FOr both men and women.
also i got this quote from muhammad arifin. I translate it to english
The word ” Hurin ” mentioned that it is a combination of two words Hur and ‘ In. Hur said , in language , is the plural of hawrâ ‘ , which is commonly translated as ‘ angel ‘ . The word hur is a neutral sex – neutral word that can be male , could be female . Thus approximately mentioned in the Tafsir Al – Mishbâh . Hur said it himself , according to Raghib al – Asfahâniy , means ” white seem black eye on the sidelines ” ( in the sense : a white part of the eye is very white and the black is very black ) . Can also mean ” round ” . There also mean ” narrow ” . While the word ‘ inclusive is the plural of ‘ Ayna ‘ and ‘ ayn which means ” big eyes and beautiful ” .
With reference to linguistic meanings above we can say that the creature that will accompany the righteous in heaven can be understood as literal , in the sense that the couples really beautiful eyes , narrow or wide – line with what is desirable by the heavenly host . We can also understand a figure of speech ( metaphor ) , in the sense that it shows a view of the narrow eyes fixated to their partner , or eyes wide open eyes in a sense to always look with great interest to his partner .
There are many other representations about the people running mate righteous in heaven , whether we get in the Qur’an and Hadith . To be sure , such disabdakan by the Prophet . , What is in heaven with many pleasures it ” was never seen by the eye , never to be heard by the ear , and never imagined by our minds” .
Thus , Allah knows best .
Muhammad Arifin
hurin also means companion. but men change it to women. Have u heard in english words “virgin” they automatically refers to women. Virgin means anyone who never have sex yet. it could be man or woman. But we human change the words and love to exagerate the words.
LOOK if u want to know the truth wait when we all die. In case if we go to heaven then u will know the truth.
ALLAH is fair and just. Allah will give rewards to the humans and jinns whatever they asking or willing not the one they dont ask. If u want an apple god will give u an apple not banana.
For example : If i was a female and married and me n my husband go to heaven. According what u believe, my husband getting thousand wives and me for his reward. What do u think is my reward as female? sharing husband not to get jelous? Let see if i dont want sharing husband so god wont listen to me as female?? so u think god will tell me this “no the reward is u have to share ur husband, nice kitchen, mansion with gold, and u still lower ur gaze since ur female” and “i will get rid off ur jealousy that all i can do” is that what u want to hear about reward for females?
If a man want only 1 wife, his wife only. so God will force that man to have 72, hundreds, or thousands wives? so u think god will tell me this “dont argue with me cuz i will give u thousands wives for u to have fun in heaven and who cares with ur wife feeling cuz i will eliminate her jealousy” is that what u want to hear about god is just and fair??
According to arab muslim guys that is fair. No wonder Allah sent all the prophets in the middle east not in america, indoneisa, australia, europe.
when men mention jeolusy refers to women, make me laugh and hurt my testicle. U as men already jeolus what women will get or what women will ask. When the hurin means could be man or woman. U as men already scare and worry what god will give women also. Those women in this worlds no worry what u gonna get. but u so damn worry what they want to get.
So the husband whos marry 4 times or 5 times after he died, so in heaven all the women are going to be his wives and plus 72 women and plus 2 extra worldy women.
but when a wife whos marry 4 times or 5 times after she died, so in heaven she can only choose 1 husband with the best characteristic only. And her husband still will be marry with 72 women, thousands wives, and extra 2 world wives.
I bet god is fair according to men right?
Masha ALLAH, can u pleople use comment sense?
u know what believe what u believe. No need to argue with brainless people. Its so clear god mention in heaven is what ever ur selve inner desire will get, but u still argue. MASHA ALLAH.
If the woman selve inner desire is multiple husbands and u still argue about god promise.
Or probably u think u will bribe god not to give women inner selve desire
brother james what u r saying is that the word hoor is plural and can be used for both.ok agreed but y u dont give any importance to hadees ??? does it has no worth for u? why didnt muhmmad s.a.w clear that in hadees that hurs r for both male and female ?? y he only told us about female hur? u dont have any hadees do u ?? u r relying more on what a scholar said and only one scholar there r so many more who have other view. but u give absolutely no worth to the hadees which r clearly indicating that its female.
if its not clearly mention in quran if they r male or female what other source we have to make it clear obviously hadees ,there r so many hadees which clearly tell its female but no hadees indicating it can also be male y? y u close ur eye when it comes on hadees .u r saying there is a chance that it CAN be male as well but hadess makes it very clear still u r beating around the bush
well i think this debate has become more of an ego issue now. and i m fed up of replying lets focus more on earning janah then debating on who will get what . lets leave it on allah what ever he will give every one will be happy . may allah guide us to the right path
no offense to muslim arab guys. I know not all arabs have dirty thinking like u
just so funny women cant get jeolus with their husbands wives in jannah cuz they will be prettier that other wives. Oh thats so relieve?? lol. “oh honey u look so hot than other wives, u look way soo much prettier than other wives. But wait let me have sex with them first then i will get to u” . His wife will say ” r u done honey im waiting” . The husband will say ” wait baby i have 79 left to go. Give me a second i ll get to u be patient ok”.
Her wife will ask again to the husband “r u done baby” and the husband will say ” honey u are female. female dont have desire like us” my desire 100 times than u so shut up ok baby”
the wife will say “oh thats right i have less desire” ok baby just keep going dont worry about me do ur business cuz im going to enjoy my beautiful kitchen.
So women is ok to get ugly men or husband in jannah. Becuse u think only women want to look pretty no the men.
wow superb mr james . what a scene that would be when u call ur wife and she will say wait my sweet heart i m just a little busy in a hard core gang bang, and u will say ok my sweety have a nice time i m waiting…….. wow superb what a beautiful relation that would be between husband and wife.??????? what a shame
female having more than one husband is haraaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam so clear in this world no body disagree with this , u r trying to make a big sin halaaal with out any solid proof just on the basis of a hypothesis just on a basis of a guess u r not able to give any reference from quran and hadees
all of u come up with a verse from sura fusilat , that every inner desire will be fullfilled ok
for example u and me both make it to jannah and my inner self desire to bang ur wife then what ??????????????????????? it is understood that it speaks about halaal desires only
and u give a childish example that if u ask for a apple from allah and he gives u banana is that justice? yes a big yes if allah instead of apple gives me banana i would love it cuz he is my creator he knows the best what i need and what is good for me , when we become muslim we submit our will to allah subhan tala what ever he gives us we say alhamdulilah ,
and the people who come up with the theory of justice , yes allah is the most just and no way he can be unjust to women , i have no doubt in my mind that he will please women in many other ways that they will forget the evil idea of many men , r u challenging allah that he can not satisfy women in any other way ?? come on grow up . there is no concept of more than one husband for women what relation will she have with those males u r talking about?????????
i respect women and i think they r way better than males these days but, but as a muslim i cant support the concept of making them sluts
this act is made haraam by allah not by me and only allah can make it halaal if he says its halaal in janah i have no objection i love allah and i have submitted my will to allah we follow what ever he commands us.
but im not sorry to say that i cant consider a haraam act halaal just on the basis of hypothesis just on the basis of guess,
hey have u look those brackets about hur. hur they put as female fair. did u see those brackets. in the quran didnt mention much about heaven. Everything in the quran is plural. The only surah special mention for women only in surah al nisa.
None on the quran mention hur is women, non in the quran mention the amount of hurs. Only in the hadith. Some hadith translation mention hurs are female, but some said COMPANION or spouse. But men love to see the translation with females only. THey close their eyes when it says companion or spouse. Companion could be man or woman. Spouse could be man or woman. But men prefer female fairs
Stupid Scholars are freaking human!!!!!!!!! Human make mistake. Scholars not GOD. In quran says plural for everything. God In quran always says THEY not HE. Stupid people
where is in the surah or alquran says in jannah HARAM for women wanting many husband. In this world is prohibit women have more than 1 husband. But my question is about Jannah where is the surah in the al quran says HARAM for women wanting many partners in jannah????????????????????????????????????
IN this world is prohibit men wearing gold but how come in jannah man will get gold and mansion??? In this world men only marry up to 4 wives, how come is hallal to marrry thousands women in jannah. In this world women have to cover them selves so u think in heaven women have to wear hijab also???
My point is u cant compare WORLD and JANNAH. World is the test for human being, Jannah is the rewards for all pious mankind (humans, people, man or women) and Jinn who pass the trial or test from god.
I dont want to talk on this topic more .lot has already been discussed . any way the point is very clear mr james very easy and simple . women r not allowed to marry more than one man is that clear answers is yes now the question is will she be allowed more than one man in jannah? answer is its not mention in quran or any hadees that she will have more husbands.
now what i am saying is who am i or u to make assumptions if she will get more men or not ?
according to hadees men will get more than one its crystal clear but no where mention for women.
so why dont we stick with the information we have.
you should be very careful when u comment about scholars ,they r the people who had spend there lives for gaining knowledge when they say some thing they have the supporting s from quran and hadees, i m sorry to say u have no authority to judge any one .if he says something what u like than he is good and when he say something u dont like he is idiot? all u know about this topic of hoors is a 10 min talk of dr zakir naik one million times u had posted the hur hawra theory thats all,
i am a very big fan of dr zakir naik i listen all his talks i have hardly missed any one i rate him as the best scholar around these days.but i m not one of those people who when start liking any scholar than close there eyes and believe what every they say. on this issue his answer is very very weak he has not a single hadees to support what he said normally he gives so many hadees as reference but this time none .
its better to take the view of other scholars as well and judge it according to what proof they can give from quran and hadees ,
mr james u r totally confused regarding this concept some times u say both men and women will have many sexual partners according to there desires some time u say the hurs will be just servants no sexual relation …….. what r u saying dude u seriously need some guidance . u dont like the translations of quran and hadees……….u want translation according to ur own desire..
the only good thing i like about u is that u really care about women thats really nice .u want justice for them and i agree 100% on this ,but i have no tension about this because i know that alllah can never be unjust ,but his justice is beyond our limited thinking my sweet brother.he is our creator he can please us in millions and trillions of other ways despite of sex .so plz dont worry to much about that
why is it damn anynomous so FKG worry about what women want in jannah. u so god damn worry so much is women wanting many husband for their innerselve desire. No body worry about u having thousand wives. What or why is it make u so damn worry what women want????????????????????????? Its already clear god will give rewards ttheir inner selves desire to any men or women whos going to jannah . Even u believe so damn strong about women get sharing husband or ur wives will adore u and sharing u with other wives , go ahead believe it but god not one eye. why or what is it make u so damn worry if ur wife desire or ur girlfriend desire wanting many husband not only u?????
Oh my GOD!! definitely god will eliminate ur jeolousy. U said women are jeolous , LOOK AT U? u jeolaus to all women in this world to get what they want . woooooww. WOmen do not worry what u want but why is it u worry what they want MY GOD
Mr. anynomous
When I read all the comment about james , you said that james disrespect scholars. When I read james comment I didn’t see or read that he disrespect scholars. All he says that scholars are humans. There is nothing wrong or disrespect to call scholars are humans. Scholar are human not Jinn not animal or not god. Human is true make mistake because humans are not god. Brother james makes a good point about where is in paradise in the quran says women wanting many wives is haram. I am a muslim woman, and I don’t look in the quran says haram for women wanting many husband in jannah. Its already clear in the quran god says god will be given any reward innerselve desire to all pious muslim men and women. Mr anynomous you can not compare the world to jannah. In this world men can not wear gold and silk, but in jannah men able to wear those things. So women in this world can not have more than 1 husband, your perspective is in jannah the same thing? Nothing in the quran says haram for women wanting many handsome men in jannah. I am muslim women, I ve been divorce 4 times because of my desire. My first husband couldn’t handle my sexual desire. He could not serve me in sex anytime I want it. I wanted have sex everyday but he could not do it everyday. The reason people getting marry is number once is sex than comes to sharing thought and ect,,,
We both worked full times job but ive never get tired when it come about sex. I had to beg my husband many time to have sex every single day but he keeps calling me crazy. The first time I met him, he talks so much about men desire about sex more than women. He is very handsome man and also im beautiful woman. Many guys wanted to marry me but I picked him since he s the most good looking one. He asked me to marry him and i said I do to him, since i know hes very handsome and specially when he talks about his desire about sex is very strong, i was so happy to pick him as my husband. Ironically, we got married but whatever he said about his sex desire are very strong totally are the other way around. He couldn’t serve me in bed everyday. I really wanted have sex everyday but he kept calling me crazy. Because he couldn’t do it everyday. I have to do masturbate anytime if he couldn’t do it. I keep thinking to myself i have to ended this marriage. In my head what marriage is for if i cant get happiness in sex. I hate the most when he called me crazy because im muslim women should not be asking men sex a lot. I asked him a divorce but he got soo furious and almost kill me. My brother help me and we hired a lawyer. Finally we got divorce in Islamic way. I got marry again and this time i didn’t pick handsome one. My marriage is the same thing like the first one. But this time i only marry in Islamic way not in the LAW. We got divorce. Im marry third guy in Islamic way again but the same thing. At the third guy i had cheated on him with other man since he could not serve me enough in sex. I feel guilty but i couldn’t handle my desire. I keep thinking in my head, man are lucky that they could marry upto 4 wives so me have to cheat behind my husbands for my full pleasure. Finally i caught me cheating with other man, they both ended up fighting.
I finally asking divorce to my husband and he hit me. He said he will kill me if he sees me with other men. I had to ask my brother to help me again LOL ( i love my brother so much, he always be there for me ). My brother keeps telling me that he rather sees me married and get divorce if im not satisfied than doing adultery. So i married the fourth guy which is very handsome also. This time my brother told my fourth husband that ive been marry 4 times, so he must serve me well for everything. LOL.
Ive told my forth husband about my sex desire and about how many times i cheated on my previous husband. He got so scare that i will be cheating on him, so all the time i asked for sex, thank to Allah he serve me so well. Everytime we go out many women looking at him because hes so hot but I didn’t get jealous at all, im proud of having good looking husband. But when men are looking at me , he sooo jealous and get mad at those guys specially when those guys were came to me and asking my number. LOL
So this message for Mr anynomous, you are not god to tell what women desire. You are not god that women have less desire to men. If I ever gone to jannah, I said if I ever, maybe you mr anynomous will say there is no way woman like me ever gone to jannah, If I ever gone to jannah, off course I will be so please and happy to reward many handsome husbands in jannah. There is nothing in quran is haram for women wanting many hot guys for their husbands in jannah.
Im not the only women in this world who has very strong desire. there are more of them just like me. So you cant say not that many women have strong desire. your are not god that can judge what women want or don’t want
All of women keep talking and hating when men said we have less desire. The same thing that men hate to be call gay. Any where In the internet always says men and men and men have strong desire. We as women just laugh about it. We just ignores who ever says that women have less desire. We think that they are just dumb stupid people. I hope there are masturbating competition between men and women, than you will open your stupid eyes. It is true when women masturbate, we can last hours without stopping unless our finger get so tired. But men when masturbating once your sperms out that’s it your are done and if you wanting more you have to wait for 15 minuters or less or more to make your thing goes up again. We, women, we can come as much as we want. Some women can come up to 30 times, some less or even more non stop. I don’t exaggerate the reality cuz iam a woman myself. There are women who do not do masturbate also there are men who do not do masturbate at all. I cant not say how many percent of men or women do not do masturbate cuz we cant guess it cuz by listening other people talk. That’s way in islam we always says Only Allah knows the best, Only Allah knows all allah creation.
OH MASHA ALLAH…. I cant wait for MUSLIMAH whos been married 4 times to respond ur fucking idea about women less desire and too god damn jealous.
Assalamualaikhm, all sisters and brothers I had read all the blog and a also few comments. Its right what women’s will get..just jelousyjealousy..first of all Allah already told us that in jannah u will get wtever u want if husband don’t want hoors he will not get if wife don’t wish to have sex with other mens their wishes will b full filled. Allah also said that hopes are staying at her own place so if husband don’t wanna go there its his wish. And girl’s surrounding their throne are servant. And I noticed all the negative comments are from women’s. I felt that they are facing hardship. In their. Life bcoz 100% sure their husband is not panctual at five times salah he has shaved beard. And please sisters don’t blame allah he already told us everything if u want easy life keep prayers and have faith in Allah.have you not thought of about a women who has a nonbeliever husband and he died at shirk wet she will get Allah knows best Allah also mentioned that jannah is a place that no one knows his all blessings and gifts have faith in allah .end time is near then u thought.
If I had a man and he did that I would leave him there and never want to see his face. In this life, ok there are shortages, they end up doing that. But no shortages will be in heaven. Ass holes in here and there as well.
After listening to this bulshit, i never want a man. Not in this life or niether in heaven. They are saying that women want many other things in life. But all man will want is loads and loads of sex all the time. For this reason he will have loads of women on top of his wife. So I never ever want a man. And I will advise all the women not to want a man ever because he is dirty who wants sex all the time. When she will be out some where. He won’t be able to control because he is going to be sexual animal. I hate you so much. I will ask god to give women a seperate planet to be saved from these animals.
o my god u r so angry with men nasira, actually u should think who has created us like that we r not the one who created our own sexual desire the fact is allah has created us like that , look men never asked allah to create these hoors for him in janah but allah already promised him y? because he knows the best what a man would want cuz he has created us.so plz dont criticize men for this .
Allah has created men with a strong sexual desire and there r so many reasons behind that if u think,in fact this desire of men is blessing for women , because of that desire man is forced to get married other wise if he dont have a very strong sexual desire why would he want to get married and put extra burden of his wife and responsibility of kids why? he can enjoy his life good when he is independent and alone.
these days if we analyse our society marriage is a big issue for girls, a huge huge huge number of girls r looking for there husbands but finding it difficult to find the right men actually girls suffer more than men if they dont get married may be girls have many other reasons to get married but for men the biggest reason is his desire may be it sounds a bit evil or as u said like animal but u like it or not that is a bitter reality.
i know when ever the females came to know that men become very happy when they read about the hoors and there beauty and they will get huge number of them in jannah ,it makes them a bit jealous or they dont like that idea that men will be be not satisfied with one ,so they think like what u think i can understand .
but dont worry the evils like jealousy and many others will be eliminated in jannah so u will be happy and dont hate men actually we r bad but not that bad . i hope u understand the concept better now.
Women are oppressed, by people around them there sexuality is oppressed. Men are encouraged to show their feelings and but women are encouraged to hide them. Look at white women they have high sex drives and are crazy. I tell you one thing men, don’t guess women. I am a Muslim woman and a am same as a man when it comes to desires. I am a crazy women but not anymore. I prove men wrong.i see loads of oppressed mad women around. I know women. And you men and people oppress them. In real women have even higher sexual desire. Men you are dumbbells and you used treat them bad and are treating them bad so you deserve to be treated and abused by women as well. So look at them and suffer. I am no less than a man. Nasty men.
where is the surah says ALLAH created men with a strong sexual desire not women????????????????????????????? Give me the surah please from al quran not hadist cuz is hard to find authentic hadist. Remember evil iblis cant change the alquran but hadist could. THe translation also can be wrong, since the al quran is old arabic words, human can mistranslation the quran. It the same thing when people always say God created more women than men. GIve me the surah says that Allah says I created more women than men cuz they can marry up to 4 wives??
About In jannah only women jelousy will be eliminated,,, give me the surah please!!! so u translated in about jeolusy u mean WOMEN??? OMG so WE as MEN never get jelous at all WOW. smart dumb idea
where is the surah says ALLAH created men with a strong sexual desire not women????????????????????????????? Give me the surah please from al quran not hadist cuz is hard to find authentic hadist. Remember evil iblis cant change the alquran but hadist could. THe translation also can be wrong, since the al quran is old arabic words, human can mistranslation the quran. It the same thing when people always say God created more women than men. GIve me the surah says that Allah says I created more women than men cuz they can marry up to 4 wives??
About In jannah only women jelousy will be eliminated,,, give me the surah please!!! so u translated in about jeolusy u mean WOMEN??? OMG so WE as MEN never get jelous at all WOW. smart dumb idea
what do u mean we r bad but not that bad. So u r type of the person proud to be call playboy, bad boy. Sorry man im not bad n dont want to be called bad. Proud u wish to be a handsome playboy. wkakkakakakakaaka. Im very handsome sorry to say that but i just one to keep my girlfriend and marry her. U think so much to b playboy wkakakakkakaka
I hope to ALLAH u will get a player muslim woman or wife who will hurt u and cheat on u to another men then u will open ur eyes. If u have a wife or wives i hope to god they will leave u for another men AMIN ya rabbal alamin. Insha allah, allah will listen my prayer
hey anynomous you are just ” an empty can sound louder” You think if your sexual desire very strong I bet in the bed your thing will be soft as cheez in 5 minutes just like my ex husband who sound just like you “an empty can sound louder”.
Mr. anynomous
When I read all the comment about james , you said that james disrespect scholars. When I read james comment I didn’t see or read that he disrespect scholars. All he says that scholars are humans. There is nothing wrong or disrespect to call scholars are humans. Scholar are human not Jinn not animal or not god. Human is true make mistake because humans are not god. Brother james makes a good point about where is in paradise in the quran says women wanting many wives is haram. I am a muslim woman, and I don’t look in the quran says haram for women wanting many husband in jannah. Its already clear in the quran god says god will be given any reward innerselve desire to all pious muslim men and women. Mr anynomous you can not compare the world to jannah. In this world men can not wear gold and silk, but in jannah men able to wear those things. So women in this world can not have more than 1 husband, your perspective is in jannah the same thing? Nothing in the quran says haram for women wanting many handsome men in jannah. I am muslim women, I ve been divorce 4 times because of my desire. My first husband couldn’t handle my sexual desire. He could not serve me in sex anytime I want it. I wanted have sex everyday but he could not do it everyday. The reason people getting marry is number once is sex than comes to sharing thought and ect,,,
We both worked full times job but ive never get tired when it come about sex. I had to beg my husband many time to have sex every single day but he keeps calling me crazy. The first time I met him, he talks so much about men desire about sex more than women. He is very handsome man and also im beautiful woman. Many guys wanted to marry me but I picked him since he s the most good looking one. He asked me to marry him and i said I do to him, since i know hes very handsome and specially when he talks about his desire about sex is very strong, i was so happy to pick him as my husband. Ironically, we got married but whatever he said about his sex desire are very strong totally are the other way around. He couldn’t serve me in bed everyday. I really wanted have sex everyday but he kept calling me crazy. Because he couldn’t do it everyday. I have to do masturbate anytime if he couldn’t do it. I keep thinking to myself i have to ended this marriage. In my head what marriage is for if i cant get happiness in sex. I hate the most when he called me crazy because im muslim women should not be asking men sex a lot. I asked him a divorce but he got soo furious and almost kill me. My brother help me and we hired a lawyer. Finally we got divorce in Islamic way. I got marry again and this time i didn’t pick handsome one. My marriage is the same thing like the first one. But this time i only marry in Islamic way not in the LAW. We got divorce. Im marry third guy in Islamic way again but the same thing. At the third guy i had cheated on him with other man since he could not serve me enough in sex. I feel guilty but i couldn’t handle my desire. I keep thinking in my head, man are lucky that they could marry upto 4 wives so me have to cheat behind my husbands for my full pleasure. Finally i caught me cheating with other man, they both ended up fighting.
I finally asking divorce to my husband and he hit me. He said he will kill me if he sees me with other men. I had to ask my brother to help me again LOL ( i love my brother so much, he always be there for me ). My brother keeps telling me that he rather sees me married and get divorce if im not satisfied than doing adultery. So i married the fourth guy which is very handsome also. This time my brother told my fourth husband that ive been marry 4 times, so he must serve me well for everything. LOL.
Ive told my forth husband about my sex desire and about how many times i cheated on my previous husband. He got so scare that i will be cheating on him, so all the time i asked for sex, thank to Allah he serve me so well. Everytime we go out many women looking at him because hes so hot but I didn’t get jealous at all, im proud of having good looking husband. But when men are looking at me , he sooo jealous and get mad at those guys specially when those guys were came to me and asking my number. LOL
So this message for Mr anynomous, you are not god to tell what women desire. You are not god that women have less desire to men. If I ever gone to jannah, I said if I ever, maybe you mr anynomous will say there is no way woman like me ever gone to jannah, If I ever gone to jannah, off course I will be so please and happy to reward many handsome husbands in jannah. There is nothing in quran is haram for women wanting many hot guys for their husbands in jannah.
Im not the only women in this world who has very strong desire. there are more of them just like me. So you cant say not that many women have strong desire. your are not god that can judge what women want or don’t want
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muslimah says:
September 22, 2013 at 12:47 am
All of women keep talking and hating when men said we have less desire. The same thing that men hate to be call gay. Any where In the internet always says men and men and men have strong desire. We as women just laugh about it. We just ignores who ever says that women have less desire. We think that they are just dumb stupid people. I hope there are masturbating competition between men and women, than you will open your stupid eyes. It is true when women masturbate, we can last hours without stopping unless our finger get so tired. But men when masturbating once your sperms out that’s it your are done and if you wanting more you have to wait for 15 minuters or less or more to make your thing goes up again. We, women, we can come as much as we want. Some women can come up to 30 times, some less or even more non stop. I don’t exaggerate the reality cuz iam a woman myself. There are women who do not do masturbate also there are men who do not do masturbate at all. I cant not say how many percent of men or women do not do masturbate cuz we cant guess it cuz by listening other people talk. That’s way in islam we always says Only Allah knows the best, Only Allah knows all allah creation.
wow mr anynomous you said that only women get jealous ?
“A women may be misinformed, mislead, unclear, misguided, and even downright stupid..but she is never ever wrong”
i think that’s enough hahaha
Mr anunymous
“A man may be misinformed, mislead, unclear, misguided, and even downright stupid too but he is never ever wrong”
I think tha’s enough hahha
I dont blame men to have strong desire but you cant also blame women like me to have strong desire. I bet you will blame allah because in your head only men have strong desire period
Your religion is bullshit. Nasira is right, stop harassing her. Truth will finally prevail, thank you, Jesus.
Nasira listen not all men wanting loads of sex. Neither the other anynomous guy who loves his wife only, Im not loads of sex all the time. I have a girlfriend for 4 years. Look not all men like the stupid other anynomous who hates the idea of women wanting many men wakakakkakaakkaka. My males friends also never cheated on their wives and hates the idea about men hurting other women. Men think all women just stick and love 1 man only that is not true. Look my female friends changing boyfriends many times. They cant stand not to look other handsome men. wakkakakaakakakaka. I respect my female friends so much.
What a nonsense
This is not a nonsense. This is going to happen in Jannah inshaa Allah.
If somebody said, there will be tall, dark, wide, large men for them. They will have broad chest, dark big eyes, strong arms, without ghairah. Etc. You will become furious, and grudge like a lion. How dare you say that. So how could you talk about women in so detail. That shows how inferior these men think of women. She is only junior because he protects her. Not to prove that he is of higher status.
Men and sex go togather. There is no women. Muslim men should be gay. He will get loads of women. And this is how he will do it. Somebody asked about women. Oh my ghairah has waked up. Stop talking and talk about something else. Yeh but it is hard for her to get even 1.
Why Muslim men talk about other women so openly and make dirty jokes and everything. And when it comes to their women, neither she can even think about it and neither somebody else because man’s ghairat wakes up. Man has reduced women to His ghairat. they say strange men are dangerous for women. No her own father and brother are even more dangerous for her. They can do anything, but she is reduced to ghairat. Man is so unshameful, and the same man would talk about shame when it comes to women. Muslims talk openly about a man sexuality and say we are shy when it comes to women. That’s man cheating because in real you can’t talk about even a man. Qur’an and hadees does not talk about sex openly. There is just brief and basic guidance about important parts.so ghairat is for men as well. Muslim men make claims how good they are comparative to others but they are full of ghairat not for themselves but thier women. That is the problem of our society. They do need to put right. What would they say about others.
I read Qur’an in Arabic and wrong meaning has been taken out of zoj, azwaj, hoor ul maqsoorat, qasirat al turfe azwaj means partener, qasirat ul turfe means both men and women. Sentences are in plural. Every thing comes in pairs, hoors don’t come in pairs that’s strange. Do you understand Arabic who wrote this above. I did research. maqsoorat is plural. Qur’an is talking to them not he. God is not one eyed. Mohammad is just not biased. So wrong meaning there. Qur’an is unaltered but there are many tafseers by many alims. These are alims predicted by Mohammad. It does sound ridiculous talking about these thing. He would not talk about nonsense stuff. He was very polite.
Oh there will be more women in hell. Cause they are innocent young girls and not raised up. Ok mature people have found truth so abuse young naive ones oh you are stupid. I have not seen many good men in my life. They are all wild abusive. There is nothing in them even close to humanity. Look what men are doing around world. They can do anything in the world. But stupid, bad women little silly things will take them all to hell. Westerners and youngsters live in a different world. They need time. The one who know it now lets swear and destroy there lives. Cause world is suppose to be so perfect. Babies will know as they are with gold spoon. Older ones who claim to know are so miserable how young naive ones will know.
Don’t say they turn into them, boys from young age do your heading. Young boys at streets and everywhere talk such nonsense and do things that are 100 times worse than anything. Oh I am a man. And can’t see it. I have seen boys and girls in both cultures. I would not say girls are perfect. But I cannot count what nasty things boys get up to which involve girls or not. They are a pain in the nose. So boys are worse then girls specially Asian society. Girls don’t even get to speak and are oppressed in every possible way. This could be a wrong statement. Ok women do some bad things in there own ways. But don’t exceed men. Men go over the limit.
I have one question,
Umm Salama (ra) was wife of a muslim “Abdullah ibn Abdul Asad” and then prophet Muhammad (pbuh).
Sawda bint Zam’a (ra) was wife of a muslim “As-Sakran bin Amr” and then prophet Muhammad (pbuh).
who will these mothers of believers sleep with in paradise if they loved all equally??
I love concept of ALLAH (one GOD) and believe in it but its very hard to accept prophet Muhammad (pbuh) when thinking of him sleeping with 11 different women in each nights.
please help!!!
I don’t think he slept with them. He married them when he was 50 years old widows. In those days, life was not like modern life. Life only changed nearly hundred years ago. Poor countries are still in crisis.he was a responsible man for society. So he gave them asylm. Look at society how many people are having lovely love lives not many. People stay with their parteners for many other reasons. Especially old people it is not about sex anymore. It is about having someone around. Young people runaway from their spouses, forget old people.
I strongly doubt he slept with them. He was a liberator for ALL of women, mankind, the one who taught humans how to be humans.
Aside from one of his wives, he married the rest of his wives as widows, for a woman with a husband was much better far off, than a woman who did not have the love, support and protection that one has, when their respective partners passes away.
He was the best of man. Best of Allah’s creation.
“The best of man is determined by his character. The best of men with character, are one’s who are the best to their wives after they’ve married them”.
HE was easily the best husband. He was no doubtly offered the best women (in terms of beauty) from all the tribes during that time (which accepted Islam), but there was a reason he chose widows and women who could not support themselves.
Muhammad (PBUH) is greatest of creation.
May Allah give us the ability to mimic his actions to best of our capability. Insha Allah.
Having extra women is in hadith not Qur’an. Hadith is not 100% relieable. In Qur’an every sentence is in plural not singular. So it means both. Islam’s all focus is on poor people. Poverty is not just having no money. It is about anything a human don’t have. Women are more helpless than men. There be bad men and women. Prophet pbuh was shy. So he has talked about men because he was a man himself. Uneducated women gossip cause they have nothing to talk about. A lot women who show off they be naive, no one has taught them. They are not aware what they are doing. I think that’s what annoys men. Give them reasonable education and training first then you can talk into it. Not just swearing,hitting and abusing.
Are you sure ? Would you like to read and understand Surah Ar-Rahman and it’s glorious verses, and then beg to differ ?
What do you mean? You mean one man will have countless women and these women will not even find out. And each of these women will have only him. Four wives are not allowed to men so they could choose four young beautiful wives and do ayashi. You should mary pious and less beatiful women then you earn rewards. Todays man boasts about having four so loud and openly without shame.and if his daughter or sister is even wrongfully doubted or acussed or even she thinks about it he tortures her to death or even kills her without giving them knowledge or training. Arab men have 30 or fourty wives and they are old ugly themselves no offence but they have made a exceptional rule a normal practice as a passport to ayashi and cousin marriage as well. Which is only allowed in a rare case if cousins like each other. But cousin marriage has become a rule of society. I don’t know how girls can sleep with their uncle’s and auntie’s sons. That’s why men get it and women be dead shy. And give birth to wild extremist generations. Muslims are cruel and extremist which I did not accept before but may be all human used to be or someway. Some humans have changed. Or they take wrong meaning or are ignorant of Islam or worldly knowledge. They just don’t give second thought to anyone
Could I actually have sexual intercourse put my organs inside her
i hate sex. it is wierd. everybody gets ashamed of it. there are a lot of other things humen do e.g singing, dancing, clothes, food. things, activites, talk. just having a companion to be with is good. nothing is wierd and shameful than sex. i am not sure if quran talks about sex in heaven, it talks about beautiful men and women. if she has got beautiful lips why you need to suck them if you see something beautiful in shop, there are mny things beautiful do you start licking, kissing,hugging, sucking, touching it. let’s say you saw beautiful clothes, shoes etc will you do this to those clothes, shoes etc. you will just look at them, praise them have them. think seriously about it. how normal does it look. very few people get good sex in life. love does not has to be physical. it could be many other things. i would want a beautiful companion to be with and forget about dirty lust. love and respect is enough for me.
Nice put up Shazia. But Allah made couples of everything. And this will apply in heaven. And that is true sex satisfaction is absent in todays world. Good sex is dream, everyone is feeling half. And yes, there many other manifestations of life where love can be poured. But the biggest of joy is sex, which avaibale in shadi. Shadi means khushi. But marriages of world are compromised.
I disagree you would have to choose love and forget lust.couples are there for company and many other things. Sex is one of the negative side of life. It is there to give birth to children. You like it only on this world. Sexual parts look wierd on body people hide it or are ashamed of it. It can’t be public. Why have something you are ashamed of. There will be no toilets in heaven. And no sexual organs. Their look wierd on body. Without them looks real. You can love the rest of body and get the satisfaction. Imagine a man going naked on a road.it is too funny. A gun hanging dirty game
Biggest joy is beauty and brain. Worst part is gun sex. You can love the body and be happy. Body is beautyful not sexual organs, they are ugly. I sex is build up into human nature. But in heaven it would be beautiful people, not the guns.
I love sex so much shazia. THts why ive been married 4 times now. No I prefer the men to be handsome and beautiful and have strong desire cuz i need those men. Most of the time they just talk even thou they dont have any strong desire
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Men don’t have a harder life then women in this life. Problem is people give their opinions without complete knowledge. Women give birth to children. Men fight in the battle field. They get wounded or killed.they both go through different trials. There be cruel men and women then their be good ones. All of them can’t be good. People complain too much why this and why that and forget it is not heaven yet we are going through good and painful situation pain makes us a better human being. Men and women will get all other things equally then why one exceeds having parteners. Some people think only men will own properties in heaven. People are used to life in this world. Women will have properties as well. It will be no more trials. It will be heaven where every thing will be possible. Restrict rules are for this life. Heaven is unlimited it is not like limited earth. More restrictions for women in this world because she gives up her basic duties and starts competing men. Young girls don’t understand automatically if they are not explained or live in western world. They be naive feel beliitled. It is mans fault too he belittles her not appreciating or explaining. It could take bit of time for her to understand. He says who does that housework and compares it to nothing and bes very harsh. He works to get things and a place. And she works to produce children and family. They share every thing. Not just keep to themselves. If they are un willing to share then it is a problem. But life is full of hundreds of problems which you have to solve. She would complain.it is only her who goes through pain but what about wounds and death which he gets in the battlefield.
Mohammad had only one wife till he became widowed. He was a virgin who married a widow with kids. So when he was widow Allah allowed him to marry a virgin. Some men stay younger for a longer time. It says in the Qur’an that don’t be scared of getting married. Get married once, if it does not work then, second time, if it does not work again, third time if not fourth time. In exceptional cases you can keep both as if they have nowhere to go. Some people keep getting married and their marriages don’t work and they say never now. Having more than one wife is only in exceptional cases. Not for pleasure. If it was so then why he stayed with a older widow all of his life till he became widow..people have made wrong tafseer of verses
I think extra hoor means after getting married once. You will have a option of body samples in a market. As you will live for ever so you will be bored of looking just same for ever.
Men in this world have more capability then women for some reasons. But not in jannat. There both will have same capability. Allah will marry them once after that they will go to this market with different body samples. If they want to look like that they will be transformed into it by will of Allah as many times, any how they want to. no need for 72 or more virgins.
There will be no extra women for men.men and women will be able to change their looks as many times and any how. So no need for extra virgins
Ur understanding is very wrong sorry to say, plz correct ur knowledge, u simply cannot make assumptions based on ur own personal values as to what is allowed and what is meant by which ayah and hadith.
Men will be given many wifes in jannah, and men can marry more then 1 even in this world just for pleasure.
there is no ayah or hadith forbidding this, and this is how Allah created men different then women.
God created ADAM and EVE, not ADAM and eve, sandra, salimah, fatimah, carol, or veronica. Adam and eve already in Jannah first before they went down to earth. Just because men can marry more than 1 wife in this world means they can also get many wives in jannah. So the women being polygamy in this world by their husband the rewards waiting for pious women is being polygamy also?? Dang you are just so stupid thinking about unfair jannah for yourself. THere is no ayah or hadist says probidden for a woman getting many partners or husbands in jannah. Where is the surah says probidden for a woman wanting many husbands in jannah
Where is the ayah in the quran says allah (I) created men different then women on sex. Where?
Islam is a religion of just, and so is God. Jannah is a place of reward for all. It is not the same anymore in accordance to worldly restrictions. Hoor /multiple husbands are also rewards for women/jinns etc. There can be no oppression by a true God. Look up in the youtube by dr zakir naik when woman asking what women get in jannah.
Basically sister the translators specially the Urdu translators have interpreted the word “Hoor” as beautiful maiden. Actually the word “Hoor” is a plural for both “Ahwar” which is applicable to the man and “Hawar” which is applicable to the women. And “Hawar” means ‘big, white beautiful eye” and it specially describes the whiteness of eye. . And it is rightly translated by ‘Abdullah Yusuf Ali’ that hoor means ‘companion’. Therefore “Hoor” actually means a ‘companion’ or a ‘spouse’’ It has no gender. Thus on paradise women will get a good man with big beautiful eyes. And man will get a good lady with big beautiful eyes.
What Zakir Naik meant is in Paradise, every male and female will be with their companion with “big, beautiful eyes”. And their companion is their own worldly spouse with whom they will be united. In other words, people in Jannah will have attributes of beautiful eyes. Bear in mind that Houri, the special creations of Paradise are the servants of the dwellings of Paradise, nothing to do with sexual partner of men or women. The servants of Paradise will be both male and female.
Paradise is a place of justice, and those misunderstandings should simply be avoided.
Just believe firmly in your heart that – it is simply IMPOSSIBLE that Allah is not just to the women in Paradise…all will be equal. (Those explanation to justify the men’s need only is ridiculous. That is a mere brainwash)
Check again all those verses and hadiths — they are man-made explanation included in brackets to arrive to what they desire. Do not believe them — The Quranic word itself NEVER says about (fair maiden or female etc)- those always come in brackets by men!
where is in the quran says men can marry more than 1 wife for PLEASURE?? Give me the surah
men and women created nothing different. We both created from dirt. We have different appearence but nothing different about sexual desire
If u think all created men different desire than women, why god only created adam and eve not adam, eve, sandra, fatimah, julia??? if u think women have less desire and women jealous, why is it in africa they circumsize the women cuz the men dont want their wive cheating on them? they circumsize the women becuz they know men and women have the same desire.
Sajid, you are wrong. Men want many women in general. But due to the sex ratio there is not more than 1.2 woman per man in any country. So generally men don’t try to get more women due to the scarcity of women in this world and men can marry up to only 4 women. And another reason is all men are not wealthy enough to maintain their wives’ expenses. But the hidden desire of men is to marry many women(more than 74 women).
I would please want to ask you why it is said in the very beginning that they are “HAIRLESS” Their combs will be of gold so if they have no hair what will they comb? their husband’s hair ??? of course they have hair and i would like to know if it is true that it is of gold or black! THANKS
They will have hair on their scalp and a brain too which many people don’t have. They won’t have body hair. Do you love waxing, shaving.
I think she meant that it is very difficult, based on jealousy that will inchallah vanish in Jennah, to hear about these things on earth. In Jennah, it will not be that difficult inchallah, but here, you only want somebody to love just you, and in Paradise you must ALSO have other women sharing your husband. It is not a problem, but disturbing, based on female jealousy, nothing else. And we are both Muslims. The problem is that it is a lot of focus on the women in PAradise and how they look and the big reward for the men, instead of focusing on what the women will have. Very few hadiths are for women only about Jennah and what they will have, except beauty. What will be their reward that the husbands don’t have or will there not be any other things, because beauty is something a man also will have, and also houses and gardens and combs etc.
What will women have that the men won’t have that is different from the men (as the men will have what they desire the most – women) and I am not talking about houses, food, etc because that is something they will share with men as reward?
THIS IS A PROBLEM! no way em letting any other woman get my husband.no wayyyyyyy…
A man gets more jealous if his wife even looks or talk to another man. So why can’t a woman get jealous. Making men greedy by giving them bunches of women, is not sense. A proper man will want a proper woman she could be verstyle. A man who wants lot of women, and says each of them will only have him is an idiot. Men be bonkers too, not only women.
(An) you have made it clear that you are really in love with hoor al any and you will attack any one who disagrees with you or simply state their opinion. You cant declare anyone kaffir unless they disbelieve in allah and that Mohammed is his messenger, and what you have said equally applies to you so be careful of your words that you tell others. What haleema has said in short reflects the opinion of most muslim women and she’s really just saying the truth either you like it or not. It is a fact no one likes to hear that their partner is gonna get someone else to love him/her, further more talk about the unequal beauty of them and their constant love that will never finish or get bored, I don’t think any man likes hearing that, well very similarly women have the same feeling. Of course there comes along the visual aspect of the hadiths that have been mentioned like “pleasuring vagina” “round pointy breasts” and other things that are mentioned very obviously directed for the appeasement of the male audience. Saying that muslim women will be more beautiful does not in no way equates the reward of getting 72 extraordinary beautiful virgin girls that constantly love muslim men, let me make it easy to understand, its like giving you the newest/coolest/most advanced and beautiful car and then taking out all the wheels whats the use of it you cant drive it any where it does not matter that it has all of the previously mentioned aspects, thats the position of muslim women. Whats the use of the beauty of you still have to share your husband with 72 other women?!! FOR THOSE WHO STILL DONT UNDERSTAND LET ME EXPLAIN AGAIN. Lets make a list of things muslim men and women get in heaven, women: mansion, beauty, servants, gardens……..men: mansion, beauty, servants, garden, HOOR AL AYN, so there is something muslim men are getting that muslim women are not although they both have equally earned the right of getting into heaven. Some may say that women may get something else in return but in reality there no indication in quraan or hadith that says that, just an opinion made by religious men in a desperate attempt to keep women quiet and not asking any questions relating to this subject. You can hate me as much as you want for saying this but its the truth.
sister..i try n avoid looking into this subject..cos i get vey confused???i have got a hard life with my husband on this earth.now on top of that he will gain uncountable houris in after life,were does that leave me….who am i?is it worth fighting for his love and affection in this life?or do i put my mind at ease say i am not the one to own or have anything,Allah is the creator He is the One who has power over everthing.shall i give up hope and stop fighting with my husband for his love as my husband is lazy and doesnt communicate much anyway(al this wanting from him causing me to become more of a sinner).i think from now on i ll do things for my husband not for his happiness but to please Allah.cos it seems everyones out for them selves so why fight and argue for someone who is not going to be urs but someone elses.next time i confront my husband i shall tell him that .my motto from now live for Allah die for Allah..everyones for them selves
plz reply someone
Look the truth about hur by Actually the word “Hoor” is a plural for both “Ahwar” which is applicable to the man and “Hawar” which is applicable to the women. And “Hawar” means ‘big, white beautiful eye” and it specially describes the whiteness of eye. . And it is rightly translated by ‘Abdullah Yusuf Ali’ that hoor means ‘companion’. Therefore “Hoor” actually means a ‘companion’ or a ‘spouse’’ It has no gender. Thus on paradise women will get a good man with big beautiful eyes. And man will get a good lady with big beautiful eyes. Look up on you tube what women get in jannah by Dr. zakir naik
I also got this one very important to read for selfish muslim men
What Zakir Naik meant is in Paradise, every male and female will be with their companion with “big, beautiful eyes”. And their companion is their own worldly spouse with whom they will be united. In other words, people in Jannah will have attributes of beautiful eyes. Bear in mind that Houri, the special creations of Paradise are the servants of the dwellings of Paradise, nothing to do with sexual partner of men or women. The servants of Paradise will be both male and female.
Paradise is a place of justice, and those misunderstandings should simply be avoided.
Just believe firmly in your heart that – it is simply IMPOSSIBLE that Allah is not just to the women in Paradise…all will be equal. (Those explanation to justify the men’s need only is ridiculous. That is a mere brainwash)
Check again all those verses and hadiths — they are man-made explanation included in brackets to arrive to what they desire. Do not believe them — The Quranic word itself NEVER says about (fair maiden or female etc)- those always come in brackets by men!
who said tht a man who is a sinner will get jannah and hoors??? hoors are perfect and best partners for both man and women and we all muslim (if serve in this world according to the teachings of ALLAH )will get jannah and hoors…plzz dnt mess up ur mind all muslim women by thinking tht allah will just grant hoors and all good things for men…allah have plan best for u all women,…just obey allah and do watever quran tells u ,u will surely get want u deserve
Male and female are different creatures. Two genders are created differently. Their desires are different. When a man sees a woman, certainly he feels some kind of sexual excitement but women don’t have that sexual excitement watching any man. Even if men don’t see any women, men become excited many times a day. But women don’t even become excited sexually even in a month. So women don’t need more than 1 sex partner. But if they have many men, women will not use those men to have sex as frequently as men would have sex having many women.
ami i replied to ur answer
sofi hur in is could be man or woman. It has no gender. Hur in means companion, partner, spouse. Just a man put female fair as hur in brackets. Doesnt mean true. I could put hur in in bracket what ever i want since im a guy. Or if the woman translate it to hur , she can put male fair for hur in.
Look the truth about hur by Actually the word “Hoor” is a plural for both “Ahwar” which is applicable to the man and “Hawar” which is applicable to the women. And “Hawar” means ‘big, white beautiful eye” and it specially describes the whiteness of eye. . And it is rightly translated by ‘Abdullah Yusuf Ali’ that hoor means ‘companion’. Therefore “Hoor” actually means a ‘companion’ or a ‘spouse’’ It has no gender. Thus on paradise women will get a good man with big beautiful eyes. And man will get a good lady with big beautiful eyes. Look up on you tube what women get in jannah by Dr. zakir naik
I also got this one very important to read for selfish muslim men
What Zakir Naik meant is in Paradise, every male and female will be with their companion with “big, beautiful eyes”. And their companion is their own worldly spouse with whom they will be united. In other words, people in Jannah will have attributes of beautiful eyes. Bear in mind that Houri, the special creations of Paradise are the servants of the dwellings of Paradise, nothing to do with sexual partner of men or women. The servants of Paradise will be both male and female.
Paradise is a place of justice, and those misunderstandings should simply be avoided.
Just believe firmly in your heart that – it is simply IMPOSSIBLE that Allah is not just to the women in Paradise…all will be equal. (Those explanation to justify the men’s need only is ridiculous. That is a mere brainwash)
Check again all those verses and hadiths — they are man-made explanation included in brackets to arrive to what they desire. Do not believe them — The Quranic word itself NEVER says about (fair maiden or female etc)- those always come in brackets by men!
In quran doesnt tell the amount of hur in. Only in hadith, but hadith can be change and misintrepetation by HUMANS
ok ,,i got question who becames hoor al ayn ,a virgin girl or married women and do married women get their husbands in jannah or different husbands ,,and i heard hoor al ayn are already in jannah ,,and do hoor al ayn receives a husband in jannah,,jazzakallah khair
Hoor al ayn are women that are not worldy women. They are created for Paradise only. they are not virgin girls nor married women. Married women get the man she wants to have in paradise. If it is her husband it will be her husband. If she wants to marry another man, then she will be allowed too. (Don’t have source right away). Hoor al ayn will receibe husbands i Jannah. And they will, as adam and Eve, be married to each other. Men will with other words have more than one woman in Jennah. That is not fair to our jelousy, but Allah is the most Wise and the most compassionate and we have to be patient before we will know what that means.
allah says in the quran he created everything in pairs, human, animals, flowers etc. why would he create hoors just female. men have big beautiful eyes too. hoor is mentioned in quran four times. each time they or them is used to described who will get them. so they are male and female. i have checked it. there are male hoors and female hoors. hoor is plural of orah. they talk about women because women dont be rude to men. if they talk about men. men are very rude about women. it does not say he or them, it says they or them. if you lived for ever, it will be boring looking same forever. heaven is very different where looks can be changed.
Woah…as a Muslim woman I find this so offensive and so disturbing.
Haleema you find this offensive and disturbing? So your basically saying you find the Qur’an and Hadith offensive and disturbing because that’s where all the information comes from, and then you have the nerve to say “as a Muslim woman”, what part of what you said was “Muslim”? You clearly have no knowledge or understanding that’s why you have said what you said. Everything in the Qur’an and Hadith is right, with knowledge comes understanding, which you clearly don’t have either of. Be very careful with what you say when it comes to Islam because by saying the wrong things an individual can step out of the folds of Islam and step in to Kufar, and I have not in no way implied that you have, just warning you. Learn Islam, seek knowledge and understanding because its clear you Imaan is very weak. Allah help you Insha’Allah.
Look the truth about hur by Actually the word “Hoor” is a plural for both “Ahwar” which is applicable to the man and “Hawar” which is applicable to the women. And “Hawar” means ‘big, white beautiful eye” and it specially describes the whiteness of eye. . And it is rightly translated by ‘Abdullah Yusuf Ali’ that hoor means ‘companion’. Therefore “Hoor” actually means a ‘companion’ or a ‘spouse’’ It has no gender. Thus on paradise women will get a good man with big beautiful eyes. And man will get a good lady with big beautiful eyes. Look up on you tube what women get in jannah by Dr. zakir naik
I also got this one very important to read for selfish muslim men
What Zakir Naik meant is in Paradise, every male and female will be with their companion with “big, beautiful eyes”. And their companion is their own worldly spouse with whom they will be united. In other words, people in Jannah will have attributes of beautiful eyes. Bear in mind that Houri, the special creations of Paradise are the servants of the dwellings of Paradise, nothing to do with sexual partner of men or women. The servants of Paradise will be both male and female.
Paradise is a place of justice, and those misunderstandings should simply be avoided.
Just believe firmly in your heart that – it is simply IMPOSSIBLE that Allah is not just to the women in Paradise…all will be equal. (Those explanation to justify the men’s need only is ridiculous. That is a mere brainwash)
Check again all those verses and hadiths — they are man-made explanation included in brackets to arrive to what they desire. Do not believe them — The Quranic word itself NEVER says about (fair maiden or female etc)- those always come in brackets by me
by men
well haleema ans to your question is very simple .as a Muslim men and women we believe in Allah all mighty and when he has promised that every desire of men and women will be fulfilled in jannah so whats the issue.Allah knows better than us what a men or a women need.And with out any doubt a women will be happy with a huge collection of beautiful clothes and jewelry ,shoes ,make up stuff etc.and for a man the biggest reward is nothing else but a kind beautiful lady as explained (hoor). nothing excites a man more than a beautiful young girl.and Allah almighty knows that very well cause he our creator he has created men like that. so the same applies for women he knows what she wants and he will make u happy so just keep your focus on earning jannah. And one thing i can never understand is why women always compare them selves with men. they r not the same they have different roles and obviously men had a more difficult role to play in this world
so thats the reason he is gettin a edge over women when it comes to reward in jannah.and i m sorry to say but as far as i understand women they r never satisfied always complaining .and a good news for men in jannah will be the women in jannah will be kind and polite hahahaha no fights what a relief wao.( Allah plz guide me to the right path, the path which will guide me to jannah ameen) specially after reading such details about hurs.
They have different roles in this life. But will that keep happening after death for ever. Life will change into pleasant life. Men and women will not be different. They will be able to do whatever they want. But not yet. Here just worry about having lots of children so generations could carry on. Soon you will be a helpless oldie who will need your children nothing in life will be useful but children so love them they are cute. No children means end of life. Once you were children of somebody, they are gone or going. So you are next to go away.
Since when did men have a more difficult role to women?
from the very beginning of this world.men had more responsibilities for example to earn
,to fight in the in path of allah, women role is more like a companion she is dependent on men,cuz allah gives that responsibility to men to take care of her wife and children. bottom line is . men has given more power, and with power comes more responsibility,with responsibility comes accountability.i hope u understand now.
i know women had difficulties ,and my purpose is not to degrade women, “wajood e zen sy hai tasweer e kainat mai rung”
I think men depend on women. Women brings and shapes the society. But farmer, tailer, builder, teacher, doctor they are all looked down at. World is a cruel place file of half witted people. You have to fight for justice. fighting for justice is the best job.
well if your wife rewards in jannah is a male hur then trust u will be complaining. Of course they will be complaining if their reward sharing husband. My question is will u be complain if the other way around? SHIT YES
lol you think a woman will be more satisfied with a diamond necklace than a beautiful man? You are misguided about women.
I want anime boys. Can i have them? I want a reversed harem in jannah?
Men think that’s fair cause, actresses and models show off to people who don’t have it in this life. But complaining half witted mullah forget there be male actors and models too with them. Intact they start the whole thing. Singers sing songs and want to make girls go crazy for them. Men spend money on women and protect them physically as women expect that from men. Men are not superior to women and women are inferior. Men are senior to women and women are junior only in some matters. In some cases women have more worth then men as being a mother. But sexulity come diferent to all men and women. It is not only all men who have more sexual capability, it is not all women who have less sexual capability. It is proven. But they both make mistakes or mismatched. In our society people be painfully shy and don’t consider these things.they just guess or believe in hearsay. Women themselves play hard to get, want money and protection that’s their nature.
Look the truth about hur by Actually the word “Hoor” is a plural for both “Ahwar” which is applicable to the man and “Hawar” which is applicable to the women. And “Hawar” means ‘big, white beautiful eye” and it specially describes the whiteness of eye. . And it is rightly translated by ‘Abdullah Yusuf Ali’ that hoor means ‘companion’. Therefore “Hoor” actually means a ‘companion’ or a ‘spouse’’ It has no gender. Thus on paradise women will get a good man with big beautiful eyes. And man will get a good lady with big beautiful eyes. Look up on you tube what women get in jannah by Dr. zakir naik
I also got this one very important to read for selfish muslim men
What Zakir Naik meant is in Paradise, every male and female will be with their companion with “big, beautiful eyes”. And their companion is their own worldly spouse with whom they will be united. In other words, people in Jannah will have attributes of beautiful eyes. Bear in mind that Houri, the special creations of Paradise are the servants of the dwellings of Paradise, nothing to do with sexual partner of men or women. The servants of Paradise will be both male and female.
Paradise is a place of justice, and those misunderstandings should simply be avoided.
Just believe firmly in your heart that – it is simply IMPOSSIBLE that Allah is not just to the women in Paradise…all will be equal. (Those explanation to justify the men’s need only is ridiculous. That is a mere brainwash)
Check again all those verses and hadiths — they are man-made explanation included in brackets to arrive to what they desire. Do not believe them — The Quranic word itself NEVER says about (fair maiden or female etc)- those always come in brackets by men!
totally agreed james…i am tired , telling every women that hoors mean best campanion than why women are stuffing their heads by thinking tht hoors are just for men…if u women do good in dunya u will surely get hoors and all what u want